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How to Camp Without Losing Your Everlovin’ Mind

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Let’s Be Honest About Camping
Camping sounds real cute until you’re sweating through your drawers, swatting at a wasp the size of a toddler, and arguing over how to start a fire. It’s supposed to be peaceful, but sometimes it feels like Mother Nature is personally trying to ruin your weekend. Don’t worry—I got your back. Here’s how to enjoy camping without crying in a tent.

Pick a Campsite That Won’t Test Your Faith
Not all campsites are created equal. If you’re new to the outdoor life, skip the deep-woods survival experience. Go somewhere with actual bathrooms, maybe even a picnic table and a little store nearby for “emergencies” (like when your lighter won’t light and you need a s’mores fix). Check reviews, look at photos, and don’t be afraid to ask other campers what they recommend.

Pack Like You’ve Got Some Sense
No, you don’t need twelve pairs of leggings or your air fryer, but you do need the basics. Make a checklist and stick to it:

  • Bug spray (the real deal, not that gentle “herbal” mist)
  • Flashlights and backup batteries
  • First-aid kit (because someone will get a blister, scrape or cut)
  • Wet wipes (God’s gift to campers)
  • Extra snacks (hangry campers are dangerous)
    And for the love of all things good, pack layers. The woods don’t care about your weather app.

Don’t Try to Be a Wilderness Chef
You are not filming a survival cooking show. Keep meals simple—think foil packet dinners, hot dogs on a stick, or even cold sandwiches. Want to impress someone? Toast a marshmallow to golden perfection. That’s all it takes. Anything more and you’re just inviting stress and raccoons.

Set Up Camp Before Sundown
This ain’t a horror movie. Set up your tent while there’s still light in the sky. Nothing tests a relationship like trying to assemble a tent in the dark while your headlamp keeps blinding the other person. Give yourself a buffer. You’ll thank yourself when you’re chillin’ by the fire instead of hollering, “Where’s the dang pole?!”

Accept That Nature is…Well, Nature
You’re gonna get dirty. You might get rained on. Something will go wrong. But if you go in with a sense of humor and low expectations, you’ll have a way better time. Think of every mishap as a story you can laugh about later—or post about once your phone gets service again.

Make Peace With Bugs, Sorta
Listen, you’re in their house. But that doesn’t mean you have to invite them into your sleeping bag. Zip up the tent. Shake out your shoes. Burn sage if you have to. Just don’t spend the whole trip screaming every time something with wings buzzes by. Campers who panic over bugs are the reason other campers drink.

Plan for Fun, But Don’t Overdo It
You don’t need an itinerary packed tighter than a Walmart parking lot on a Friday night. Go for a hike, maybe play cards, and definitely roast some marshmallows. Leave room for naps in a hammock or sittin’ by the fire doing absolutely nothing. That’s where the real magic happens.

Know When to Call It
If the weather turns ugly, your tent leaks, or someone’s allergic to everything, it’s okay to pack up and head home early. Camping is supposed to be fun, not a test of survival. There’s no shame in admitting you’ve had enough. Grab a shower, crank the AC, and try again another time.

Final Thought: You Can Do This (Probably)
Camping doesn’t have to make you question all your life choices. With a little preparation and a whole lotta patience, it can actually be pretty amazing. And if nothing else, you’ll get a story out of it—and maybe a mosquito bite in the shape of Texas.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Icebox Cakes, No-Bake Pies & Other Life-Saving Treats

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Summer in Texas is no joke. When the temps hit triple digits, the last thing anybody wants is to turn on the oven. That’s where these cool, creamy, no-bake desserts come in to save the day—and your sanity. From old-school icebox cakes to dreamy no-bake pies, these easy treats are as refreshing as a dip in the pool.

What Is an Icebox Cake?

Icebox cakes are the kind of dessert your grandma probably whipped up without blinking. Layers of cookies or graham crackers are sandwiched with whipped cream, pudding, or cream cheese mixtures, then chilled until the whole thing sets up like magic. No baking, no sweating—just slice and serve.

