woman who cannot sleep

I’ve always been the type to pack every day full—late nights, early mornings, and hitting the ground running the moment I wake up. Even when I’m asleep, I never feel fully at rest. My mind keeps racing, my body stays tense, and I wake up drained, not refreshed. Over time, I’ve realized that never truly resting isn’t just exhausting—it takes a serious toll on your body and mind.

Sleep That Doesn’t Recharge

It’s easy to think that getting seven or eight hours of sleep is enough. But when you’re never fully relaxed, those hours don’t count. Tossing and turning, waking up multiple times, or just lying there thinking about everything you “have to do” prevents your body from entering deep, restorative sleep. The result? Chronic fatigue that no amount of coffee or energy drinks can fix.

How It Affects Your Mind

When your brain never gets a proper break, it shows. I notice it in memory lapses, poor focus, and a growing sense of anxiety that never seems to leave. Stress hormones stay high, leaving you in a constant state of fight-or-flight—even during moments meant for rest. For me, this mental strain is the hardest part. Even when I try to relax, my mind won’t let me.

Physical Consequences

Chronic lack of rest isn’t just in your head—it affects your body too. Immune function drops, aches and pains worsen, and long-term risks like high blood pressure or heart issues quietly increase. I’ve learned the hard way that pushing through fatigue day after day can leave lasting damage, even if it doesn’t feel urgent now.

The Vicious Cycle

The more exhausted you feel, the harder you push. Early mornings, late nights, juggling multiple responsibilities, caffeine—these all feel like survival strategies. But the harder you push, the more impossible true rest becomes. It’s a cycle that feeds itself, and breaking it takes awareness and effort.

Related: How I Start the Year Calm

Finding Real Rest

Rest isn’t just about lying down. For me, it means actively creating space for my mind and body to recover. That could be setting a bedtime routine, unplugging from screens, taking a short nap, or practicing breathing exercises. It’s not laziness—it’s repair.

The Takeaway

Never fully resting doesn’t just make daily life harder—it slowly erodes your mental, emotional, and physical health. I’ve lived it, and I can tell you: prioritizing rest isn’t optional. Small, intentional steps to truly recharge can make a world of difference. You deserve to wake up feeling like yourself again.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

winter in the south

January Feels Like a Practical Joke

It’s January, and it’s almost 80 degrees. You throw on a hoodie thinking you’ll be cold, but the sun hits, and suddenly you’re sweating. That’s Southern winter—more mood swing than season. One day, you’re wrapped up in blankets. The next, you’re outside grilling.

Snow? Rare. Ice? Legendary.

Forget the Northern winter nightmares. Snow is a rumor, and ice storms are the kind of drama that shuts down half the state for a day and then vanishes. Most Southern winters are mild, unpredictable, and just enough to keep you guessing.

Winter Habits, Southern Style

We don’t hibernate—we adapt. Flip-flops in January? Yep. Sneaking seeds into the garden? Absolutely. Long drives, porch hangs, and back-yard grills are still on the menu. Even winter recipes get a sun-kissed twist—cornbread, chili, stew—but somehow, you’re still outside enjoying it.

The Sneaky Magic of Southern Winter

Southern winter isn’t harsh; it’s sneaky. Early blooms appear, the air feels soft, and life slows down just enough to notice it. There’s a freedom in it that Northern winters don’t give you—no scraping ice, no frozen toes—just a strange, fleeting season that somehow feels like home.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

winter cleaning

When the temperature drops and the air turns crisp, my cleaning routine changes. Winter brings unique challenges for keeping my home cozy, clean, and healthy. Here’s what I focus on differently during the colder months.

Tackle the Entryway First

Winter means boots, coats, and muddy paws tracking in snow, salt, and dirt. I sweep and mop entryways more often than in summer. A good doormat and a small boot tray help keep the mess contained. I also wipe down coat hooks and hangers to prevent salt and grime buildup.

