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Life Hacks from a Southern Mama

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When you’ve been raisin’ babies, cleanin’ messes, stretchin’ paychecks, and runnin’ a house full of chaos for more years than you can count, you learn a few things. Some call it wisdom. We call it Southern Mama Survival Mode—and honey, it’s a powerful thing.

Here’s a list of home and life hacks straight from my Southern heart to yours. They’re practical, a little ridiculous, and downright brilliant if I do say so myself.

Keep a Gallon Ziploc Bag in the Freezer for “Soup Starters”

Don’t throw out those leftover veggies, chicken scraps, or even that last spoonful of rice. Toss ’em in a Ziploc bag labeled “Soup Starter” and keep it in the freezer. Once it’s full, dump it in a pot with broth and some seasonin’. Boom. Free dinner.

Use a Pillowcase to Clean Ceiling Fan Blades (Without Gaggin’)

Slide a pillowcase over the blade, squeeze it shut, and pull. It traps the dust inside so it don’t go flyin’ all over your room and your fresh-washed sheets. Learned this one after sneezin’ through spring cleanin’ like a fool.

Mason Jars Ain’t Just Cute—They’re the Ultimate Organizer

Store dry goods, cotton balls, Q-tips, nuts, bolts, leftover paint, bobby pins, or spare change. If it fits, it sits. Bonus points if you write on the lid with a Sharpie like your Granny used to.

Line Trash Cans with Newspaper Before Adding the Bag

This one’s pure gold: lay some newspaper at the bottom of your trash can before you put the bag in. It’ll soak up leaks, fight odors, and keep stuff from stickin’. Just like Mama’s gossip—absorbs the mess before it gets outta hand.

Ice Cubes Fix Carpet Dents Like Magic

You know those lil’ craters your furniture leaves behind in the carpet? Drop an ice cube on it, let it melt, then fluff with a spoon or fork. Works like a charm—no lie. Just don’t forget the towel underneath unless you want a surprise puddle.

Put a Lazy Susan Under the Sink

Tired of crawlin’ around under the sink just to reach the dish soap? Toss a Lazy Susan under there and spin your way to sanity. Works great in the fridge too for sauces, dressings, and that jar of pickles nobody eats but still insists on keepin’.

Lemons + Vinegar = Southern Mama’s Miracle Cleaner

Soak lemon peels in white vinegar for two weeks in a jar. Strain it, and you’ve got the best all-purpose cleaner this side of the Mississippi. Smells good, cleans better, and makes you feel like you’ve got your life together—even if the dog just threw up on the rug.

Keep Dryer Sheets in Your Drawers and Suitcases

Not just for laundry! Tuck a dryer sheet in drawers, shoes, or your suitcase when packin’. I also throw one in each pillowcase when I wash them each Sunday. It’ll keep everything smellin’ fresh and remind you of clean laundry—even if the laundry pile’s taller than your grandkids.

Use a Hanging Shoe Organizer for Snacks or Cleaning Supplies

Hang it on the pantry door or in the laundry room. Each pocket holds granola bars, spice packets, wipes, dusters—whatever you’re tired of diggin’ for. If it can fit in a flip-flop, it can fit in here.

Set a “Power Hour” Timer and Tackle What You Can

Turn on your favorite playlist, set a 60-minute timer, and go full ham. Clean, organize, pay bills—whatever needs attention. You’ll be amazed how much you get done without scrollin’ your whole day away.

White Bread Removes Scuff Marks (And That’s Not a Joke)

Got marks on your wall or shoes? Take a piece of plain ol’ white bread, ball it up, and rub it gently over the spot. It lifts scuffs like magic. Bonus: You can eat the crust while you clean.

Store Sheets Inside Their Matching Pillowcase

Fold up your fitted and flat sheets, tuck ’em inside one of the pillowcases, and store the whole bundle together. That way, when it’s time to change the bed, you ain’t diggin’ through a linen closet like you’re on a treasure hunt.

Rubber Bands on a Paint Can = Mess-Free Brushing

Stretch a rubber band across the opening of a paint can and use it to wipe your brush on instead of the rim. Keeps the can clean, your hands tidy, and your tongue from sayin’ things you’ll have to apologize for in church.