Popular combinations include chocolate wafers with whipped cream, vanilla wafers with banana pudding layers, or graham crackers stacked with lemon curd and whipped topping. The fridge (aka the “icebox”) does all the work for you.

strawberry icebox cake

Easy No-Bake Pies That Always Impress

No-bake pies are just as easy as they sound—and they somehow taste even better when you didn’t have to fight the oven for ’em. Most start with a buttery graham cracker or cookie crust and get filled with something cool and creamy.

Favorites around here include:

  • Peanut Butter Pie – A rich combo of peanut butter, cream cheese, and whipped topping
  • Key Lime Pie – Tart, sweet, and smooth with that classic zesty punch
  • Chocolate Pudding Pie – Layered with pudding and topped with whipped cream and chocolate curls
  • Strawberry Pretzel Pie – A little salty, a little sweet, and a whole lotta southern charm

You can even cheat a little and use store-bought crusts if you’re in a real hurry. Nobody’s judging.

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Other No-Bake Treats That’ll Save Your Tail

When you need a dessert fast and it’s too dang hot to function, these other no-bake lifesavers come in clutch:

  • No-Bake Cheesecake – Creamy, tangy, and endlessly customizable
  • Refrigerator Fudge – Rich chocolate squares that set up perfectly in the fridge
  • Ambrosia Salad – A retro classic made with fruit, marshmallows, and whipped topping
  • Oreo Truffles – Just crushed Oreos, cream cheese, and a chocolate dip—boom, done

Some of these can be made in under 10 minutes. They’re perfect for last-minute get-togethers, potlucks, or just when you need a sweet fix without a meltdown.

Tips for No-Bake Success

  • Use full-fat ingredients for best texture and taste
  • Chill desserts overnight when possible—flavors blend better and the texture firms up
  • Line your pans with parchment for easy removal
  • Keep ’em covered so they don’t soak up any weird fridge smells

And remember, the freezer is your best friend when the fridge just ain’t cutting it.

When You Just Can’t Bake—Don’t

There’s no shame in skipping the oven when it’s sweltering outside. These no-bake wonders deliver all the comfort of homemade dessert without the heatstroke. Whether you’re whipping up something sweet for the family or showing off at the church potluck, you can’t go wrong with a chilled treat made with love—and zero sweat.

Want to know my go-to? A classic banana pudding icebox cake. Tastes like summer in a pan.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Texas BBQ Road Trip: Where to Eat in July

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If you’re like me, the smell of smoke and sizzle is basically perfume. July in Texas means it’s hotter than a goat’s butt in a pepper patch—but it’s also the perfect time for a good old-fashioned BBQ road trip. From brisket that melts in your mouth to ribs so tender they fall apart when you blink, this list will steer you to some of the tastiest pits across the Lone Star State.

Lockhart – The Barbecue Capital of Texas

No Texas BBQ road trip is complete without a stop in Lockhart. This tiny town packs a meaty punch with legendary joints like Kreuz Market, Black’s Barbecue, and Smitty’s Market. They’ve been slinging brisket and sausage links for generations. Each spot has its own vibe, but the smoke ring and flavor stay strong across the board.

Austin – Big City, Bigger Flavors

Austin isn’t just the state capital—it’s a BBQ heavyweight. Franklin Barbecue is world-famous, and yes, the lines are long, but that brisket? Worth it. Don’t skip out on Micklethwait Craft Meats for creative sausage blends or Leroy and Lewis for something a little experimental with bold, smoky flavor.

Taylor – Where Brisket Dreams Come True

Louie Mueller Barbecue is the crown jewel of Taylor. The pit-stained walls tell a story of decades of slow-smoked perfection. If you’re after that pepper-crusted bark and juicy inside, this is your holy ground. Get there early—they run out.

Luling – Watermelon and Meaty Goodness

You might know Luling for its watermelon festival, but the real treat is City Market. Order at the counter straight from the pitmasters behind the glass, and take your tray into the dining room where meat comes on butcher paper and nothing gets between you and that smoky flavor.

Llano – Home of the Big Chop

Head on out to Llano and make a stop at Cooper’s Old Time Pit Bar-B-Que. This place is legendary for its “Big Chop,” a thick, juicy pork chop smoked to perfection. You pick your meat straight off the pit, and it gets dipped in their signature mop sauce before it even hits your tray. Sit at one of the long picnic tables, roll up your sleeves, and dig in. It’s BBQ the old-school Texas way, and worth every mile of the drive.

