The Truth About “Having It All Together”

Posted on April 29, 2025April 30, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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We’ve all seen those people who seem like they’ve got it all figured out. Their homes are spotless, their schedules are color-coded, and somehow, they still have time to work out, meal prep, and look like they stepped out of a magazine. It’s easy to look at them and feel like you’re falling behind in life. But let’s be honest—“having it all together” is usually just smoke and mirrors.

The truth? Most people are faking it. They’re showing you their best moments and hiding the chaos just off-screen. And chances are, they feel just as overwhelmed as you do.

What Does It Even Mean?

Here’s the problem—there’s no clear definition of what “having it all together” actually means. For some, it might be financial stability and a steady job. For others, it’s a peaceful home and quality time with family. Some people feel accomplished just getting out of bed and brushing their teeth, and guess what? That counts.

So when we compare ourselves to someone else’s version of “together,” we’re playing a game we can’t win. Everyone’s life looks different. Everyone’s goals are different. Trying to keep up with someone else’s pace is just asking for burnout.

Social Media Messes with Us

Let’s talk about the biggest offender—social media. Instagram and TikTok are full of people who appear to be living their best lives. Their homes are picture-perfect, their mornings start at 5 a.m., and they’re always productive and positive.

But here’s what you don’t see: the arguments before the family photos. The mental breakdowns between videos. The piles of laundry cropped out of every shot. Social media is a highlight reel, not real life. Comparing yourself to that is like comparing your raw footage to someone else’s edited film.

Nobody Feels 100% Together

Even the most organized, put-together people have messy days. They forget things. They cry in the shower. They stare at the ceiling wondering what they’re doing with their lives. No one is immune to stress, doubt, or feeling like a total failure sometimes.

So if you’re feeling overwhelmed or lost, know this—you are not the only one. It’s normal. It’s human. And despite what it may feel like, it’s not a sign that you’re doing life wrong.

You Don’t Need to Do It All

A big part of the pressure comes from the idea that you should be able to do it all—and do it well. Work full time, raise kids, keep the house clean, eat healthy, stay fit, maintain friendships, and smile through it all. Sounds exhausting, right? That’s because it is.

Life isn’t meant to be a perfectly balanced to-do list. It’s messy and unpredictable. Some days you’ll feel on top of things. Other days, you’ll forget what day it even is. That doesn’t make you lazy or broken. It makes you normal.

Focus on What Matters to You

Instead of chasing some made-up idea of “together,” focus on what feels good to you. What makes you feel like your life is working? Is it having a clean kitchen? Or is it spending time with your kids even if the dishes pile up?

Your version of success doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You get to decide what’s important and what can wait. And yes, sometimes that means cereal for dinner and laundry that doesn’t get folded. That’s okay.

Celebrate the Small Wins

You don’t need a picture-perfect life to be proud of yourself. Got out of bed on time? Win. Took a shower? Win. Answered an email you’ve been avoiding? Major win.

We spend so much time beating ourselves up for what we didn’t do that we forget to acknowledge everything we did manage. Give yourself credit. You’re doing more than you think.

Final Thoughts

Having it all together is a myth. No one has every area of their life perfectly balanced at all times. Some people just hide the chaos better. Others are honest about it—and those are the people worth keeping close.

So stop chasing perfection. Show up as you are, flaws and all. Give yourself grace when things feel out of control. And remember, the goal isn’t to have it all together. The goal is to live a life that feels real, joyful, and true to you.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Hosting a Kentucky Derby Party

Posted on April 27, 2025April 27, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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The Kentucky Derby has always been one of my favorite sporting events. I remember watching it as a little girl with my Granddaddy. It wasn’t just about the race; everything fascinated me, the hats, the dresses, and of course, the horses!

Since then, I’ve kept up the tradition of watching every first Saturday in May. This year it just so happens to fall on my Daddy’s 74th birthday. For the past few years, I’ve hosted a laid-back Derby party at home. It’s simple — just how I like it. There’s no pressure, no complicated planning, just the things I love about the Derby: the race, the food, and the drinks.

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What I Serve at My Kentucky Derby Party

Let’s talk about the essentials: mint juleps, delicate finger sandwiches, and lemon bars. You just can’t have a Derby party without these. I’m all about keeping it easy, delicious and Southern! The mint juleps are a must — they bring that authentic Derby feel to the day. And I’ll admit, I’m a sucker for a good lemon bar. There’s something about the tartness mixed with the sweetness that hits just right.