Turn a Cake Stand Into a Fancy Sink Organizer

Put a cake stand beside your sink and load it with soap, sponges, and lotion. Looks cute, keeps things off the counter, and makes you feel just a little fancy—like “bless-your-heart-but-don’t-touch-my-soap” fancy.

A Southern mama knows that sometimes the best fix isn’t fancy—it’s resourceful, simple, and straight from the heart. These hacks ain’t from Pinterest, baby. They’re from real-life livin’, learnin’, and a little trial and error (and maybe one exploded casserole).

Try a few, pass ’em on, and don’t forget: if duct tape and sweet tea can’t fix it, you probably just need a nap.

Related: The Secret to Tackling Laundry Like a Pro

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Hello June: Here’s What I’m Manifesting This Month

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June has arrived with its sunny days, summer energy, and the perfect excuse to hit reset. For me, this month is all about clarity, confidence, and calling in the things I truly want. I believe that when you speak your goals out loud—and put action behind them—amazing things start to unfold. So here’s what I’m manifesting this month.

More Income, Aligned With My Purpose

Let’s start with the big one: more income. I’m not just talking about random cash flow. I’m calling in income that aligns with the work I love to do. The kind that feels good to earn. I’m setting clear intentions, staying consistent with my efforts, and leaving room for unexpected blessings.

June is the month I stop downplaying my worth. I’m showing up boldly, charging what I’m worth, and creating opportunities that feel aligned with who I am and where I’m headed.

More Sales, Especially the Soul-Aligned Kind

Next up on my manifestation list: more sales. Whether it’s through digital products, services, or physical goods, I’m welcoming an increase in conversions—without the hustle burnout. I’m leaning into marketing strategies that feel natural, personal, and honest.

This month, I’m showing up with value, speaking directly to my audience’s needs, and trusting that the right people will find their way to what I’m offering. I’m also setting daily sales goals and celebrating every single win—big or small.

Creative Flow That Doesn’t Quit

I’m manifesting inspired ideas that come with ease. No more staring at blank screens or second-guessing everything. June is about trusting my creative instincts and letting the words, designs, and projects flow naturally.

I’m carving out time to dream, brainstorm, and even just play—because sometimes the best work comes when I stop trying to force it.

Health That Feels Like Freedom

I want energy. I want clarity. I want to wake up feeling good in my body and mind. So I’m manifesting better health routines that stick—not because I “should” do them, but because they make me feel strong, balanced, and clear-headed.

This includes better sleep, movement I actually enjoy, and foods that fuel me without guilt or restriction. When I feel good physically, I show up better in every area of my life.

Connections That Uplift and Inspire

This month, I’m open to new friendships, stronger partnerships, and conversations that leave me feeling lighter and more connected. I’m manifesting deeper connections with people who get it—those who challenge me in the best ways and celebrate my growth.

Whether it’s in my personal life or my business circle, I’m calling in relationships that are honest, kind, and rooted in mutual respect.

Faith That Doesn’t Waver

Above all, I’m manifesting faith—the kind that doesn’t crumble when things take longer than I planned. I’m trusting that what’s meant for me is already in motion. That the goals I’ve written down, the dreams I’m working toward, and the life I’m building is already unfolding—even if I can’t see all the pieces yet.

June, I’m ready. I’m aligned, I’m focused, and I’m calling in everything with clarity and gratitude. Let’s do this.

Related: My Brain at 2 AM vs My Brain at 2 PM

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

My Brain at 2 AM vs My Brain at 2 PM

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Ever notice how your brain transforms depending on the time of day? At 2 PM, you’re usually trying to function like a real adult. But at 2 AM? Suddenly you’re a philosopher, a creative genius, and maybe even a part-time stand-up comic. Let’s break down the chaos and clarity that comes with each.

The 2 PM Brain: Responsible…ish

By 2 PM, you’ve likely had a full morning of meetings, errands, or kid chaos. Your brain? It’s clocked in, but it’s tired. This is the hour when:

  • You forget why you walked into a room
  • You reread the same email three times
  • You make to-do lists that include “make a to-do list”

It’s that afternoon slump where you’re mentally present but running on fumes. You’re too responsible to take a nap but too exhausted to solve world problems. I’m usually driving around this time – kinda scary!

The 2 AM Brain: Unhinged but Brilliant

Then there’s 2 AM. You should be sleeping. Instead, your brain’s decided it’s time to revisit that awkward thing you said in 2011. But also? It’s weirdly on fire.