Keep Air Quality in Check

Dry indoor air is a winter challenge. I clean air vents, replace filters, and dust surfaces more thoroughly to reduce allergens and dust circulation. Using a humidifier in bedrooms and common areas helps prevent dry skin, chapped lips, and respiratory irritation.

Focus on the Kitchen

Comfort foods, soups, and baking mean more mess in the kitchen. I deep-clean countertops, stovetops, and the inside of the fridge weekly. Spilled sugar or flour attracts pests, which I make sure to avoid by wiping down surfaces and sweeping crumbs regularly.

Bathroom Maintenance Shifts

Cold weather keeps showers shorter and windows closed, increasing humidity and the risk of mildew. I pay extra attention to scrubbing shower tiles, sinks, and faucets. Wiping down surfaces after each use reduces water spots and keeps bathrooms smelling fresh.

Laundry Adjustments

Winter clothes are heavier—think sweaters, jeans, and hoodies. I wash my winter clothes more often. Sweaters and coats get gentle care, and I make sure hats and gloves don’t get ruined.

Floors Take Priority

Leaves, slush, and mud can ruin floors fast. I vacuum and mop high-traffic areas frequently. Rugs and runners near entrances get shaken out or washed more often. For wood floors, I use a damp mop rather than soaking to avoid warping from winter moisture.

Seasonal Extras

Winter is a great time for cleaning tasks we often forget: wiping down baseboards, dusting ceiling fans, and cleaning light fixtures. These tasks make the home feel brighter and more welcoming during the shorter, darker days.

Winter cleaning isn’t just about tidiness—it’s about comfort, safety, and making your home feel warm and inviting during the cold months. Adjusting routines for the season keeps both the home and the people inside happy.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

garden area

Becoming more self-sufficient is something we’ve been thinking about seriously, not as a trend but as a long-term goal. Rising food costs, supply issues, and a growing desire to rely less on outside systems have pushed us to start preparing now rather than waiting until it feels urgent.

One of the most important parts of that preparation is food. Learning how to grow and preserve our own food through gardening and canning feels like a practical, achievable place to start. The goal isn’t perfection or doing everything at once. It’s education, planning, and building skills that can grow over time.

Why Gardening and Canning Are the Foundation

Gardening gives you control over what you grow and how it’s produced. Canning ensures that work doesn’t go to waste and allows you to stock a pantry that supports your household year-round. Together, they create food security and reduce dependence on constant grocery store trips.

Starting now gives us time to learn without pressure, make mistakes safely, and build confidence before investing heavily in supplies or expanding production.

Learning Before Doing

Before buying seeds or jars, education comes first. Understanding soil, climate, planting schedules, and food safety makes everything else easier and far less overwhelming.

Books remain one of the most reliable resources, especially for canning where safety matters. Gardening guides specific to Texas and trusted preservation manuals help cut through misinformation and avoid risky shortcuts.

Understanding Our Growing Area

Living in Central Texas means gardening comes with both advantages and challenges. We have a long growing season, mild winters, and intense summer heat. Spring and fall gardens are both possible, but crop selection and timing matter.

Knowing our USDA hardiness zone, average frost dates, and which plants tolerate heat helps shape the entire plan, from seed choices to planting schedules.

Building on Past Gardening Experience

This isn’t our first experience with gardening. In the past, we’ve had consistent success with squash, bell peppers, jalapeños, cucumbers, tomatoes, onions, and okra. Even without a perfect setup, these crops have done well for us, which gives us a solid foundation to build on.

That experience matters. Instead of starting from scratch, the focus now is on expanding intentionally. We already know what works in our climate, so the goal is to add variety, improve planning, and grow with preservation and storage in mind.

Planning the Garden Before Buying Seeds

A productive garden starts with a plan, not impulse purchases. Knowing how much space is available, how much sun the area gets, and how much time can realistically be committed each week prevents frustration later.