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The Excitement of the Race

Sure, I’m not at Churchill Downs, but the thrill of the race is still there. Every year, I get excited watching the horses thunder down the track, even from my living room. No matter how many times I’ve seen it, there’s something magical about those final moments — the tension, the speed, the drama.

It is definitely on my bucket list. Me and the hubby have been talking about going for years. I know we’ll get there soon!

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Why I Love the Kentucky Derby

The Kentucky Derby isn’t just a race, it’s a whole vibe. It’s a chance to relax, enjoy some good food and drinks, and feel like you’re part of something special. I love the energy that comes with the day — the anticipation building as the race gets closer, the excitement when they’re off, and the moment it’s all over, with everyone celebrating or groaning, depending on their pick.

Who’s my pick? I may or may not have my money on a handsome roan colt named Sandman.

Are We Too Obsessed with “Main Character” Energy?

Posted on April 26, 2025April 26, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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We’ve all seen it: the girl walking slowly through the crosswalk with her iced matcha and sunglasses, vibing to a song only she can hear. The TikToks with people declaring “main character energy” as they romanticize everything from grocery shopping to crying in the rain. On the surface, it seems empowering—owning your moment, being bold, making your life feel like a movie. But at what point does celebrating yourself turn into something a little… much?

What Even Is “Main Character” Energy?

“Main character energy” started as a fun reminder to stop coasting and start living with intention. And hey, there’s nothing wrong with that. Who doesn’t want to feel like the star of their own story? The idea is to add meaning to everyday life, to notice small joys, and to build confidence. All good things! But somewhere along the way, it got twisted. What began as a lighthearted trend now sometimes feels like a full-time performance.

Social Media Turned It Into a Show

Social media, of course, plays a huge role in this shift. We’re constantly seeing curated content that makes ordinary lives look like cinematic masterpieces. That trip to Target isn’t just a quick errand anymore—it’s a moment. A photoshoot. A chance to show the world how aesthetically pleasing your reusable bags are. Even something as mundane as making your bed or sipping tea is suddenly part of this larger, polished narrative. It can be fun—but it can also feel fake.

Unrealistic Expectations Start to Build

What’s more, this obsession with constantly being the main character can set up some unrealistic expectations. If every day isn’t packed with magic, growth, or an inspirational moment, it can start to feel like you’re doing something wrong. Not every morning is a sunrise jog followed by journaling and a picture-perfect breakfast. Sometimes the alarm doesn’t go off, your coffee spills, and you forget to put on deodorant. That doesn’t make you less important. It makes you human.

Comparison Is the Thief of Joy (Again)

There’s also the issue of comparison. Watching others live out their “main character” fantasy can make you question your own life. If you’re not jet-setting to dreamy locations or having deep, poetic conversations in a candlelit apartment, are you even doing it right? Yes. You are. Not every story has to look the same. Some people are on an adventure arc. Others are in their healing era. And some of us are just trying to get through Tuesday without screaming into the void.

You Don’t Have to Perform Every Day

The truth is, you don’t need to be the main character all the time. Sometimes you’re the comic relief, the background extra, or the person who just holds the door open. That doesn’t make your story any less meaningful. The quiet, unfiltered moments are just as real and valuable as the highlight reel. You don’t need a camera angle or a voiceover to matter.

So, Are We Too Obsessed?

Maybe. But that doesn’t mean we should throw the whole concept out. Let’s just bring it back to what it was meant to be: a little nudge to pay attention to our own lives, to be present, and to stop waiting for permission to enjoy ourselves. Just don’t lose yourself trying to be a star in someone else’s movie. Write your own script—flaws, mess, boring Tuesdays and all.

My Most Random Blog Post That Gets the Most Views

Posted on April 26, 2025April 26, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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(And Why It Still Shocks Me)

Out of all the blog posts I’ve written, one continues to show up in my stats week after week, month after month: “How to Spot the Signs of a Narcissist.” And let me tell you—I did not expect that one to take off the way it did.

It wasn’t planned. It wasn’t part of a content calendar. It just came pouring out of me one afternoon, and I hit publish without much thought. Looking back now, I realize that maybe that’s exactly why it resonated. It was real, raw, and straight from the heart.