This is the hour of:

  • Random life revelations
  • Deep thoughts like, “What if dogs see time differently?”
  • Sudden motivation to reorganize your entire closet
  • Unstoppable creative energy… for absolutely no reason

You’ll convince yourself that tomorrow is the day you finally change your life. And you’ll believe it. Until, of course, 2 PM rolls around again. Sound familiar?

Why Is This Even a Thing?

There’s actually a name for this nighttime overthinking: revenge bedtime procrastination. It’s when you delay sleep to regain control of your day—especially if your daytime hours are packed with obligations. Your brain rebels, choosing chaos over rest.

Meanwhile, your afternoon fog is thanks to the body’s natural circadian rhythm. That 2 PM dip is real, and it’s why you reach for caffeine, carbs, or a comfy couch.

How to Outsmart Your Brain’s Schedule

Want to keep your 2 PM brain from dragging and your 2 AM brain from spiraling? Try this:

  • Limit screen time before bed
  • Do your creative work earlier in the day
  • Set a “wind down” alarm at night like you do a morning one
  • Schedule short breaks around 2 PM to reset your focus

Final Thoughts: Same Brain, Different Vibes

Your brain isn’t broken—it’s just running different software at different times. At 2 PM, it’s stuck in survival mode. At 2 AM, it’s vibing with the universe. And somehow, we need both.

Whether you’re answering emails or contemplating the meaning of life while staring at the ceiling, give your brain a little grace. It’s doing the best it can… on barely enough sleep.

Interesting Read: The Glorious Concept of the Shower Beer

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

The Secret to Tackling Laundry Like a Pro

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Let’s be real: laundry is one of those chores that never ends. Just when you think you’re caught up, the hamper fills back up again. But what if I told you there’s a better way? A smarter way. Yep—there’s a secret to staying on top of laundry without losing your mind. Whether you’re managing a busy household or just trying to keep your favorite hoodie clean, this guide will show you how to tackle laundry like a pro.

Create a Realistic Laundry Schedule

The first secret? Don’t try to do it all in one day. Break it up. Pick specific days for certain loads—maybe towels on Tuesday, darks on Thursday, and bedding on Sunday.

Why it works:
Spreading it out keeps you from drowning in piles. It also helps prevent burnout (yes, laundry burnout is real).

Sort Smarter, Not Harder

Instead of tossing everything into one basket, keep separate hampers for lights, darks, and delicates. You’ll save time when laundry day rolls around.

Pro tip: Use mesh bags for socks and underwear. You’ll never lose a sock again—well, almost never.

Use the Right Products

Don’t underestimate the power of a good detergent. Choose one that fits your needs—whether it’s fragrance-free, stain-fighting, or made for sensitive skin. Dryer sheets or wool dryer balls can make a big difference in how your clothes feel and smell.

Hot tip: For stubborn smells, toss in a cup of white vinegar during the rinse cycle. Works like magic.

Don’t Overload the Machine

We’ve all been guilty of stuffing the washer to the brim. But too much laundry at once means nothing gets truly clean. Follow your machine’s guidelines—your clothes (and machine) will thank you.

Remember: A little room goes a long way for a deeper clean.

Fold ASAP (Or At Least Try)

This might be the hardest part, but folding right after drying is key. It prevents wrinkles and keeps clothes from piling up in a chair somewhere (you know the one).

Hack: Set a timer and challenge yourself to beat the clock. Folding doesn’t have to feel like a drag.

Make It Enjoyable

Add a little fun to your laundry routine. Play your favorite playlist, binge a true crime podcast, or light a candle while you fold. Turn it into a vibe.

Real talk: Laundry isn’t going anywhere, so you might as well make it enjoyable.

Get the Whole House Involved

Laundry shouldn’t fall on one person—especially in a household. Kids can sort or match socks. Your partner can handle towels. Teamwork turns laundry from a chore into a shared routine.

Bonus: Teaching kids laundry early gives them lifelong skills. Win-win.

Know When to Delegate

Sometimes, the secret is knowing when to say, “Nope, not today.” If laundry’s overwhelming you, consider a wash-and-fold service. Even once a month can help you reset.