Just as important is growing food we actually use and know how to preserve. Gardening for self-sufficiency means thinking beyond harvest and planning for storage.

Basic Garden Planning Checklist

  • Measure available growing space
  • Decide on in-ground beds, raised beds, or containers
  • Track daily sun exposure
  • Choose crops with preservation in mind
  • Plan planting dates and succession crops
  • Leave room for mistakes and learning

Easy Vegetables to Grow and Can in Central Texas

Some vegetables are simply more forgiving than others, especially for gardeners who want reliable results.

Tomatoes are versatile and ideal for sauces, salsas, and juice. Green beans grow quickly and pressure can well. Peppers thrive in the heat and can be pickled or canned. Cucumbers are productive and perfect for pickling. Okra handles Texas summers effortlessly and preserves well. Squash and zucchini produce heavily and freeze or can easily. Onions store well and are used in nearly every preservation recipe.

These crops will remain staples in the plan because they’re dependable and useful.

Expanding Beyond the Basics

While those reliable vegetables will stay part of the garden, adding new crops increases flexibility and variety.

Additional vegetables worth incorporating include carrots, bush beans, sweet potatoes, beets, Swiss chard, and herbs like basil and oregano. These pair well with existing crops and open the door to more canning, freezing, drying, and everyday cooking options.

Vegetables That Grow Well in Planters and Containers

Not everything needs to be planted in the ground. Container gardening allows for flexibility, better soil control, and easier pest management. It also makes it possible to grow more food without expanding the footprint of the main garden.

Peppers, tomatoes (especially determinate or patio varieties), cucumbers with trellises, bush beans, leafy greens like lettuce and spinach, radishes, green onions, and herbs all grow well in planters. Larger containers can also support dwarf squash varieties and even sweet potatoes when given enough space.

Incorporating more container gardening into the plan makes it easier to experiment with new crops while keeping things manageable.

Starting Seeds Indoors

Starting seeds indoors allows for stronger plants and better control, especially for heat-loving vegetables like tomatoes and peppers. With the right timing and setup, it’s also more cost-effective than buying transplants.

Basic supplies include seed trays, quality seed-starting mix, proper lighting, and labels. Timing matters, and seedlings need to be hardened off before moving outdoors to avoid shock.

First-Year Canning Goals

The first year of canning isn’t about filling shelves wall to wall. It’s about learning safe techniques and building confidence.

Focusing on a few reliable recipes like tomato sauce, pickles, green beans, and tested salsa recipes keeps the process manageable. Mastering both water bath and pressure canning methods slowly lays the groundwork for expanding later.

Basic Canning Supplies Checklist

  • Water bath canner
  • Pressure canner
  • Mason jars
  • New lids
  • Jar lifter
  • Funnel
  • Bubble remover

Creating a Realistic First-Year Plan

Trying to do too much at once is the fastest way to burn out. A better approach is to limit the number of crops, take notes throughout the season, and review what worked at the end.

End-of-Season Review Checklist

  • Which crops produced best
  • Which struggled and why
  • What we actually used and preserved
  • What to repeat next year
  • What to remove from the plan

Moving Forward With Intention

Self-sufficiency isn’t a destination. It’s a process built through preparation, patience, and consistency. By building on past gardening success, expanding into new crops and container gardening, and learning preservation skills now, we’re creating a foundation that can grow year after year.

This is about progress, not perfection, and about starting before it feels urgent.

slow mornings

Reflecting, Not Overthinking
I like to spend the first morning of the year reflecting quietly. I don’t write long lists of resolutions or force a complete life overhaul. Instead, I think about the small wins from the past year and what I want more of in the coming months. I consider relationships, health, and moments that brought me peace. Reflection isn’t about judgment or guilt; it’s about clarity. It’s acknowledging where I am and where I want to gently steer my energy.