Why I Don’t Talk About That Relationship Much

Here’s the truth: I don’t often speak on the relationship that inspired that post, because it left me with real, deep, lifelong trauma. I have PTSD. I spent 13 years in hell.

There was physical abuse almost daily—the kind that changes you, that leaves you looking over your shoulder for years even after you escape. I’ve had:

The tip of my ring finger almost completely severed and sewn back on.
My bicep slashed with a knife.
My skull cracked open.
Multiple fractured ribs and damage to my spine.

I fought back. Believe me, I fought back hard. But the emotional abuse? That’s the kind of pain that stays long after the bruises fade. I will never trust anyone and need constant reassurance. I am also cold in so many ways.

The Emotional and Psychological Toll

No one talks enough about mental abuse. The kind that messes with your head and makes you feel like you’re losing your mind. I was manipulated, gaslit, belittled, isolated, and constantly walking on eggshells.

There was also sexual abuse. And a level of betrayal I can’t even fully put into words—infidelity that included one of my underage family members. Yeah. Let that sink in.

That relationship not only destroyed parts of me and changed me in unimaginable ways, but it also damaged my children in ways we’re still trying to understand. He is a sick man. And I will speak on the dangers of narcissism any time I get the chance.

I Wasn’t Alone… and Neither Are You

What really blew me away was how many people reached out after reading that post. Women. Men. People in romantic relationships. People dealing with narcissistic parents or toxic friends. The flood of messages made one thing clear: this problem is way more common than we think.

And unfortunately, social media is only making it worse. We live in an era where everything is filtered and curated, and narcissists thrive in that world. They crave admiration, attention, and validation—and social media hands it to them on a silver platter.

Why I’ll Never Stay Silent

I’ll never stop talking about narcissism. Because someone out there is living what I lived. Someone is in survival mode right now, scared and confused, thinking they’re alone. You’re not.

If you’re reading this and wondering if what you’re experiencing is abuse—trust your gut. If you feel like you’re walking on eggshells, constantly apologizing, and questioning your worth—trust your gut. If they love-bomb you, then devalue you, then act like you are the problem—trust your gut.

You can get out. It might take planning. It might take time. It will take courage. But you can be free.

We Heal by Speaking Up

That “random” blog post taught me something powerful: our stories matter. Even the painful ones. Maybe especially the painful ones. Because when we speak up, we give others the strength to do the same.

So if you’ve got a story buried inside you, one that’s aching to come out—write it. Share it. Talk about it. You never know who needs to hear it.

And if you’re still in the thick of it—I see you. I believe you. You are not alone.

📌 Need Help?

If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please know there are people who care and want to help:

National Domestic Violence Hotline
📞 1-800-799-7233
📱 Or text “START” to 88788
🌐 thehotline.org

You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to be loved without fear. And you deserve to heal.

Why Being Content Isn’t the Same as Settling

Posted on April 24, 2025April 24, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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Some people think being content means you’ve stopped trying or that you’ve somehow given up. That couldn’t be further from the truth. There’s a big difference between being content and settling, and it’s important to know the difference. Contentment is about peace, not resignation. It’s about being thankful for what you have while still being open to more—not staying stuck in something that doesn’t fulfill you.

What It Really Means to Be Content

When you’re content, you’re satisfied and present. You’ve stopped constantly chasing happiness, waiting for the next big thing to finally make you feel good. Instead, you’ve learned to enjoy where you are right now. You appreciate your home, your people, your work, your little routines—even if everything isn’t perfect. Contentment comes from gratitude and emotional maturity. It doesn’t mean you don’t have goals or dreams. It just means your happiness doesn’t depend on checking off a list of “shoulds.”

Settling Is a Whole Different Story

Settling feels like defeat. It’s when you accept less than what you truly want, deserve, or need—not out of joy, but out of fear, doubt, or exhaustion. It can show up in relationships, jobs, or just the way you live day to day. Maybe you’ve told yourself, “This is just how life is now,” or “It’s too late to change.” That’s settling. It’s when you quiet your own voice just to keep the peace or avoid the unknown. And it’s usually accompanied by a low-level dissatisfaction you can’t quite shake.