Final Thoughts

Tackling laundry like a pro doesn’t mean having a spotless laundry room or using fancy gadgets. It’s about creating a rhythm that works for you. Whether it’s building a routine, organizing your space, or just folding while you catch up on your favorite show—finding your groove is the real secret.

Now go on, grab that basket, and show laundry who’s boss.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why I Believe in Building Multiple Streams of Income

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In today’s world, relying on a single source of income feels risky. With economic uncertainty and the rising cost of living, it’s more important than ever to diversify your income. I’m a big believer in building multiple streams of income, and here’s why.

Financial Security and Stability

One of the biggest reasons to have multiple income streams is financial security. If one stream dries up, you have others to fall back on. Think about it: if your main job suddenly disappears, how long could you sustain your lifestyle? For most people, the answer is not long.

Having multiple income sources means you’re not putting all your eggs in one basket. If one venture struggles, others can help keep you afloat. It’s like having a financial safety net that cushions the blow during tough times.

Opportunities to Pursue Passions

Multiple streams of income allow you to explore your interests. Maybe you have a creative hobby or a skill you’ve always wanted to monetize. Having a stable job gives you the foundation to take risks with passion projects without stressing over bills.

For example, if you love crafting, you could start selling handmade items online. If writing is your passion, freelance gigs or self-publishing could add an extra stream. By diversifying your income, you’re not just earning more—you’re also fulfilling your creative potential.

Building Wealth Faster

Relying on one paycheck often means slow financial growth. Multiple income streams, however, can significantly accelerate wealth building. Imagine earning from your main job, a side hustle, and passive income investments simultaneously. The money accumulates faster and can be reinvested to create even more streams.

Investing in stocks, real estate, or peer-to-peer lending are great ways to build passive income. The goal is to make your money work for you rather than the other way around. Diversifying your income means you’re not just earning; you’re strategically growing your wealth.

Personal and Professional Growth

Managing multiple streams of income requires you to learn new skills, stay organized, and think creatively. This process inevitably leads to personal growth. You develop a stronger work ethic, become more resourceful, and learn to manage your time efficiently.

On a professional level, it keeps you adaptable. The skills you gain from side hustles or freelance work often transfer to your main job, making you more valuable as an employee or entrepreneur. The confidence gained from seeing your efforts pay off can also boost your self-esteem.

Preparing for the Future

Economic landscapes change rapidly. Industries that are thriving today might not be so profitable tomorrow. By diversifying your income sources, you’re proactively preparing for potential downturns. You’ll have the flexibility to shift focus and pivot to more lucrative opportunities without being left scrambling.

Additionally, building multiple streams early on sets you up for retirement. Passive income, in particular, becomes invaluable when you’re no longer working a traditional job. Real estate investments, dividend stocks, or royalties from creative projects can continue to bring in money long after you retire.

Achieving Financial Independence

Many people dream of financial independence—earning enough to cover their living expenses without relying on a single paycheck. Multiple income streams are essential to achieving that dream. They give you the freedom to make choices based on your passions rather than financial obligations.

Whether it’s starting a small business, investing in property, or building an online brand, each step toward diversification brings you closer to financial freedom. The ultimate goal is to have enough passive income to sustain your lifestyle, allowing you to focus on what truly matters.

Start Small but Think Big

You don’t need to launch several income streams all at once. Start with one small venture, master it, and then add another. Maybe you begin by freelancing a few hours a week, then branch out into creating digital products or investing. The key is consistency and commitment.

Remember, each new income stream might feel challenging at first, but the effort pays off in the long run. Be strategic—choose ventures that align with your skills and interests, and don’t be afraid to pivot if something isn’t working.

Wrapping It All Up

Building multiple streams of income is not just a financial strategy—it’s a mindset. It’s about taking control of your financial future and giving yourself options. The peace of mind that comes from knowing you’re not dependent on one paycheck is priceless.

Whether you’re looking for financial security, wealth growth, or the freedom to pursue your passions, diversifying your income is the way to go. Start today, build gradually, and watch your financial confidence soar.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Top Tips to Stay Focused While Working Remotely

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Working remotely can be a dream come true, but distractions can easily derail productivity. Whether it’s household chores, social media, or unexpected interruptions, staying focused can feel like an uphill battle. Here are the best ways to stay on track while working from home.

Create a Dedicated Workspace

One of the most effective ways to minimize distractions is to set up a dedicated workspace. Choose a spot that is quiet, comfortable, and free from household traffic. This physical boundary helps signal to your brain that it’s time to work.