Rituals That Ground Me
Certain rituals help me start the year calm. A simple cup of hot tea, a short walk outside, or lighting a candle in my favorite scent creates a sense of familiarity and comfort. These small actions signal to my mind that I am in control of how I enter this new chapter. Rituals don’t have to be elaborate—they just need to be meaningful enough to anchor me in the present.

Setting Intentions, Not Rules
Instead of rigid resolutions, I focus on intentions. Intentions are flexible and realistic, guiding me without creating pressure. For example, I intend to be more present with family, to carve out moments for creativity, or to prioritize rest when I need it. Framing goals this way keeps the start of the year gentle, encouraging growth without stress.

Slowing Down, Not Rushing Forward
One of the most important ways I stay calm is by slowing down. The first few days of January aren’t for rushing or overcommitting. I give myself permission to ease back into routines, to savor quiet mornings, and to move at my own pace. By starting slow, I carry a sense of calm into the weeks ahead.

A Mindset of Calm
Starting the year calm isn’t about doing everything perfectly; it’s about choosing peace over chaos. It’s letting go of what I can’t control and leaning into what matters. For me, calm comes from reflection, ritual, and patience. It’s a mindset more than an action, and it sets a tone that lasts long after the calendar flips.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

New Years Day Kitchen

New Year’s Eve didn’t come in loud or chaotic this year, per usual for us. There was no rushing, no pressure to stay up for the sake of tradition, no packed plans demanding energy we didn’t have.

Instead, we eased into the last night of the year with snacks, basketball on the TV, and that familiar fight to keep our eyes open just long enough to say we did it. Midnight came and went softly. We barely made it, kissed right on time, then stood watching the neighbors celebrate in true fashion.

Fireworks lit the sky. A few firearms joined in. It’s Texas after all.

By 12:15, we were in bed, done for the night, perfectly content.

New Year’s Day: Slow Mornings and Comfort Traditions

We let ourselves sleep in on New Year’s Day, no alarms, no guilt. When we finally made it out of bed, the day stayed just as relaxed as the night before.

I cooked one of my favorite New Year traditions: black-eyed peas, cabbage, and cornbread. It’s a meal rooted in hope and symbolism, passed down through generations, especially in the South.

Black-eyed peas are believed to bring good luck and prosperity. Cabbage represents wealth, although it has yet to find us. Cornbread, with its golden color, symbolizes abundance and comfort.

Santiago decided to switch things up this year. Instead of the usual ham, he made baby back ribs. I don’t eat pork, so it was fine with me.

A Day of Rest (And UFOs)

After eating, we didn’t suddenly become productive or ambitious. We leaned into the laziness and stayed in bed most of the day, watching UFO documentaries and laughing at ourselves for how invested we were. By the way, there have been a lot of weird occurrences in Texas – just saying.

There was something grounding about letting the first day of the year be slow. No expectations. No lists. Just rest, curiosity, and being together.

Sometimes the best way to start fresh is to not rush at all.

New Year Superstitions and Why I Still Love Them

Even though the day was laid-back, I still made time for a few New Year rituals that feel meaningful to me.

I blew cinnamon at the front door, sprinkled salt on the doorsteps, opened a window, and burned sage and incense throughout the house.

Blowing cinnamon is believed to invite abundance and prosperity into the home for the year ahead. Cinnamon has long been associated with warmth, protection, and financial luck. Sprinkling salt is said to ward off negative energy and create a protective barrier. Opening a window releases the past year and allows the new one to enter your home. Sage and incense have been used for centuries to cleanse spaces, remove stagnant energy, and reset intentions.

Do I believe these rituals control the year ahead? Not exactly. But I do believe in intention. In pausing. In choosing to start the year thoughtfully instead of mindlessly.

These moments create a mental reset, and sometimes that’s just as powerful.

Sunshine, Decluttering, and a Fresh Start Ahead

Tomorrow is supposed to be sunny and nearly 80 degrees, which feels like a gift in early January. That weather alone has me motivated to start packing away the Christmas decorations.

