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How to Pivot Without Feeling Like You Failed

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Let’s get one thing straight: changing direction doesn’t mean you messed up. Not even close. Pivoting is growth. It’s awareness. It’s bold.

But still, it can feel like failure—especially if you’re someone who likes to follow through, finish strong, or stick with the plan. So, how do you shift gears without dragging around guilt or doubt?

Let’s talk about it.

First, Redefine What “Failure” Actually Means

Most of us were taught that quitting or changing our minds means we failed. But that’s just not true.

In reality, sticking with something that no longer serves you? That’s failure. You grow. Your needs shift. Your goals evolve. So your direction should, too.

If you’re making a pivot, it means you’ve learned something valuable. And that’s always a win.

Next, Remember Why You Started

Before you start beating yourself up, pause and reflect.

Ask yourself: Why did I begin this path in the first place? Maybe it made sense at the time. Maybe it helped you learn a new skill or gain confidence. That experience mattered—even if you’re done with it now.

Often, what felt like the right move back then helped get you to where you are today. That’s not failure. That’s part of the journey.

Then, Focus on What’s Ahead—Not What You’re Leaving

It’s easy to dwell on the time, money, or energy you’ve already invested. Totally normal.

But instead of thinking “I wasted so much,” try shifting that to “Now I know better.”

Where you’re headed next is the whole point of the pivot. If you keep looking in the rearview mirror, you’ll miss what’s ahead. Focus forward.

Be Honest With Yourself (And Others)

Sometimes we hang on just because we don’t want to explain ourselves. But let’s be real—that’s exhausting.

It’s okay to say, “This isn’t right for me anymore.” It’s okay to admit, “I thought I’d love it, but I don’t.”

Honesty doesn’t make you weak. It makes you wise. And when you own your pivot, other people respect it—even if they don’t understand it.

Remind Yourself That Pivoting Takes Courage

Letting go of the familiar is hard. Starting something new? Also hard. So the fact that you’re even considering a pivot is a big deal.

Courage isn’t about never doubting yourself. It’s about moving forward despite the doubts.

Give yourself credit. Not everyone’s brave enough to admit when something isn’t working. But you are.

Give Yourself Time to Adjust

Even when it’s the right move, pivoting can feel uncomfortable at first. That’s totally normal.

New directions take time. Don’t expect instant clarity or perfect results overnight. Give yourself space to figure it out.

Eventually, things start to click—and you’ll be glad you made the change.

Final Thoughts

You don’t need anyone’s permission to pivot. You don’t need to justify it. You don’t have to keep proving anything.

Pivoting doesn’t mean you failed. It means you’re listening to yourself. It means you’re choosing what feels right over what just looks right.

So pivot with pride. You’re not starting over. You’re just starting from experience.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Signs I’m Overdue for a Reset

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Ever wake up and just know something feels off? Like you’re running on fumes and everything’s a blur? Yeah, same. Life gets hectic, and sometimes we don’t even realize we’re long overdue for a reset. But the signs are there—we just have to recognize them.

Let’s talk about the biggest indicators it’s time to hit pause and refresh.

Everything Feels Like a Chore

When brushing your teeth or folding a t-shirt feels exhausting, that’s a sign. Of course, no one loves chores, but if basic tasks feel like climbing a mountain, your body and brain are waving red flags.

Even things you normally enjoy start feeling like obligations. That’s your cue. You’re not lazy. You’re worn out.

You’re Snapping Over Nothing

If a slow driver or a loud chewer makes your blood boil, take notice. Irritability is often the first sign of burnout creeping in.

Sure, we all get annoyed. But when your patience is on a 0-second timer every day, it’s time to recharge.

You Can’t Focus for More Than a Minute

You open your laptop to write an email, and suddenly you’re deep-diving into dog videos. Been there.

When your brain can’t stay on task, it’s not just distraction—it’s fatigue. Mental clutter makes focusing hard. A reset helps clear that fog.

Your Sleep is a Hot Mess

You’re tired all day but wide awake at night. Sound familiar?

Sleep struggles are a major red flag. Whether you’re tossing, turning, or dreaming about missed deadlines, your mind is in overdrive. You’re not just tired—you’re overstimulated and out of balance.

Your Phone Screen Time is Embarrassing

Let’s be real. Doomscrolling isn’t relaxing. If your screen time is creeping into double digits, you’re probably avoiding something.

And that “something” is often your own feelings, burnout, or lack of motivation. Constant scrolling is a quick escape, but it’s not a cure.