The Energy Behind the Two Is Everything

The energy behind being content feels calm and grounded. You wake up feeling good about your choices. You feel proud of where you are, and you’re okay if things stay like this for a while. But the energy behind settling? It feels heavy. It’s like you’re carrying around a quiet regret. You’re doing your best to convince yourself it’s “fine,” but it doesn’t feel aligned. You’re not excited—you’re just surviving.

You Can Be Content and Still Want More

There’s a huge misconception that contentment means you’ve stopped striving for growth. That’s simply not true. You can be happy with what you have and still work toward something greater. You can love your relationship and still want to improve your communication. You can enjoy your job and still be open to new opportunities. Contentment doesn’t kill ambition—it just shifts your motivation from “I’ll be happy when…” to “I’m happy now, and I’m excited about what’s next.”

So, How Can You Tell the Difference?

Ask yourself a few honest questions. Do you feel at peace, or do you feel stuck? Are you proud of your life, or just tolerating it? Do you wake up looking forward to the day, or are you constantly waiting for the weekend? If your answers lean toward frustration or numbness, you might be settling. If they lean toward gratitude, curiosity, and confidence—even if things aren’t perfect—you’re likely in a space of contentment.

Bottom Line

Being content doesn’t mean you’ve lowered your standards. It means you’ve stopped letting your happiness hinge on what’s missing. Settling, on the other hand, means you’ve stopped believing you can do better. There’s a big difference. You deserve a life that brings you peace and possibility. So, don’t confuse being content with giving up. Contentment is powerful. Settling is optional.

Signs I’m Overdue for a Reset

Posted on April 22, 2025April 22, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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Ever wake up and just know something feels off? Like you’re running on fumes and everything’s a blur? Yeah, same. Life gets hectic, and sometimes we don’t even realize we’re long overdue for a reset. But the signs are there—we just have to recognize them.

Let’s talk about the biggest indicators it’s time to hit pause and refresh.

Everything Feels Like a Chore

When brushing your teeth or folding a t-shirt feels exhausting, that’s a sign. Of course, no one loves chores, but if basic tasks feel like climbing a mountain, your body and brain are waving red flags.

Even things you normally enjoy start feeling like obligations. That’s your cue. You’re not lazy. You’re worn out.

You’re Snapping Over Nothing

If a slow driver or a loud chewer makes your blood boil, take notice. Irritability is often the first sign of burnout creeping in.

Sure, we all get annoyed. But when your patience is on a 0-second timer every day, it’s time to recharge.

You Can’t Focus for More Than a Minute

You open your laptop to write an email, and suddenly you’re deep-diving into dog videos. Been there.

When your brain can’t stay on task, it’s not just distraction—it’s fatigue. Mental clutter makes focusing hard. A reset helps clear that fog.

Your Sleep is a Hot Mess

You’re tired all day but wide awake at night. Sound familiar?

Sleep struggles are a major red flag. Whether you’re tossing, turning, or dreaming about missed deadlines, your mind is in overdrive. You’re not just tired—you’re overstimulated and out of balance.

Your Phone Screen Time is Embarrassing

Let’s be real. Doomscrolling isn’t relaxing. If your screen time is creeping into double digits, you’re probably avoiding something.

And that “something” is often your own feelings, burnout, or lack of motivation. Constant scrolling is a quick escape, but it’s not a cure.

You’re Saying “I Don’t Care” Way Too Much

Losing interest in things you usually love is a huge warning sign. If you’re constantly saying, “Whatever,” or “I don’t care,” pay attention.

Detachment isn’t always peace. Sometimes it’s emotional exhaustion in disguise. Your spark is still there—it just needs space to come back.

You Don’t Feel Like Yourself

This one’s big. Maybe you’re still doing all the right things, but it just doesn’t feel like you.

You’re going through the motions, but everything’s kind of dull. No motivation. No excitement. Just autopilot.

When your own reflection feels like a stranger, it’s time to check in with yourself.

So, What’s the Fix?

A reset doesn’t mean you have to disappear for a week or take a fancy trip. It can be small but intentional.

Take a day off social media. Clean your space. Move your body. Journal what’s on your mind. Take a nap without guilt. Drink more water. Say no more often. Get outside.

The key is to give yourself permission to slow down and reconnect. A reset is about you—what you need, what you’re missing, and how you want to feel again.