Houston – Hidden Gems in the Bayou City

Houston’s BBQ scene is exploding with flavor. Truth BBQ is one of the standouts—don’t skip the sides. And if you’re craving some classic Southern charm with your smoke, check out The Pit Room or Pinkerton’s Barbecue. You’ll find yourself licking your fingers before the plate’s halfway done.

San Antonio – South Texas Flavors

You know I gotta give a nod to San Antonio. 2M Smokehouse blends Mexican flavors with Texas tradition in a way that hits you right in the taste buds. Tender brisket, creamy mac, homemade pickles—this spot brings the heat and the heart.

Brenham – Small Town, Big Taste

Nestled between Austin and Houston, Brenham isn’t just Blue Bell country—it’s also home to LJ’s BBQ. These folks are smoking meats that rival the big dogs. And if you’re lucky, you’ll catch one of their specialty days. Smoked turkey? Burnt ends? Yes, ma’am.

Tips for the Road

Come hungry. Most of these joints sell out daily, especially by lunchtime. Bring cash for the old-school places, and don’t be afraid to eat at a picnic table under a shade tree. The more rustic the setting, the better the flavor seems to be.

Final Thoughts

There ain’t no wrong turn on a Texas BBQ road trip—just meatier detours. Whether you’re after melt-in-your-mouth brisket, juicy ribs, or house-made sausage, July is the perfect month to gas up the truck, roll down the windows, and chase the smoke across the Lone Star State. So grab a cold drink, pack some wet wipes, and hit the road hungry.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

July Horoscopes with a Side of Grits

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It’s hotter than a billy goat in a pepper patch, and the stars are actin’ up again, y’all. July’s bringin’ some cosmic chaos with a side of sweet tea. Whether you’re settin’ off fireworks or settin’ boundaries, this month’s horoscopes come with a little Southern twist—because even the zodiac deserves some charm and cornbread.

Aries (March 21 – April 19)

Mood: Firecracker with a fuse
You’re feelin’ bold and bossy, like your meemaw when someone messes with her deviled eggs recipe. Channel that energy into something productive before you burn a bridge or bless someone’s heart a little too hard.

Southern Sayin’: “Don’t start nothin’, won’t be nothin’.”

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

Mood: Porch sittin’ and pie eatin’
You’re all about comfort this month—whether it’s comfort food, comfort TV, or just a good nap with the fan on high. Don’t let folks guilt you for takin’ it slow. You’re preservin’ your peace and your air conditioning bill.

Southern Sayin’: “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

Mood: Two-step between chaos and charm
You’re busier than a mosquito at a nudist colony. But sugar, try to focus. July’s got opportunities comin’ in hot, but if you don’t pick a lane, you’re gonna miss the exit—and maybe a BBQ invite, too.

Southern Sayin’: “You can’t ride two horses with one behind.”

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Mood: Soft shell, spicy center
You’re extra tender right now, and that’s okay. Wrap yourself up in something cozy (preferably monogrammed), and don’t be afraid to cry over country songs or grocery store commercials. Lean into feelin’ it all.

Southern Sayin’: “Sometimes you just need a good cry and a casserole.”

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Mood: Pageant queen energy
It’s your season, darlin’, and you are feelin’ yourself. Take the spotlight, but try not to hog the mic at karaoke night. You’re magnetic, loud, and just the right amount of dramatic—but don’t forget to share that shine.

Southern Sayin’: “You ain’t gotta be loud to be seen—but it sure helps.”

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Mood: Blessin’ messes left and right
You’re organized, focused, and absolutely done with everyone else’s disorganization. But slow down, sugarplum. Not everybody folds their towels the way you do—and that’s okay (even if they’re wrong).

Southern Sayin’: “Fix your own plate before worryin’ about mine.”

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

Mood: Floatin’ like a paper fan in church
You’re tryin’ to keep the peace, but July’s got drama poppin’ up like uninvited cousins at a cookout. Set some boundaries, drink your water, and remember: mind ya business. Stay safe out here, my fellow Libras!

Southern Sayin’: “You ain’t gotta attend every fuss you’re invited to.”