Not all of them though.

The tree stays up until after the 6th. That’s non-negotiable.

I’m ready to deep clean, reset the house, and clear the clutter that always sneaks in during the holidays. A clean space makes my mind calmer, and right now my need for structure is loud.

I’m also ready to get back to work and focus on my businesses. The break was good, but I thrive on routine, and my OCD has been begging for a regular schedule again.

Loving the Break, Ready for the Routine

Santiago heads back to work Monday after being off since Christmas Eve. I’m going to miss having him home during the day, but I also know we both do better when life settles back into its rhythm.

There’s comfort in knowing what comes next. Comfort in structure. Comfort in showing up consistently for the things we’re building.

Stepping Into 2026 With Intention

This New Year didn’t begin with noise or chaos. It began with rest, reflection, tradition, and quiet hope. And maybe that’s exactly what 2026 needed from us.

I’m not charging into this year at full speed. I’m stepping into it calmly, intentionally, and ready.

And that feels like a really good way to begin.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

New Year 2026

I don’t make New Year’s resolutions anymore. They’ve always felt temporary, like promises made with good intentions and broken once real life kicks in. What I focus on now are intentions. Intentions give me direction without the pressure of perfection, and at this stage of my life, direction matters more than anything else.

Building Steady Income and Creative Growth

One of my biggest intentions for the new year is continuing to grow and stabilize my income. I’m always looking for ways to expand my income streams because relying on just one source has never felt smart or secure. I have several things in the works for Southern Bred Crime Junkie, and I’m hopeful this is the year those efforts truly start to pay off.

Mama Crow’s Wax Melts is always close to my heart. I want more sales, more consistency, and more people discovering the products I pour so much time and care into. Above all, I want work to remain steady. No feast-or-famine cycles. Just reliable work that allows me to plan, breathe, and move forward with confidence.

Hoping This Is the Year We Move to the Country

One of my strongest hopes this year is finally moving to the country. I want space, quiet, and room to grow in ways that just aren’t possible where we are now. I want land, less noise, and the kind of peace that comes from not feeling boxed in by the world.

Along with that dream comes a growing interest in homesteading skills. I don’t want to depend on the government or outside systems more than absolutely necessary. I’m not a conspiracy theorist, but I am a realist. The more self-sufficient we can be, the better prepared we are for whatever comes next.

Learning the Skills My Grandparents Lived By

I’ve always loved growing things. That’s something my grandparents passed down to me early, even if I didn’t fully appreciate it at the time. Gardens were part of my childhood, and so was the quiet rhythm of planting, tending, and harvesting.

My grandma canned vegetables like it was second nature. She could pull jars off a shelf year-round from one good summer garden. I wish I had paid more attention back then, but maybe this is life bringing me back around to lessons I wasn’t ready to learn as a kid.

Why Self-Sufficiency Matters More Now

Between my age, the economy, and my health, this interest in self-reliance isn’t a trend or a phase. It feels necessary. It feels grounded. I’m not preparing out of fear. I’m preparing out of awareness and experience.

I want to know how to grow food, preserve it, and rely more on what we can do for ourselves. That kind of knowledge feels empowering, not extreme.

Health, Spirituality, and Connection

Good health is always part of my intentions. Not just surviving or getting through the day, but actually feeling well enough to enjoy the life I’m building. I also want more spirituality this year, not in a rigid or performative way, but in a deeper, more connected way.

I want to slow down, listen more, and strengthen my connection to the universe. Less rushing. Less noise. More trust in the process.

Celebrating 17 Years Together

This year marks our 17th anniversary, and that feels like a quiet but meaningful milestone. It’s not flashy. It’s solid. It’s built on choosing each other over and over again, even when life gets messy.

A stronger relationship is always on my list. Growth doesn’t stop just because time passes. It takes intention, just like everything else worth having.