Final Thoughts

Recognizing the signs of burnout is a superpower. It means you’re self-aware. It means you’re ready to take back control of your energy and mindset.

So next time you feel off, don’t ignore it. Listen. Reset. Repeat.

You’ve got this.

Build a Business Without Being Online 24/7

Posted on April 9, 2025April 9, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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Let’s be honest—social media can feel like a full-time job. And running a business? That’s already a full-time job. Somewhere along the way, I realized I didn’t want my life to revolve around likes, comments, and constant notifications. I’m learning to build my business in a way that supports my goals without being online all day, every day.

Why I Wanted a Change

When I first started, I thought I had to be everywhere. Instagram stories, Facebook lives, Reels, TikToks, tweets—if it existed, I felt pressure to post on it. I kept hearing that consistency was key, but the reality? I was exhausted. My creativity dried up, and I wasn’t enjoying the process anymore.

That’s when I realized something needed to shift. I didn’t start this business to burn myself out. I wanted freedom, not a digital leash.

Focusing on What Works

Instead of trying to keep up with every new feature on every app, I started narrowing my focus. Now, I stick to a few tools that actually bring results. For me, that looks like a website I can update regularly, an email list where I speak directly to my people, and a blog that drives long-term traffic.

When I do use social media, I’m more intentional. I don’t post daily—I post when I have something to say. And guess what? That’s okay.

Setting Boundaries With Social

I still show up, just not constantly. I batch content in advance, schedule posts when I can, and give myself permission to log off. My phone is no longer the boss of me.

Notifications don’t run my day. Instead, I check in when I have the time and space. That alone has helped me feel more grounded—and honestly, more productive.

Building Real Connections

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that real connection matters more than reach. I’d rather have 10 meaningful conversations than 100 likes with no follow-up. When someone takes the time to comment or send a message, I respond. I build relationships. Because at the end of the day, relationships build trust—and trust builds a business.

Going Beyond the Screen

There are also so many ways to grow your business offline. Word-of-mouth referrals, local events, print materials, collaborations with other small businesses—these may not be flashy, but they’re effective. And they give you a chance to engage in the real world, which can be refreshing.

Final Thoughts

Finding balance in the digital age isn’t always easy, but it’s absolutely possible. You can grow something beautiful without being glued to your phone. You can create real impact without chasing the algorithm.

I’m still figuring it out as I go, but one thing is clear: burnout doesn’t have to be part of the process. If you’re craving more peace in your business, start by taking a step back. You might just find that less screen time leads to more success.

Why Blogging Still Matters Today

Posted on April 8, 2025April 8, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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We live in a world of short attention spans. TikTok, Instagram Reels, and YouTube Shorts dominate the scene.

Everyone’s scrolling fast. We’re talking lightning speed.

So, does blogging even stand a chance?

Absolutely. Blogging still matters—big time. Here’s why.

Blogs Let You Dive Deeper

Quick videos are fun, sure. But they don’t always leave room for details.

Sometimes, you want more than 30 seconds. You want answers, insight, or a good story.

Blogs give you that space. They let you expand on ideas, offer tips, and actually teach something.

You can’t really break down a step-by-step guide in 12 seconds. But you can in a blog post.

That’s the magic of writing—it slows things down in the best way.

Blogging Helps People Find You

Want to show up on Google? Blogs are your best friend.

TikToks don’t pop up in search results the way written content does.

When someone types a question into Google, what shows up? Blog posts, how-tos, and articles.

That means if you’ve got a blog, your stuff can get discovered again and again.

No algorithm needed. No dancing required.

Blogs Build Trust

Posting a photo or video is great. But blogging lets you share more of your voice.

You can be real. Be helpful. Be YOU.

That kind of connection builds trust. It makes people feel like they know you.

And when people trust you, they come back. Whether you’re selling something or just sharing stories, that trust matters.

You Own Your Blog

Social platforms come and go. Remember Vine? MySpace?

When you build your audience on someone else’s app, you’re renting space.

But your blog? That’s yours.

You control the content. You own the domain. You make the rules.

If Instagram shuts down tomorrow, your blog will still be standing.

Blogging Supports Social Media

Here’s a fun fact: blogging and social media actually help each other.

A blog gives you great stuff to share on your social channels.

Instead of scrambling for a new caption or video idea, you can just pull from your latest post.