You’re Saying “I Don’t Care” Way Too Much

Losing interest in things you usually love is a huge warning sign. If you’re constantly saying, “Whatever,” or “I don’t care,” pay attention.

Detachment isn’t always peace. Sometimes it’s emotional exhaustion in disguise. Your spark is still there—it just needs space to come back.

You Don’t Feel Like Yourself

This one’s big. Maybe you’re still doing all the right things, but it just doesn’t feel like you.

You’re going through the motions, but everything’s kind of dull. No motivation. No excitement. Just autopilot.

When your own reflection feels like a stranger, it’s time to check in with yourself.

So, What’s the Fix?

A reset doesn’t mean you have to disappear for a week or take a fancy trip. It can be small but intentional.

Take a day off social media. Clean your space. Move your body. Journal what’s on your mind. Take a nap without guilt. Drink more water. Say no more often. Get outside.

The key is to give yourself permission to slow down and reconnect. A reset is about you—what you need, what you’re missing, and how you want to feel again.

Final Thoughts

Recognizing the signs of burnout is a superpower. It means you’re self-aware. It means you’re ready to take back control of your energy and mindset.

So next time you feel off, don’t ignore it. Listen. Reset. Repeat.

You’ve got this.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why I Don’t Work a “Normal” 9–5 Schedule

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I have always done exactly what I want. I just can’t fathom asking someone if I can go to the restroom or have a day off at this point in my life. I also have a hard time imagining spending 40 hours at a job slaving to make the owners rich. I’m way too hard-headed.

I’ve Never Been a “Typical Job” Kind of Person

I’ve had very few “normal” jobs in my life. The idea of clocking in at 9 and out at 5 never felt like a fit. For most of my adult life, I’ve worked for myself—whether that meant running my own business or taking on 1099 contract work.

Family Was My Why

The reason I chose this path came down to one non-negotiable: my kids. With six of them, there was always something happening. Events, appointments, after-school activities—you name it. I refused to miss out. I didn’t want them to have to say no to things just because I couldn’t make it work with a job. That wasn’t going to happen on my watch.

Why I Chose Cosmetology

That commitment to being present is what pushed me toward cosmetology. Becoming a hairstylist and manicurist meant I could set my own schedule. I could make money and still be available when my kids needed me. If I wanted to take off for a sporting event or cancel appointments for a sick day, I could. That kind of freedom? Game-changer.

Remote Work Before It Was Cool

In 2012, I made another big leap—into remote work. Back then, hardly anyone in my area was working from home. I was definitely one of the first. Most people didn’t even understand what I was doing. I’d get confused looks when I said I worked online. But I saw the future, and I wasn’t waiting around for others to catch up.

Building a Life on My Terms

Remote work opened up an entirely new world for me. I could work early in the morning, late at night, or whenever I had a gap in my day. It let me continue to be there for my family without sacrificing income. And more than that, it gave me ownership over my time.

I Still Don’t Work the Way Most People Do

Even now, when remote work is way more accepted, I still don’t follow a typical schedule. I’ve been doing this for over a decade, and I’ve figured out a rhythm that actually works for my life. I start early, get my priorities in order, and fit work into the pockets of time that make sense. I don’t need a time clock to tell me when I’m productive.

My Life, My Rules

Choosing not to work a 9–5 doesn’t mean I’m lazy or don’t take my work seriously. It means I’ve been intentional about creating a life that fits me. One where I don’t have to compromise the things that matter most.

If you’re wondering if it’s possible to break out of the “normal” work mold—it is. I’ve done it. And I’d do it all over again in a heartbeat.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

How I Create Content on Empty-Brain Days

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Let’s be real—some days, the creative spark just isn’t there. You sit at your desk. You stare at the screen. And your brain? Crickets.

I’ve been there. Way more times than I’d like to admit. But over the years, I’ve found a few tricks that help me push through—even when my brain feels like a wrung-out sponge.

So, if you’re sitting there thinking, “I’ve got nothing,” keep reading. I promise it gets better.

I Start With a Brain Dump

When I feel stuck, I stop trying to be clever. I grab a notebook or open a blank document and just let my thoughts spill out. No pressure, no fancy sentences, no goal—just writing.

Sometimes I list random to-dos. Other times, I vent about how I’m stuck. The magic here isn’t in what I write—it’s that I’m writing something. Anything. It gets the wheels turning without the stress of creating something “good.”