Avoid working from your bed or couch, as these areas are associated with relaxation. Instead, invest in a comfortable chair and a sturdy desk. Personalize your space with items that motivate you but avoid clutter that can distract you.

Set Clear Boundaries

When working remotely, it’s crucial to establish boundaries with family and friends. Let them know your work hours and ask them to respect your time. This might mean posting a sign on your door or having a quick chat about your schedule.

It’s equally important to set boundaries for yourself. Avoid taking non-work calls or browsing social media during your designated work hours. Consider using apps that block distracting websites when you need to focus.

Stick to a Routine

A consistent routine can help maintain focus and productivity. Start your day at the same time, even if you’re not commuting. Take a few minutes to plan your tasks, prioritizing the most important ones.

Break your day into manageable chunks, allowing time for short breaks. This structure prevents burnout and keeps you motivated throughout the day. Ending your workday at a consistent time also helps maintain a healthy work-life balance.

Minimize Digital Distractions

Social media and non-work notifications can quickly pull you off track. Consider silencing your phone or placing it out of reach. Use focus apps that block non-essential sites during work hours.

Close any unnecessary tabs on your computer, and log out of personal accounts. This simple step reduces the temptation to check notifications and keeps your attention on your tasks.

Take Purposeful Breaks

Working non-stop isn’t sustainable, even from home. Schedule short breaks to stretch, hydrate, or have a quick snack. A brief walk outside can also help clear your mind and boost productivity.

Make your breaks intentional rather than impulsive. Set a timer to remind yourself when it’s time to step away. This way, breaks become a planned part of your routine rather than a distraction.

Use Time Management Techniques

Techniques like the Pomodoro method can help you maintain focus. Work for 25 minutes, then take a five-minute break. After four sessions, take a longer break. This pattern helps you stay engaged while preventing burnout.

You can also try batching similar tasks together. Completing similar work in one go reduces the mental shift between different types of tasks.

Stay Accountable

Share your goals with a colleague or friend. Knowing someone else is aware of your tasks can increase motivation. You might even consider setting up virtual check-ins for progress updates.

If your job allows, use project management tools to track your progress. Keeping your tasks organized and visible helps maintain momentum throughout the day.

Final Thoughts

Remote work offers flexibility, but it also requires discipline. By creating a structured environment and minimizing distractions, you can maximize productivity. Implementing these strategies will help you stay focused and maintain a successful remote work routine.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

How to Decorate on a Budget (Without Sacrificing Style)

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Decorating your home without spending a fortune is totally doable. You don’t need a big budget to create a stylish, comfortable space. With a little creativity and smart shopping, you can transform your home without breaking the bank. Here’s how.

1. Embrace Thrift Shopping and Secondhand Finds

Thrift stores and online marketplaces are gold mines for budget-friendly decor. Look for vintage furniture, quirky accessories, and unique wall art. Upcycling these finds can add character to your space without costing much.

Pro Tip: Check out garage sales on weekends for hidden gems. A little DIY touch can turn a dated piece into a trendy focal point.

2. Focus on One Statement Piece Per Room

Instead of filling a space with expensive items, pick one statement piece. It could be a bold area rug, a colorful sofa, or an eye-catching artwork. Building your room around that one standout item keeps things stylish and affordable.

3. DIY Your Decor

You’d be surprised what a little creativity can do. Try making your own wall art with canvas and paint or creating a gallery wall with framed photos. Repurposing old items, like turning a ladder into a bookshelf, adds charm without extra cost.

4. Swap Out Textiles

Sometimes all it takes to refresh a room is new throw pillows or a cozy blanket. Choose colors and patterns that match your style, and swap them out seasonally to keep things interesting. Curtains and rugs are also great for giving your room a new look without spending much.

5. Rearrange and Repurpose

Before buying anything new, see what you can rearrange or repurpose. Move furniture from one room to another for a fresh perspective. An old dresser can become a chic entryway console with a little paint and new hardware.

6. Opt for Affordable Wall Treatments

Instead of expensive wallpaper, try peel-and-stick options. They’re budget-friendly and easy to change when you want a new look. Accent walls painted in bold colors can also make a big impact without a hefty price tag.