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

Mood: Mystery with a mason jar full of secrets
You’re broodin’ like a storm over the Gulf, and folks are curious what’s brewin’. Let ‘em wonder. July’s a good time to be strategic, play it cool, and maybe plot your next big move in the shadows like a catfish waitin’ for bait.

Southern Sayin’: “Still waters run deep—and probably hold grudges.”

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

Mood: Wild like a bull out the gate
You’ve got the travel bug worse than ever. If you can’t hit the road, at least hit the drive-thru for somethin’ fried and smothered. Just don’t let that restless spirit make you reckless with your words. Mind your manners, even when you’re wildin’.

Southern Sayin’: “Don’t let your mouth overload your ass.”

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Mood: Workin’ like it’s harvest season
You’re stackin’ goals like Granny stacks her coupon drawer. July’s got money moves and responsibility written all over it—but don’t forget to take your boots off and rest a spell. You’re no good to nobody runnin’ on fumes.

Southern Sayin’: “Even tractors need to cool off now and then.”

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Mood: Wacky, wild, and a little wonderful
You’re beatin’ to your own drum, as usual, and July only encourages that. Keep innovatin’, keep dreamin’, but maybe tether yourself to reality before someone calls Mama to come get you off the roof again.

Southern Sayin’: “You ain’t right—and that’s what we love about you.”

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

Mood: Sensitive like a biscuit in a rainstorm
You’re extra intuitive this month, pickin’ up on vibes nobody else can feel. That’s a gift, sugar, but it can wear you down. Protect your energy like you protect your grandma’s cornbread recipe.

Southern Sayin’: “Not every pot’s yours to stir.”

Whether you’re sweatin’ through your tank top or leanin’ into some big life shifts, July’s a wild ride, honey. Let the stars guide you—but remember, down South, we trust our gut and our Mammaw’s advice just as much.

Now go on, check your moon sign and grab some watermelon.

Related: It’s Beginning to Smell a Lot Like… July?

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Signs You’re Not Just Tired, You’re Spiritually Exhausted

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We all get tired—physically, mentally, emotionally. But there’s a different kind of tired that hits deeper. The kind that no nap, day off, or bubble bath can fix. If you’ve been feeling off lately and can’t quite put your finger on it, you may be spiritually exhausted.

This kind of burnout doesn’t just sneak up on you—it builds slowly, quietly, until one day, you feel completely disconnected from everything that once made you feel alive. Here’s how to tell if you’re not just tired… you’re soul-deep exhausted.

You Feel Disconnected from Everything

You’re surrounded by people, but you feel alone. Conversations feel shallow, and the things that used to bring you joy now just feel like items on a to-do list. Spiritual exhaustion can make the world feel like it’s moving around you, but you’re not really in it. You’re watching life happen instead of living it.

Motivation Has Left the Building

Tasks that used to be easy now feel overwhelming. Even getting out of bed can feel like climbing a mountain. You’re not lazy—you’re drained. When your spirit’s running on empty, motivation naturally fizzles out. It’s not about being unwilling, it’s about being unable to care.

You’re Emotionally Numb or Extra Sensitive

Some days you feel nothing. Other days you feel everything all at once. Small things either don’t affect you at all or make you completely unravel. That emotional imbalance is a sign your inner self is screaming for attention and rest.

You Crave Silence but Fear Stillness

You might avoid your own thoughts because being still makes you uncomfortable. At the same time, you’re desperate for silence because the noise of life feels too loud. It’s a paradox that makes you restless and uneasy, and it often shows up during spiritual depletion.

You Start Questioning Everything

Your purpose, your relationships, your path—nothing feels clear. It’s like the fog rolled in, and you can’t see more than a few feet ahead. You’re not just tired; you’re spiritually lost and craving some sort of sign to get back on track.

You’re Constantly Running on Empty

Even after a full night’s sleep, a weekend off, or a vacation, you still feel wiped out. That’s a big red flag. Your body’s rested, but your soul is still weary. No amount of physical rest can fix a soul that’s been neglected for too long.

You’ve Lost Your Sense of Joy and Wonder

Remember when the little things used to light you up? A sunrise, a good song, a deep conversation? If none of that moves you anymore, your spirit might be crying out for reconnection. Life hasn’t gotten dull—you’ve just lost your spark.