I Revisit Old Ideas

After the brain dump, I’ll scroll through my old idea lists—the ones I jotted down and forgot about. Most of the time, I find a title or half-formed thought that sparks something.

Maybe I wasn’t ready to write that post before, but now it clicks. And if it doesn’t? I might still borrow a piece of it to start something fresh. It’s way easier than starting from scratch.

Templates Are My Besties

If I’m really dragging, I grab a template. Not a cookie-cutter one—but a structure that helps me get moving. For example, a simple “5 Tips” list or a “How-To” format gives my brain a path to follow.

Having a format takes away the overwhelming feeling of endless possibility. It narrows my focus just enough to make progress. And once I’m rolling, the creative energy tends to follow.

I Talk It Out

When typing isn’t working, I open the voice recorder on my phone and start talking. I pretend I’m explaining the topic to a friend or answering a question someone asked me.

This method lets my thoughts flow more naturally. Later, I go back, transcribe what I said, and clean it up. Surprisingly, some of my favorite lines come from these unfiltered rambles.

I Change My Scenery

Nothing dries up my creativity faster than staying in the same place all day. If I’ve been sitting at my desk too long, I move. I might go sit outside, switch to the kitchen table, or even write from the floor with a blanket.

The change doesn’t have to be dramatic. Just shifting my physical space often helps shift my mental space too. A fresh view can lead to fresh ideas.

I Let Go of Perfect

This one’s the hardest, but it makes the biggest difference. When I feel blocked, it’s usually because I’m chasing perfection on the first try. That’s a losing game.

Now, I give myself permission to write something messy, even bad. Because messy drafts lead to something real. And real can be edited. A blank page? That’s impossible to work with.

Final Thoughts

Creating content when your brain feels empty is hard—but it’s not impossible. You don’t have to wait for inspiration. You just need momentum.

Start with anything. Use old notes. Try a template. Talk it out. Change your space. But most of all, let go of the need to be perfect. The ideas are still in there. You just need a way to shake them loose.

And once you do, you’ll be surprised at what you create—even on the emptiest of days.

Related: Apps That Make My Life Way Easier (and a Few That Waste My Time)

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Apps That Make My Life Way Easier (and a Few That Waste My Time)

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Let’s be honest. We all download apps hoping they’ll make life easier. Sometimes they do—and sometimes, well, they just eat up storage and sanity. I’ve tested a lot of them, especially as someone who works online, creates content, and has about 47 tabs open in my brain at all times.

Here’s a list of the apps I swear by (and a few that might look helpful but are really just time-wasters in disguise).

The MVPs: Apps That Save My Sanity

Canva

Canva is basically my design fairy godmother. Whether I’m creating graphics for blog posts, Instagram stories, or Pinterest pins, Canva is my go-to. It’s so easy to use that it almost feels unfair. There’s no learning curve, just drag, drop, and boom—graphics that look like I spent hours on them. I didn’t.

ChatGPT

Seriously, this app is like a supercharged assistant. Need blog ideas? Quick grammar check? A better way to phrase something? It’s right there. It helps me work faster and stay focused—two things that don’t always happen on their own.

CapCut

CapCut has made video editing actually fun. Whether I’m chopping up a reel, adding captions, or trying out a trending sound, it’s all super intuitive. Bonus: you don’t need a fancy editing background to make it work. If you’re doing any kind of short-form video, this one’s a must.

Later

Later helps me plan out my social media like a grown-up. I can drag and drop posts, schedule them ahead of time, and actually see what my feed will look like. No more last-minute panic posting or forgetting hashtags. It keeps me on track—especially when my brain is anything but organized.

Pinterest

This one’s tricky. Pinterest is both a productivity tool and a black hole. When I’m using it to plan blog content, schedule pins, or brainstorm visuals? Super helpful. When I accidentally fall into a rabbit hole of DIY pantry labels or “what to pack for Paris in the spring”? There goes my day.

The Time-Wasters (Sorry, Not Sorry)

Now, let’s talk about the apps that promise the world and deliver… meh.

Those Fake Productivity Apps

You know the ones. They have pretty dashboards, calming colors, and quotes about crushing goals. But instead of helping, they turn into a full-time job to manage. I spent more time customizing the planner than actually getting things done. If your “productivity” app takes longer to set up than your actual task, it’s not the vibe.

Overly Complicated Editing Apps

Some video and photo editing apps are just doing too much. I’m all for options, but if I need a YouTube tutorial to figure out how to crop a clip, I’m out. Give me simple and effective every time.