It keeps your content flowing and makes you look like you’ve totally got your act together.

It’s Great for Any Personality Type

Not everyone loves being on camera. Some folks freeze up or feel awkward.

Blogging is a perfect alternative.

You can write in pajamas. No makeup, no lights, no mic.

It’s chill, flexible, and pressure-free.

If you do like video, even better—you can turn your blog into a script or add videos to your posts.

Long-Term Wins

A blog post can work for you forever.

It can bring in readers, clients, or customers for months—or even years.

One good post can keep popping up in searches long after you hit publish.

TikToks, on the other hand, tend to disappear after a few days.

So, Is Blogging Dead?

Not even close.

It’s just evolved. It works best when it’s part of a bigger content strategy.

Use it alongside social media, email newsletters, or YouTube. Let it be your content home base.

When you blog with intention, your content has staying power.

Final Thoughts

Blogging may not be flashy. But it’s effective, personal, and powerful.

It gives you space to share, connect, and grow.

So yes, even in a TikTok world—blogging still matters.

And it probably always will.

April Bucket List: 30 Fun Things to Do This Month

Posted on April 1, 2025April 1, 2025 by gigis ramblings

Spring is officially in full swing! The days are getting longer, flowers are blooming, and there’s a fresh energy in the air. April is the perfect time to embrace the outdoors, try something new, and enjoy the little things that make this season so special.

Whether you’re looking for outdoor adventures, creative projects, or ways to simply relax, this April bucket list is packed with ideas to make the most of the month. Let’s dive in!

1. Have a Picnic in the Park

Grab a blanket, pack your favorite snacks, and find a sunny spot. Whether it’s a solo outing or a fun date, a picnic is a great way to enjoy the fresh air.

2. Visit a Farmers’ Market

Spring means fresh produce, homemade jams, and delicious baked goods. Support local vendors and stock up on seasonal favorites!

3. Go on a Scenic Hike

April is a great time to explore nature before the summer heat kicks in. Find a local trail, breathe in the fresh air, and take in the beauty of spring.

4. Plant a Garden

Whether it’s flowers, herbs, or vegetables, gardening is both relaxing and rewarding. Plus, fresh basil or homegrown tomatoes? Yes, please!

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5. Fly a Kite

A breezy April afternoon is perfect for this childhood classic. Find an open field, grab a kite, and let it soar!

6. Try a New Spring Recipe

Incorporate fresh, seasonal ingredients into your cooking. Think strawberry shortcake, asparagus risotto, or a citrusy salad.

7. Have a Backyard Campout

Pitch a tent, light a fire (or make s’mores in the oven), and enjoy a night under the stars.

8. Catch a Baseball Game

April means baseball season is in full swing! Whether you’re at a stadium or watching from home, enjoy the excitement of America’s favorite pastime.

9. Visit a Tulip Farm

There’s nothing like walking through rows of colorful tulips in full bloom. Snap some pictures and take home a bouquet!

10. Take a Day Trip

Explore a nearby city, small town, or hidden gem you’ve never visited before. Road trips make for the best memories!

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11. Try an Outdoor Workout

Skip the gym and exercise outside. Go for a run, take a yoga class in the park, or try a new hiking trail.

12. Do Some Spring Cleaning

Freshen up your home with a good decluttering session. Open the windows, let the fresh air in, and enjoy a clean space!

13. Create a Spring Playlist

Make a playlist filled with feel-good, sunshiney songs to brighten your mood all month long.

14. Visit a Zoo or Aquarium

Spring is the perfect time to see animals when they’re most active. Plus, it’s a great way to spend a weekend afternoon.

15. Check Out a Food Festival

April is packed with food festivals, from BBQ cook-offs to wine tastings. Find one near you and indulge in some amazing eats.

16. Get Crafty with DIY Projects

Make a spring wreath, paint flower pots, or try your hand at homemade candles.

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17. Host a Brunch Date

Spring weekends are perfect for brunch! Invite friends over or visit a cute café for mimosas and pancakes.

18. Take a Scenic Drive

Roll the windows down, turn up the music, and enjoy a drive through blooming landscapes.

19. Celebrate Earth Day

On April 22, do something good for the planet—plant a tree, reduce plastic use, or join a community clean-up event.