You’re Easily Irritated and Overwhelmed

Every little thing feels like too much. You find yourself snapping more often or shutting down altogether. This isn’t just stress—it’s the symptom of being completely drained. Your capacity is shot, and your spirit is waving the white flag.

You’ve Pulled Away from Spiritual Practices

If you used to pray, meditate, journal, or spend time in nature—and now you don’t—it might be because you’ve fallen out of alignment. When you’re spiritually exhausted, even the things that used to refuel you can feel pointless. But ironically, they’re what you need most.

How to Start Refilling Your Cup

The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck in this place. Start small. Step away from the noise. Sit with your feelings. Spend time with people who light you up. Revisit the things that once made you feel connected—even if just for five minutes. Get outside. Cry if you need to. Be honest about what’s not working in your life.

Most importantly, don’t ignore the signs. Your spirit matters just as much as your body and mind. When it’s run down, everything else eventually follows. You’re allowed to rest. You’re allowed to feel. And you’re allowed to come back stronger and more whole than ever.

If this hit a little close to home, you’re not alone. Spiritual exhaustion is real—but healing is, too. Start with compassion. Add in some space. The rest will come.

Related: I’m Not a Morning Person, But Here’s What Helps

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

I’m Not a Morning Person, But Here’s What Helps

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I wake up at 5 a.m. most mornings—not because I want to, but because my husband has to be at work before sunrise. And since I’m the unofficial unpaid family Uber driver, I don’t have a choice. I’ve never been a morning person and probably never will be, but I’ve figured out how to survive the early hours without being a complete gremlin.

If you’ve got a job, a spouse, a kid, or a dog dragging you out of bed before the sun even thinks about rising, here’s what actually helps.

I Set My Alarm to Something That Doesn’t Scare Me Half to Death

No sirens. No buzzing. No angry robot sounds. I set my alarm to a soft tone that gently wakes me up. It’s still awful, but it doesn’t make me throw my phone across the room. I’m already getting up before most humans—I don’t need a mini heart attack on top of it.

I Don’t Think—I Just Move

If I sit there even five seconds too long, I’ll talk myself out of getting up. So I have one rule: don’t think. I roll out of bed like it’s a fire drill. Groggy? Yep. Grumpy? Probably. But if I just get my body moving, my brain eventually catches up… around the time I hit the driveway.

Lights On Immediately (Even If I Hate It)

My eyeballs hate it, but I turn the lights on the second I stand up. No dim cozy vibes here—this ain’t a spa. Bright lights flip the switch in my brain that says, “Fine, I’m awake.” It works faster than caffeine. (Which I don’t even drink—bless all y’all coffee folks, but I’m not one of you.)

I Keep It Quiet and Calm (I Ain’t Got Words Yet)

I don’t want to hear the news, a podcast, or even happy people talking before the sun comes up. Instead, I ease into the day by reading or just silence. Santiago knows better than to ask questions that require real answers before I drop him off. Early morning peace = survival.

I Reward Myself When I Get Home

The only thing that keeps me from spiraling into a sleepy rage is knowing I’ve got a little reward waiting when I get back. A warm shower, a cozy blanket, maybe 15 minutes of reading, scrolling, or doing nothing before the rest of the day starts. If I can just get past the drop-off, I earn that moment.

I Don’t Pretend to Be a Morning Person

I’m not baking muffins or journaling in the moonlight. I’m not doing stretches by candlelight. I’m up because I have to be, and I make the best of it—but I don’t fake it. If you’re forcing yourself through early mornings, give yourself grace. Some of us aren’t wired to love the a.m. grind, and that’s perfectly fine.

I still grumble. I still hit snooze once. But I get it done. And over time, I’ve built little routines that help make the mornings feel less brutal. I may never love early mornings—but I’ve learned how to live with them.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

What Healing Actually Looks Like in Real Life

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Most people picture healing like a movie montage—quick, tidy, and with a feel-good soundtrack. But real life? It’s messier. Healing rarely arrives in a straight line, and it definitely doesn’t show up on schedule. The truth is, it can be confusing, clumsy, and unexpectedly beautiful.

Let’s talk about what healing actually looks like—outside of therapy quotes and Instagram reels.