Every “Habit Tracker” I’ve Ever Tried

Don’t come for me—but most habit trackers just end up making me feel bad. I miss one day, and suddenly I’m spiraling. I get the appeal, but personally? A sticky note and a highlighter work better.

Final Thoughts

Apps should make your life easier, not harder. The good ones save time, spark creativity, and keep you moving forward. The not-so-good ones? They look cute on your home screen but rarely pull their weight.

So here’s to finding tools that actually help—and deleting the ones that don’t.

What apps can’t you live without (or regret downloading)? Let me know—I’m always up for trying something new… unless it’s another habit tracker.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Embracing the Energy of the Pink Full Moon

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The Pink Full Moon rises in April and signals the heart of spring. Despite its name, it doesn’t appear pink. Its name comes from the blooming of wild pink phlox, one of the first spring flowers.

The moon represents growth, renewal, and the beauty of transformation. It invites us to reflect, release, and begin again.

Symbolism and Spiritual Meaning

This full moon is tied to fresh starts and gentle awakenings. Like flowers pushing through the soil, it calls us to rise. The energy is soft but powerful—perfect for letting go of what no longer fits in our lives.

Spiritually, it’s a time to reconnect with purpose and open yourself to change.

Emotional Release and Intuition

Full moons are always emotional. The Pink Moon shines a light on your inner world. It heightens feelings, intuition, and even dreams.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or sensitive, know that it’s part of the process. The moon helps us see clearly. It brings what’s hidden to the surface so we can heal it.

Simple Ways to Embrace the Energy

You don’t need a complicated ritual to connect with the moon. Start with stillness.

  • Go outside and let the moonlight touch your skin.
  • Take deep breaths and picture your stress melting away.
  • Journal your thoughts, feelings, and intentions.

Write down what you’re ready to release. Then, write what you want to welcome into your life.

Cleanse, Charge, and Create Space

This is a powerful time to clear your space, both physically and emotionally. You can:

  • Clean your home.
  • Burn sage or incense.
  • Charge crystals or special objects in the moonlight.
  • Let fresh air in through open windows.

The goal is to make room for peace and alignment.

Lean Into Self-Care and Connection

Honor your emotions with extra self-care. A warm bath, soft music, or a calming tea can work wonders. Be gentle with yourself.

This moon also supports healing relationships. Check in with someone you love. Express gratitude. Offer forgiveness. Share from the heart.

Step Into the Season of Growth

Spring is nature’s reminder that growth takes time. You’re not behind. You’re not stuck. You’re simply shifting.

Spend time outdoors if you can. Notice the blooming trees, the longer days, and the feeling of possibility in the air. Let it remind you—you’re blooming too.

Trust the Process of Becoming

The Pink Full Moon is soft yet wise. It doesn’t push; it invites. This is your moment to trust your journey.

Let go of what weighs you down. Breathe in what lifts you up. You’re ready for this next chapter, even if you can’t see the whole path yet.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Do Full Moons Really Influence Crime Rates?

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For centuries, people have connected full moons to strange behavior. Stories of werewolves, madness, and mysterious crimes have deep roots in folklore. But is there any truth to it? Can a full moon actually impact crime rates?

Let’s dive into what we know—and what we still wonder about.

A Long History of Suspicion

The belief that full moons affect human behavior isn’t new. In ancient times, people thought the moon’s glow stirred chaos. The term lunacy even comes from “luna,” the Latin word for moon. Police departments, emergency rooms, and even teachers have long claimed full moons bring more trouble than usual.

Many say they’ve seen more fights, arrests, or strange events during full moons. Some hospitals report more ER visits. Some officers swear they get more calls. But what does the data say?

What the Research Shows

The idea is fascinating, but the science is mixed. Some studies suggest a slight increase in crime during full moons. Others show no connection at all. One study from 1984 found more violent crime during full moons in Florida. But a different study, using data from across the U.S., showed no consistent pattern.

In short: science hasn’t fully confirmed a strong link—but it hasn’t ruled it out either.

Why It Feels Like Crime Increases

Even when statistics don’t support a spike, many still believe in the full moon effect. That could be due to something called confirmation bias. If you’re expecting wild behavior, you’re more likely to notice it. And if something unusual does happen, you may blame the moon—because you were already watching for it.

The full moon is also big, bright, and hard to ignore. It sticks in our minds more than an average night. So if something goes wrong, it’s easy to connect it to the moon.