20. Watch the Sunrise or Sunset

Find a peaceful spot and take in the beauty of an April sunrise or sunset. It’s the little things that make life special.

21. Go Birdwatching

Springtime means birds are more active than ever! Grab binoculars and see how many species you can spot.

22. Have a Rainy-Day Board Game Night

April showers? No problem! Cozy up inside with a game night, some snacks, and friendly competition.

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23. Make Fresh Lemonade

Homemade lemonade just hits differently. Try adding strawberries or mint for a fun twist!

24. Treat Yourself to Ice Cream

The weather is warming up, which means it’s ice cream season! Try a new flavor or visit a local ice cream shop.

25. Start a New Hobby

Learn something new this month—whether it’s knitting, calligraphy, or photography.

26. Visit a Botanical Garden

Spring is the best time to visit botanical gardens bursting with colorful flowers and sweet scents.

27. Write a Letter to Your Future Self

Write about where you are in life right now, then seal it and open it next spring.

28. Plan a Spring Movie Night

Pick lighthearted, feel-good movies that match the fresh, happy vibes of April.

29. Do a Random Act of Kindness

Brighten someone’s day with a small act of kindness—pay for their coffee, leave a sweet note, or donate to charity.

30. Make a Summer Bucket List

April is the perfect time to start thinking about summer plans! Brainstorm all the fun things you want to do.

April is full of possibilities, so why not make the most of it? Whether you try one idea or tackle the entire list, this month is all about enjoying life, embracing the season, and making memories.

What’s on your April bucket list? Let me know in the comments!

How to Stop Procrastinating & Get Stuff Done Today

Posted on March 25, 2025March 25, 2025 by gigis ramblings

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I have some nerve giving anybody advice on this topic because I am the queen of procrastination! Do as I say, not as I do! But seriously, if you’re tired of pushing things off until the last minute, I’ve got some tried-and-true strategies to help you kick procrastination to the curb and start getting things done—starting today.

Figure Out Why You’re Procrastinating

Before we fix the problem, let’s diagnose it. Are you avoiding the task because it’s boring? Overwhelming? Are you scared of messing up? Once you know why you’re putting something off, you can tackle the real issue instead of just avoiding it.

Start Small—Really Small

The hardest part is getting started. So, make it ridiculously easy. Instead of saying, “I need to clean the whole house,” tell yourself, “I’ll put one dish in the sink.” That small action tricks your brain into getting started, and before you know it, you’ll be on a roll.

Set a Timer & Race the Clock

Give yourself 10 or 15 minutes to focus. Tell yourself, “I only have to do this for a little bit.” When the timer goes off, you can stop—or keep going if you’ve found your groove. This works because it removes the pressure of committing to a huge task.

Use the “Eat the Frog” Method

This might sound gross, but hear me out. Mark Twain once said, “Eat a live frog first thing in the morning, and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day.” Translation: Do your most dreaded task first, and everything else will feel easier.

Reward Yourself

Bribery works! Promise yourself a treat once you finish a task. Maybe it’s a cup of coffee, a 10-minute TikTok break, or an episode of your favorite show. Knowing there’s a reward at the end makes it easier to power through.

Change Your Environment

Sometimes, your space is the problem. If your usual spot makes you want to nap instead of work, switch things up. Try a coffee shop, a new room, or even just clearing off your desk to create a fresh start.

Find an Accountability Buddy

Tell someone your goal and ask them to check in on you. It’s harder to flake when you know someone else is watching. Plus, you can return the favor and keep each other on track.

Just Do It (Even If It’s Bad)

Perfectionism and procrastination go hand in hand. If you’re waiting for the “perfect” moment or feeling like you need to do something flawlessly, stop. Done is better than perfect. Just start, and you can always improve it later.

Make It Fun

Find ways to make tasks more enjoyable. Listen to music, turn it into a game, or challenge yourself to beat your previous record. Anything that makes it feel less like a chore and more like an activity is a win.

Forgive Yourself & Move On

If you’ve been procrastinating for a while, don’t beat yourself up. That only makes it harder to start. Accept it, let go of the guilt, and focus on what you can do right now.

Final Thoughts

Procrastination is sneaky, but you don’t have to let it win. Try these tips, find what works for you, and take that first small step today. Your future self will thank you!

What’s your biggest procrastination struggle? Let’s talk in the comments!