You Still Cry Sometimes

Healing doesn’t mean the pain is gone. It means you’ve learned to live beside it. You might still cry when a song hits too hard or when a memory sneaks up out of nowhere. That’s not failure. That’s healing.

You’re no longer trying to shove it down or run from it. You’re allowing the emotion to exist without it owning you.

You Outgrow People (and Places)

It might sting a little when you stop reaching out to the friend you used to tell everything to. Or when that once-comforting place now makes you feel small.

Healing often means stepping into a new version of yourself—and that version might not fit into your old life. That’s okay. You’re not being cold. You’re being honest with your needs.

Some Days Feel Like Setbacks

You’ll have days where it feels like you’ve made zero progress. You might snap at someone you love. You might stay in bed all day. That doesn’t erase all the good days.

Healing is recognizing that one hard day doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re still human—and you’re still working through it.

You Protect Your Peace (More Often)

One subtle sign of healing? You stop explaining yourself so much. You begin setting quiet boundaries. You might leave a room when the energy shifts, turn your phone off when you’re overwhelmed, or say no without guilt.

You start realizing your peace is precious—and that’s a huge win.

You Celebrate the Little Wins

Maybe you didn’t cry today. Maybe you finally called the doctor. Maybe you sat outside and felt the sun on your face without your thoughts racing.

Healing shows up in tiny ways. And those tiny moments? They stack up and become big victories over time.

You’re Kinder to Yourself

That voice in your head—the one that used to be brutal? It softens. You might still get frustrated, but now you catch yourself.

Instead of spiraling into shame, you say, “I’m doing the best I can.” That shift? That’s healing, plain and simple.

You Start Looking Forward Again

One day, without realizing it, you’ll laugh from your belly. You’ll make plans for next week. You’ll get excited about something again.

It may feel foreign at first—like trying to walk in a new pair of shoes. But it’s your heart reminding you that it still believes in joy.

Real Healing Isn’t Always Pretty

Sometimes healing looks like crying on your kitchen floor, journaling until your hand hurts, or going for a walk just to breathe.

It’s unfiltered. It’s real. It’s raw.

But underneath it all is something powerful—hope. The kind that says, “Even if I’m not there yet, I’m still moving forward.”

Related: Reclaiming Your Identity After Raising Kids

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Life Hacks from a Southern Mama

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When you’ve been raisin’ babies, cleanin’ messes, stretchin’ paychecks, and runnin’ a house full of chaos for more years than you can count, you learn a few things. Some call it wisdom. We call it Southern Mama Survival Mode—and honey, it’s a powerful thing.

Here’s a list of home and life hacks straight from my Southern heart to yours. They’re practical, a little ridiculous, and downright brilliant if I do say so myself.

Keep a Gallon Ziploc Bag in the Freezer for “Soup Starters”

Don’t throw out those leftover veggies, chicken scraps, or even that last spoonful of rice. Toss ’em in a Ziploc bag labeled “Soup Starter” and keep it in the freezer. Once it’s full, dump it in a pot with broth and some seasonin’. Boom. Free dinner.

Use a Pillowcase to Clean Ceiling Fan Blades (Without Gaggin’)

Slide a pillowcase over the blade, squeeze it shut, and pull. It traps the dust inside so it don’t go flyin’ all over your room and your fresh-washed sheets. Learned this one after sneezin’ through spring cleanin’ like a fool.

Mason Jars Ain’t Just Cute—They’re the Ultimate Organizer

Store dry goods, cotton balls, Q-tips, nuts, bolts, leftover paint, bobby pins, or spare change. If it fits, it sits. Bonus points if you write on the lid with a Sharpie like your Granny used to.

Line Trash Cans with Newspaper Before Adding the Bag

This one’s pure gold: lay some newspaper at the bottom of your trash can before you put the bag in. It’ll soak up leaks, fight odors, and keep stuff from stickin’. Just like Mama’s gossip—absorbs the mess before it gets outta hand.

Ice Cubes Fix Carpet Dents Like Magic

You know those lil’ craters your furniture leaves behind in the carpet? Drop an ice cube on it, let it melt, then fluff with a spoon or fork. Works like a charm—no lie. Just don’t forget the towel underneath unless you want a surprise puddle.