7. Use Plants to Add Life

Houseplants are an inexpensive way to add color and texture. Look for easy-to-care-for options like succulents or snake plants. Not only do they look great, but they also improve air quality.

8. Incorporate Personal Touches

Personal mementos make your space feel truly yours. Frame a handwritten recipe from your grandmother or display your kids’ artwork in stylish frames. These little details add warmth and personality.

9. Keep it Simple

Don’t overdo it. Minimalist decor can look chic and intentional. Choose a few meaningful items instead of cluttering your space with too many pieces. Less truly can be more.

10. Mix High and Low

Pair affordable finds with one or two splurge items. A budget-friendly sofa with designer throw pillows can look high-end without the cost. Mixing price points creates a balanced and stylish look.

Decorating on a budget doesn’t mean sacrificing style. With these simple strategies, you can create a home that’s uniquely yours without spending a fortune. Happy decorating!

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

5 Ways I Reset My Life When Everything Feels Off

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Sometimes life just feels… off. Like your energy’s weird, your house is a mess, and your brain is yelling “nope.” When that happens, I don’t panic. I just hit my personal reset button. Here’s how I do it—quick, simple, and no fluff.

1. I Tidy One Room—Just One
Trying to clean the whole house? Overwhelming. But cleaning one room? Totally doable. I usually start with the bedroom. It sets the tone for everything else. And let me tell you—nothing hits like walking into a clean, calm space.

2. I Write It All Out
Grab a notebook or the back of a receipt, I don’t care. I just brain dump everything. What’s bothering me, what I need to do, what I’m avoiding. Somehow writing it all down makes it feel 100% more manageable.

3. I Drink Water and Go Outside
Simple? Yep. Effective? You bet. Half the time, I’m not in a funk—I’m just dehydrated and haven’t seen daylight in 3 days. A big glass of water and a short walk changes everything.

4. I Do a Phone Detox
Not forever. Just for a few hours. I put it on silent and do something offline. Read. Cook. Blast music and dance in the kitchen like nobody’s watching (they aren’t, thankfully). Anything to break that endless scroll spiral.

5. I Go to Bed Early, No Shame
When all else fails, I restart with sleep. I shut it all down—lights, TV, brain, everything. A full night’s rest fixes way more than we give it credit for.

I don’t always get it perfect, but this little list pulls me out of the weird zone every time. When life feels off, you don’t need a total overhaul. Just a few small steps to feel human again.

Which one are you trying first?

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

The Truth About “Having It All Together”

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We’ve all seen those people who seem like they’ve got it all figured out. Their homes are spotless, their schedules are color-coded, and somehow, they still have time to work out, meal prep, and look like they stepped out of a magazine. It’s easy to look at them and feel like you’re falling behind in life. But let’s be honest—“having it all together” is usually just smoke and mirrors.

The truth? Most people are faking it. They’re showing you their best moments and hiding the chaos just off-screen. And chances are, they feel just as overwhelmed as you do.

What Does It Even Mean?

Here’s the problem—there’s no clear definition of what “having it all together” actually means. For some, it might be financial stability and a steady job. For others, it’s a peaceful home and quality time with family. Some people feel accomplished just getting out of bed and brushing their teeth, and guess what? That counts.

So when we compare ourselves to someone else’s version of “together,” we’re playing a game we can’t win. Everyone’s life looks different. Everyone’s goals are different. Trying to keep up with someone else’s pace is just asking for burnout.

Social Media Messes with Us

Let’s talk about the biggest offender—social media. Instagram and TikTok are full of people who appear to be living their best lives. Their homes are picture-perfect, their mornings start at 5 a.m., and they’re always productive and positive.

But here’s what you don’t see: the arguments before the family photos. The mental breakdowns between videos. The piles of laundry cropped out of every shot. Social media is a highlight reel, not real life. Comparing yourself to that is like comparing your raw footage to someone else’s edited film.

Nobody Feels 100% Together

Even the most organized, put-together people have messy days. They forget things. They cry in the shower. They stare at the ceiling wondering what they’re doing with their lives. No one is immune to stress, doubt, or feeling like a total failure sometimes.

So if you’re feeling overwhelmed or lost, know this—you are not the only one. It’s normal. It’s human. And despite what it may feel like, it’s not a sign that you’re doing life wrong.