Moving Into the New Year With Purpose

So this is what I’m carrying into the new year: steady work, deeper roots, better health, stronger faith, and the willingness to learn old skills in a new season of life.

No resolutions.
Just clear intentions—and the commitment to show up for them.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

new year planner

The beginning of a new year carries a certain quiet magic. It’s not loud like resolutions shouted into the January air. It’s softer. Slower. More thoughtful. Starting the year with intention isn’t about changing everything overnight. It’s about choosing how you want to show up and letting that guide your steps.

Why Intention Matters More Than Resolutions

Resolutions often focus on fixing what feels broken. Intention focuses on alignment. Instead of saying, “I have to do better,” intention asks, “What feels right for me this season of life?”

Intentions leave room for grace. They understand that growth is rarely a straight line. When life throws curveballs, intention allows flexibility without guilt.

Reflect Before You Move Forward

Before setting intentions, take time to look back. Reflection creates clarity.

Ask yourself what worked last year and what didn’t. Notice where you felt peace and where you felt drained. Pay attention to patterns, not just moments.

This reflection isn’t about judgment. It’s about understanding yourself better so you can move forward with purpose.

Choose Intentions That Feel Grounded

Intentions should feel steady, not overwhelming. They should support your life, not compete with it.

Examples of intentional themes include choosing presence over busyness, prioritizing rest without apology, or creating space for creativity. These aren’t tasks. They’re ways of living.

When your intention feels grounded, it becomes easier to return to it when motivation fades.

Create Small Daily Anchors

Big change often starts with tiny habits. Daily anchors help keep your intention alive.

This could look like five quiet minutes in the morning, journaling before bed, or setting boundaries around your time. The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is consistency.

Anchors act as reminders of who you’re becoming, even on messy days.

Release the Pressure to Do It All

Starting the year with intention means letting go of unrealistic expectations. You don’t need a perfectly mapped-out year. You don’t need to have everything figured out by January.

Growth unfolds in layers. Some intentions will evolve. Others may fall away. That’s not failure. That’s wisdom.

Give yourself permission to move at your own pace.

Let Intention Guide, Not Control

Intentions aren’t rules. They’re guideposts. When decisions come up, ask whether they align with how you want to feel and live this year.

If the answer is no, it’s okay to step back. If the answer is yes, move forward with confidence.

Living intentionally creates a year that feels meaningful, not rushed.

A Gentle Start Is Still a Strong One

You don’t need a dramatic transformation to have a powerful year. Sometimes the strongest choice is starting quietly, intentionally, and with self-trust.

This year doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be yours.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

xmas morning

If your family Christmas looks anything like mine, you already know what’s coming. Once everyone leaves Christmas Eve night, the house is absolutely wrecked. We’re talking a dozen adults, fifteen kids, food everywhere, wrapping paper in places it shouldn’t be, and that weird sticky spot on the floor no one will admit to creating. The mess is inevitable, but the misery doesn’t have to be.

Prepping for post-holiday cleanup before the chaos starts is the difference between a manageable reset and feeling overwhelmed for days.

Accept That the Mess Is Coming

First things first: stop pretending it won’t be that bad. When you plan with realism, you clean smarter. Kids will tear through gifts like raccoons. Adults will set drinks down wherever feels convenient. Food will travel far beyond the kitchen. Accepting this upfront helps you set up systems instead of scrambling afterward.

Set Up Trash and Recycling Stations

This is the single biggest game changer. Before guests arrive, place large trash bags or bins in obvious spots: near the tree, in the kitchen, and close to gift-opening areas. If you recycle cardboard and wrapping paper, label a box just for that.

When people don’t have to hunt for a trash can, they actually use it. That alone cuts cleanup time in half.

Simplify Your Table and Serving Setup

Use disposable table covers, napkins, and serving trays where it makes sense. This isn’t the time to bring out heirloom linens or hand-wash-only dishes. Fewer items to clean means less frustration later.