Put a Lazy Susan Under the Sink

Tired of crawlin’ around under the sink just to reach the dish soap? Toss a Lazy Susan under there and spin your way to sanity. Works great in the fridge too for sauces, dressings, and that jar of pickles nobody eats but still insists on keepin’.

Lemons + Vinegar = Southern Mama’s Miracle Cleaner

Soak lemon peels in white vinegar for two weeks in a jar. Strain it, and you’ve got the best all-purpose cleaner this side of the Mississippi. Smells good, cleans better, and makes you feel like you’ve got your life together—even if the dog just threw up on the rug.

Keep Dryer Sheets in Your Drawers and Suitcases

Not just for laundry! Tuck a dryer sheet in drawers, shoes, or your suitcase when packin’. I also throw one in each pillowcase when I wash them each Sunday. It’ll keep everything smellin’ fresh and remind you of clean laundry—even if the laundry pile’s taller than your grandkids.

Use a Hanging Shoe Organizer for Snacks or Cleaning Supplies

Hang it on the pantry door or in the laundry room. Each pocket holds granola bars, spice packets, wipes, dusters—whatever you’re tired of diggin’ for. If it can fit in a flip-flop, it can fit in here.

Set a “Power Hour” Timer and Tackle What You Can

Turn on your favorite playlist, set a 60-minute timer, and go full ham. Clean, organize, pay bills—whatever needs attention. You’ll be amazed how much you get done without scrollin’ your whole day away.

White Bread Removes Scuff Marks (And That’s Not a Joke)

Got marks on your wall or shoes? Take a piece of plain ol’ white bread, ball it up, and rub it gently over the spot. It lifts scuffs like magic. Bonus: You can eat the crust while you clean.

Store Sheets Inside Their Matching Pillowcase

Fold up your fitted and flat sheets, tuck ’em inside one of the pillowcases, and store the whole bundle together. That way, when it’s time to change the bed, you ain’t diggin’ through a linen closet like you’re on a treasure hunt.

Rubber Bands on a Paint Can = Mess-Free Brushing

Stretch a rubber band across the opening of a paint can and use it to wipe your brush on instead of the rim. Keeps the can clean, your hands tidy, and your tongue from sayin’ things you’ll have to apologize for in church.

Turn a Cake Stand Into a Fancy Sink Organizer

Put a cake stand beside your sink and load it with soap, sponges, and lotion. Looks cute, keeps things off the counter, and makes you feel just a little fancy—like “bless-your-heart-but-don’t-touch-my-soap” fancy.

A Southern mama knows that sometimes the best fix isn’t fancy—it’s resourceful, simple, and straight from the heart. These hacks ain’t from Pinterest, baby. They’re from real-life livin’, learnin’, and a little trial and error (and maybe one exploded casserole).

Try a few, pass ’em on, and don’t forget: if duct tape and sweet tea can’t fix it, you probably just need a nap.

Related: The Secret to Tackling Laundry Like a Pro

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Hello June: Here’s What I’m Manifesting This Month

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June has arrived with its sunny days, summer energy, and the perfect excuse to hit reset. For me, this month is all about clarity, confidence, and calling in the things I truly want. I believe that when you speak your goals out loud—and put action behind them—amazing things start to unfold. So here’s what I’m manifesting this month.

More Income, Aligned With My Purpose

Let’s start with the big one: more income. I’m not just talking about random cash flow. I’m calling in income that aligns with the work I love to do. The kind that feels good to earn. I’m setting clear intentions, staying consistent with my efforts, and leaving room for unexpected blessings.

June is the month I stop downplaying my worth. I’m showing up boldly, charging what I’m worth, and creating opportunities that feel aligned with who I am and where I’m headed.

More Sales, Especially the Soul-Aligned Kind

Next up on my manifestation list: more sales. Whether it’s through digital products, services, or physical goods, I’m welcoming an increase in conversions—without the hustle burnout. I’m leaning into marketing strategies that feel natural, personal, and honest.

This month, I’m showing up with value, speaking directly to my audience’s needs, and trusting that the right people will find their way to what I’m offering. I’m also setting daily sales goals and celebrating every single win—big or small.

Creative Flow That Doesn’t Quit

I’m manifesting inspired ideas that come with ease. No more staring at blank screens or second-guessing everything. June is about trusting my creative instincts and letting the words, designs, and projects flow naturally.