The Role of Light and Sleep

There could be subtle reasons behind the belief. Full moons are brighter, especially in rural areas. That could lead to more people staying out late. More people outside can sometimes mean more opportunities for crime.

Full moons may also affect sleep. Some studies suggest people sleep less during a full moon. Poor sleep can lead to irritability or risky behavior. It’s not a direct link to crime—but it could influence decision-making.

A Psychological Pull

Even if the moon doesn’t cause crime, the belief alone can be powerful. Expectation shapes perception. Some people feel more emotional or on edge during a full moon. That heightened emotion might lead to poor choices or conflict.

In law enforcement and emergency work, the myth is so widespread that it becomes part of the culture. People might prepare for more chaos—not because it’s proven, but because it’s tradition.

Final Thoughts

The full moon has always captured our imagination. Whether it truly raises crime rates or not, it clearly affects how we see the world. Our minds look for patterns and connections—even in the night sky.

For now, the jury is still out. But the mystery lives on. So the next time a full moon rises and things get weird, you won’t be alone in wondering if there’s more to it.

Explore the connection between full moons and crime. Myth, science, and mystery collide in this look at lunar influence on behavior.

Related: Embracing the Energy of the Pink Full Moon

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

5 Tiny Habits That Make My Day Better

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I’m all about the little things. The small habits that take just a few minutes but make a big difference. You don’t need a full-on morning makeover—just a few easy tweaks can help your day flow better, feel calmer, and even be a little more productive.

Here are five tiny habits that genuinely make my day better.

1. Starting My Day at 5 AM

I know that sounds early, but it works for me. I get up at 5 AM so I’m not rushing through the morning. It gives me time to breathe, reset, and move with purpose.

One of my favorite parts of this early start is the ride to drop my husband off at work. That quiet commute is my chance to read morning affirmations or dive into something uplifting—whether it’s a personal development podcast or even a historical speech that feeds my mind and soul.

2. A Morning Shower with a Podcast

By 6 AM, I’m hopping into the shower, and that’s when I really wake up. The hot water, the quiet… it’s like a reset button. I almost always pop on a true crime podcast or listen to a motivational speaker while I’m getting ready. It’s just part of my rhythm now, and it helps me start the day on a high note—either learning something new or just being entertained.

3. Making the Bed—Always

This one is quick but powerful. I can’t leave the room without making the bed. It just doesn’t sit right with me. It takes maybe two minutes, but it gives the whole room a sense of calm and order.

Plus, coming home to a made bed? That’s the adult version of a hug.

4. Taking Five Minutes to Tidy Up at Night

I’m not talking about scrubbing floors here—just a quick reset before bed. I do a quick vacuum, toss any dirty clothes in the wash, pack the hubby’s lunch then wipe down the counters, and make sure the house feels settled.

It helps me sleep better knowing I won’t wake up to chaos. And morning me? She’s always thankful for that little effort.

5. Midday Movement

If I’m working from home and the day starts to drag, I get up and move. Even if it’s just stretching, walking to the mailbox, or doing a couple of trips up and down the stairs—it counts.

That small burst of movement helps me clear my head and get my energy back. Sometimes I take Pandora with me, sometimes I walk in silence. Either way, I always return feeling more focused.

Final Thought

These habits aren’t life-changing on their own, but when you stack them together? They add up. They help me stay grounded, productive, and just a little more sane. They’re tiny on the surface, but the impact is real.

Try one or two and see how your day feels. Sometimes, the smallest things are the most powerful.

Related: How I Stay Focused When Notifications Never Stop

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why Blogging Still Matters Today

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We live in a world of short attention spans. TikTok, Instagram Reels, and YouTube Shorts dominate the scene.

Everyone’s scrolling fast. We’re talking lightning speed.

So, does blogging even stand a chance?

Absolutely. Blogging still matters—big time. Here’s why.

Blogs Let You Dive Deeper

Quick videos are fun, sure. But they don’t always leave room for details.

Sometimes, you want more than 30 seconds. You want answers, insight, or a good story.

Blogs give you that space. They let you expand on ideas, offer tips, and actually teach something.

You can’t really break down a step-by-step guide in 12 seconds. But you can in a blog post.

That’s the magic of writing—it slows things down in the best way.

Blogging Helps People Find You

Want to show up on Google? Blogs are your best friend.

TikToks don’t pop up in search results the way written content does.

When someone types a question into Google, what shows up? Blog posts, how-tos, and articles.