Also, keep a stack of paper towels and wipes within reach. Spills happen fast, and quick cleanups prevent bigger messes later.

Prep a “Morning After” Reset Kit

Before Christmas Eve, gather supplies you’ll want the next day and keep them in one spot. Think trash bags, cleaning wipes, a broom, vacuum, and your favorite all-purpose cleaner. If you burn wax melts or incense, set aside a fresh scent for after cleanup—it helps mentally reset the space.

Waking up knowing everything is ready to go makes the cleanup feel intentional instead of chaotic.

Do a Quick Night Sweep, Not a Deep Clean

Once everyone leaves, don’t try to do everything. Toss obvious trash, collect dishes, and clear walkways. That’s it. The goal is damage control, not perfection. A short sweep keeps the mess from feeling overwhelming in the morning.

Give yourself permission to rest. You’ve earned it.

Tackle Cleanup in Zones the Next Day

Instead of bouncing all over the house, clean one area at a time. Start with the living room and gift debris, then move to the kitchen, then floors. Seeing one space fully reset gives you momentum to keep going.

Put on music, light something cozy, and treat it like a reset ritual instead of punishment.

Plan for Easy Wins

Leave decorations up for a few days. They hide a lot of sins and keep the house feeling festive even if things aren’t perfect yet. The goal isn’t a spotless home—it’s getting your space back without burning yourself out.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

exchanging Christmas gifts

Regifting has a reputation problem. Some people see it as practical and efficient, while others consider it tacky or thoughtless. The truth sits somewhere in the middle. Regifting can be done well, and it can be done very wrong. The difference comes down to intention, awareness, and a little common sense.

I’ll be upfront. I’ve never personally regifted a gift. I’m extremely sentimental, and even the smallest item tends to hold a memory for me. That said, I don’t have an issue with regifting when it’s done thoughtfully. In many cases, it makes far more sense than letting something collect dust in a closet.

The Do’s of Regifting

Do make sure the item is unused and in perfect condition.
If it looks worn, damaged, or incomplete, it’s not a candidate. Regifting should never feel like passing along leftovers.

Do match the gift to the person receiving it.
This matters more than anything else. A gift you couldn’t use might be perfect for someone else. If it suits their taste, lifestyle, or interests, regifting can actually feel intentional.

Do remove all traces of the original giver.
Cards, tags, notes, and even gift wrap should be gone. The recipient should never be able to trace the gift back to someone else.

Do consider timing and context.
Regifting works best when there’s enough distance from the original exchange. Handing someone a regift at the same event or within the same social circle is risky and unnecessary.

Do see regifting as practical, not careless.
When done correctly, regifting reduces waste and gives an item a chance to be appreciated instead of ignored.

The Don’ts of Regifting

Don’t regift something personalized.
Monograms, names, dates, or inside jokes immediately disqualify an item. There’s no salvaging that.

Don’t regift to someone who knows the original giver.
This is how feelings get hurt. Even if you think they won’t notice, it’s not worth the risk.

Don’t regift something you clearly disliked out of spite.
If your only motivation is getting rid of something you hated, it will show. Regifting should feel thoughtful, not dismissive.

Don’t regift sentimental items.
If an item carries emotional weight, even if it wasn’t meaningful to you, it’s better to keep it or donate it quietly.

Don’t lie if you’re directly asked.
You don’t owe anyone an explanation, but if the question comes up, honesty delivered kindly is always better than an awkward lie.

A Thoughtful Takeaway

Regifting isn’t lazy or rude by default. It’s all about execution. While I personally hang onto gifts because of the memories attached to them, I understand why others choose a more practical approach. When regifting is done with care, it can actually be the most considerate option.

At the end of the day, the goal of any gift is for it to be used, enjoyed, and appreciated. If regifting accomplishes that, it’s doing exactly what a gift is meant to do.