I’m carving out time to dream, brainstorm, and even just play—because sometimes the best work comes when I stop trying to force it.

Health That Feels Like Freedom

I want energy. I want clarity. I want to wake up feeling good in my body and mind. So I’m manifesting better health routines that stick—not because I “should” do them, but because they make me feel strong, balanced, and clear-headed.

This includes better sleep, movement I actually enjoy, and foods that fuel me without guilt or restriction. When I feel good physically, I show up better in every area of my life.

Connections That Uplift and Inspire

This month, I’m open to new friendships, stronger partnerships, and conversations that leave me feeling lighter and more connected. I’m manifesting deeper connections with people who get it—those who challenge me in the best ways and celebrate my growth.

Whether it’s in my personal life or my business circle, I’m calling in relationships that are honest, kind, and rooted in mutual respect.

Faith That Doesn’t Waver

Above all, I’m manifesting faith—the kind that doesn’t crumble when things take longer than I planned. I’m trusting that what’s meant for me is already in motion. That the goals I’ve written down, the dreams I’m working toward, and the life I’m building is already unfolding—even if I can’t see all the pieces yet.

June, I’m ready. I’m aligned, I’m focused, and I’m calling in everything with clarity and gratitude. Let’s do this.

Related: My Brain at 2 AM vs My Brain at 2 PM

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

The Glorious Concept of the Shower Beer

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If you’ve never cracked open a cold one in the shower, you’re missing out on one of life’s most underrated joys. A shower beer is exactly what it sounds like: sipping a refreshing beer while standing under hot water. It sounds weird until you try it. Then it becomes a vibe—an escape, a reward, a celebration. It’s that moment when hot steam meets ice-cold brew, and suddenly the world feels just a little better.

The Best Kind of Multitasking

You’re getting clean and catching a buzz at the same time. That’s efficiency. Whether you’re winding down after a long day, pre-gaming for a night out, or just enjoying a lazy Saturday afternoon, adding a beer to your shower routine levels it all the way up. It’s the working adult’s answer to balancing productivity and pleasure. You’ve earned that beer—and now you don’t even have to wait until you towel off to enjoy it.

Why It Hits Different

It’s the contrast that does it. The warm water relaxes your muscles and melts away the stress, while the crisp, cold beer shocks your taste buds to life. That first sip? Pure magic. The rest of the beer? A smooth ride. Plus, your senses are heightened in the shower. Everything tastes better, smells stronger, and hits a little harder. It’s a whole experience, not just a drink.

A Mini Vacation You Can Have Anytime

No need for travel plans or PTO. A shower beer is an instant escape. You step into your own personal steam room, crank up your favorite playlist, and sip like you’re on vacation. No crowds, no lines, no bartenders giving you attitude. Just you, your shower, and that beautiful can of beer.

The Ritual of Relaxation

Shower beers are more than a trend—they’re a ritual. They mark the end of something stressful and the start of something better. Done with work? Beer in the shower. Beat a tough workout? Beer in the shower. Just want to vibe out? You already know. It’s the easiest way to elevate your mood with zero effort.

Tips for the Perfect Shower Beer

Not all beers are built for the steam room. Go for something light and crisp. Think lagers, pilsners, or wheat beers. Skip anything too heavy or too boozy. You want refreshing, not overwhelming. Also, always use a can. Glass in the shower is just asking for a bad time. Pro tip: stick it in the freezer for 10 minutes beforehand for that extra chill.

SEO Gold: Why Shower Beers Are Going Viral

Search volume for “shower beer” is climbing, and it’s easy to see why. It’s relatable, it’s meme-worthy, and it’s part of a larger trend toward small self-care habits that make a big impact. People are looking for ways to relax at home without spending a fortune—and a shower beer costs less than a latte and does way more for your soul.

Final Sip: Treat Yourself

You don’t need a reason to enjoy a shower beer—just a moment to yourself and your favorite cold brew. It’s simple, satisfying, and just the right amount of ridiculous. So next time you’re about to hop in the shower, grab a can, hit play on a good song, and let yourself indulge in the ultimate form of low-maintenance luxury.

Because life’s too short to wait until after the shower.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.