That means if you’ve got a blog, your stuff can get discovered again and again.

No algorithm needed. No dancing required.

Blogs Build Trust

Posting a photo or video is great. But blogging lets you share more of your voice.

You can be real. Be helpful. Be YOU.

That kind of connection builds trust. It makes people feel like they know you.

And when people trust you, they come back. Whether you’re selling something or just sharing stories, that trust matters.

You Own Your Blog

Social platforms come and go. Remember Vine? MySpace?

When you build your audience on someone else’s app, you’re renting space.

But your blog? That’s yours.

You control the content. You own the domain. You make the rules.

If Instagram shuts down tomorrow, your blog will still be standing.

Blogging Supports Social Media

Here’s a fun fact: blogging and social media actually help each other.

A blog gives you great stuff to share on your social channels.

Instead of scrambling for a new caption or video idea, you can just pull from your latest post.

It keeps your content flowing and makes you look like you’ve totally got your act together.

It’s Great for Any Personality Type

Not everyone loves being on camera. Some folks freeze up or feel awkward.

Blogging is a perfect alternative.

You can write in pajamas. No makeup, no lights, no mic.

It’s chill, flexible, and pressure-free.

If you do like video, even better—you can turn your blog into a script or add videos to your posts.

Long-Term Wins

A blog post can work for you forever.

It can bring in readers, clients, or customers for months—or even years.

One good post can keep popping up in searches long after you hit publish.

TikToks, on the other hand, tend to disappear after a few days.

So, Is Blogging Dead?

Not even close.

It’s just evolved. It works best when it’s part of a bigger content strategy.

Use it alongside social media, email newsletters, or YouTube. Let it be your content home base.

When you blog with intention, your content has staying power.

Final Thoughts

Blogging may not be flashy. But it’s effective, personal, and powerful.

It gives you space to share, connect, and grow.

So yes, even in a TikTok world—blogging still matters.

And it probably always will.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

How I Stay Focused When Notifications Never Stop

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Why do people not take you seriously when they find out you work from home? People seem to think I am always available and that’s just not the case!

It’s Me vs. the Constant Ding

You sit down to get something done, and before your brain can even lock in, your phone lights up. Again. And again. It’s a never-ending cycle of distractions, and somehow, everything feels urgent—even when it isn’t.

I used to try and power through it. Respond, swipe, come back to my work… but all it really did was split my focus and wear me down. Eventually, I realized I needed to stop playing defense with my time and get intentional about how I protect it.

Do Not Disturb Isn’t Optional

Let’s get this straight—DND is not rude. It’s necessary.

If I’m working, my phone goes on Do Not Disturb. I don’t care what time it is. I don’t care if someone might need something. If it’s a real emergency, they’ll find a way to reach me. My husband and kids are the only ones that can get through, period.

This one habit changed everything. No more phone lighting up every 3 seconds. No more jumping from task to task like a squirrel with WiFi. Just peace and focus.

Notifications? Shut. Them. Down.

If you haven’t gone through your apps and turned off every unnecessary alert, what are you doing?

I don’t need to know every time someone goes live, likes a post, or drops a new sale notification. I’ve disabled badges, sounds, previews—all of it. Now, the only notifications I get are the ones I actually need: messages from family, calendar reminders, and maybe a package delivery. That’s it.

I Create a “Work Bubble”

Focus doesn’t happen by accident—it’s a whole vibe.

Before I start a task, I set the scene. Clean space. Smoothie or tea. One of my wax melts warming in the background (usually something like Mystical Rayne or Lynleigh’s Lemon Meringue for that fresh, calm energy). I turn on ambient sounds or a lo-fi playlist, and suddenly my brain knows—it’s time to get locked in.

I Don’t Trust Myself (And That’s Smart)

Look, I’m not going to lie to myself and pretend I won’t reach for my phone. I will. So I set up boundaries for that, too.

I keep my phone out of reach during work blocks and use a site blocker on my browser. If it’s not accessible, I won’t use it. And when I do need a break, I schedule it—10 minutes to scroll, stretch, snack. I take lunch when my husband does so we can talk, then it’s back to business.

Final Thoughts: Take Back Your Focus

The world isn’t going to stop interrupting you. It’s not going to get quieter. So you’ve got to be the one to take control.

Turn off what doesn’t matter. Create space that supports your focus. And stop feeling guilty for setting boundaries with your attention.

You don’t owe constant access to anyone.

You owe yourself progress—and peace.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.