You Don’t Need to Do It All

A big part of the pressure comes from the idea that you should be able to do it all—and do it well. Work full time, raise kids, keep the house clean, eat healthy, stay fit, maintain friendships, and smile through it all. Sounds exhausting, right? That’s because it is.

Life isn’t meant to be a perfectly balanced to-do list. It’s messy and unpredictable. Some days you’ll feel on top of things. Other days, you’ll forget what day it even is. That doesn’t make you lazy or broken. It makes you normal.

Focus on What Matters to You

Instead of chasing some made-up idea of “together,” focus on what feels good to you. What makes you feel like your life is working? Is it having a clean kitchen? Or is it spending time with your kids even if the dishes pile up?

Your version of success doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You get to decide what’s important and what can wait. And yes, sometimes that means cereal for dinner and laundry that doesn’t get folded. That’s okay.

Celebrate the Small Wins

You don’t need a picture-perfect life to be proud of yourself. Got out of bed on time? Win. Took a shower? Win. Answered an email you’ve been avoiding? Major win.

We spend so much time beating ourselves up for what we didn’t do that we forget to acknowledge everything we did manage. Give yourself credit. You’re doing more than you think.

Final Thoughts

Having it all together is a myth. No one has every area of their life perfectly balanced at all times. Some people just hide the chaos better. Others are honest about it—and those are the people worth keeping close.

So stop chasing perfection. Show up as you are, flaws and all. Give yourself grace when things feel out of control. And remember, the goal isn’t to have it all together. The goal is to live a life that feels real, joyful, and true to you.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Are We Too Obsessed with “Main Character” Energy?

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We’ve all seen it: the girl walking slowly through the crosswalk with her iced matcha and sunglasses, vibing to a song only she can hear. The TikToks with people declaring “main character energy” as they romanticize everything from grocery shopping to crying in the rain. On the surface, it seems empowering—owning your moment, being bold, making your life feel like a movie. But at what point does celebrating yourself turn into something a little… much?

What Even Is “Main Character” Energy?

“Main character energy” started as a fun reminder to stop coasting and start living with intention. And hey, there’s nothing wrong with that. Who doesn’t want to feel like the star of their own story? The idea is to add meaning to everyday life, to notice small joys, and to build confidence. All good things! But somewhere along the way, it got twisted. What began as a lighthearted trend now sometimes feels like a full-time performance.

Social Media Turned It Into a Show

Social media, of course, plays a huge role in this shift. We’re constantly seeing curated content that makes ordinary lives look like cinematic masterpieces. That trip to Target isn’t just a quick errand anymore—it’s a moment. A photoshoot. A chance to show the world how aesthetically pleasing your reusable bags are. Even something as mundane as making your bed or sipping tea is suddenly part of this larger, polished narrative. It can be fun—but it can also feel fake.

Unrealistic Expectations Start to Build

What’s more, this obsession with constantly being the main character can set up some unrealistic expectations. If every day isn’t packed with magic, growth, or an inspirational moment, it can start to feel like you’re doing something wrong. Not every morning is a sunrise jog followed by journaling and a picture-perfect breakfast. Sometimes the alarm doesn’t go off, your coffee spills, and you forget to put on deodorant. That doesn’t make you less important. It makes you human.

Comparison Is the Thief of Joy (Again)

There’s also the issue of comparison. Watching others live out their “main character” fantasy can make you question your own life. If you’re not jet-setting to dreamy locations or having deep, poetic conversations in a candlelit apartment, are you even doing it right? Yes. You are. Not every story has to look the same. Some people are on an adventure arc. Others are in their healing era. And some of us are just trying to get through Tuesday without screaming into the void.

You Don’t Have to Perform Every Day

The truth is, you don’t need to be the main character all the time. Sometimes you’re the comic relief, the background extra, or the person who just holds the door open. That doesn’t make your story any less meaningful. The quiet, unfiltered moments are just as real and valuable as the highlight reel. You don’t need a camera angle or a voiceover to matter.

So, Are We Too Obsessed?

Maybe. But that doesn’t mean we should throw the whole concept out. Let’s just bring it back to what it was meant to be: a little nudge to pay attention to our own lives, to be present, and to stop waiting for permission to enjoy ourselves. Just don’t lose yourself trying to be a star in someone else’s movie. Write your own script—flaws, mess, boring Tuesdays and all.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.