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Why I’m Focusing on Progress, Not Perfection, in 2025

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Perfection is overrated. For years, I chased it. Thanks to my untreated OCD, I wanted everything to be just right — my work, my home, my relationships. But all that chasing left me drained and frustrated.

In 2025, I’m shifting my focus. Instead of aiming for flawless, I’m aiming for better. Progress, not perfection, is my mantra this year.

Why the Change?

Life is messy. Unexpected things happen. Trying to control everything is exhausting and, honestly, impossible. When I look back, the times I’ve grown the most were when I let go of perfection.

In 2024, I caught myself holding back because I was afraid of failing. I didn’t try new things or take risks because I couldn’t guarantee a perfect outcome. That fear kept me stuck.

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Small Wins Matter

One thing I’ve learned: progress isn’t about big leaps. It’s about small steps forward.

Take working out, for example. I used to think if I couldn’t commit to an hour-long session, it wasn’t worth it. But last year, I started using my stationary bike desk for just 10 minutes a day. Those 10 minutes turned into 20. Then 30. Over time, I felt stronger and more confident.

It wasn’t perfect, but it worked. Little wins add up.

Perfection Kills Joy

When you’re obsessed with doing things perfectly, it’s hard to enjoy the process.

I used to bake cookies with my grandkids. Instead of laughing over spilled flour and crooked icing, I’d stress over getting them just right. The cookies didn’t matter. What mattered was the time we spent together. I missed that because I was too focused on perfection.

Not anymore. Now, I embrace the mess. Life’s sweetest moments are often imperfect.

Progress Builds Confidence

Every time I make progress, I feel proud. I see what I’m capable of, even if it’s just a tiny step forward. That confidence motivates me to keep going.

I’ve also learned to celebrate effort, not just results. Did I try? Did I show up? If the answer is yes, that’s a win.

Related: How to Beat Post-Holiday Blues

How I’m Embracing Progress

Here’s my plan for 2025:

  • Set realistic goals. Instead of “Write a book,” I’m aiming for “Write 500 words a week.” Breaking big goals into smaller steps makes them more manageable.
  • Focus on habits. Habits are the foundation of progress. I’m starting with simple ones like drinking more water and going to bed earlier.
  • Learn from mistakes. Perfection makes mistakes feel like failures. Progress sees them as lessons. If I mess up, I’ll ask myself, “What can I learn from this?”
  • Celebrate small wins. Whether it’s a productive morning or a kind word to a stranger, I’m acknowledging the good stuff.
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Progress Over Perfection in Real Life

Here’s how this mindset is already changing my life:

  • At work: I’ve stopped over-editing. I write, review, and move on. It’s freeing and saves so much time.
  • At home: My house isn’t spotless, but it’s lived in and cozy. I’d rather spend time with my husband than obsess over dust.
  • With myself: I’m kinder to me. I don’t beat myself up for skipped workouts or missed deadlines. Instead, I ask, “What’s next?”

A Year of Growth

Progress isn’t about where you start; it’s about where you’re going. In 2025, I’m giving myself grace to grow. Some days will be better than others. That’s okay. The goal isn’t to be perfect. It’s to keep moving forward.

If you’ve ever felt stuck chasing perfection, maybe it’s time to shift your focus too. Let’s embrace progress together. Who knows where it might take us?

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why Mondays Aren’t as Bad as You Think (Or Maybe They Are)

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Ah, Monday. The most dreaded day of the week.

For many, it feels like a harsh jolt back to reality after the weekend. But is Monday really as bad as we think? Or have we built it up in our heads to be worse than it is? Let’s break it down.

The Case for Mondays

First, let’s give Mondays a little credit. They’re not all bad. In fact, they can actually be a great day to reset and refocus.

  • A Fresh Start: Mondays are like mini New Year’s Days. They give us a chance to wipe the slate clean and start the week with new energy and intentions.
  • Structure Returns: After a relaxed or chaotic weekend, getting back into a routine can feel oddly comforting.
  • Productivity Boost: Studies show that people tend to be more motivated on Mondays. It’s the perfect time to tackle goals or start new projects.

The Case Against Mondays

Of course, Mondays have their downsides too.

  • The Sunday Scaries: Anticipating Monday can ruin an otherwise relaxing Sunday evening.
  • The Alarm Clock: After sleeping in on the weekend, that early alarm can feel especially brutal.
  • The Workload: A full inbox or a packed schedule can make Monday feel overwhelming before it even begins.

Why It’s Not All in Your Head

There’s actually some science behind why Mondays feel tough. Our bodies and minds take a little time to adjust from the weekend’s rhythm. When we disrupt our sleep patterns or routines over the weekend, Monday mornings hit harder. It’s not just mental—it’s physical too.

Tomorrow’s Monday, and It’s a Big One

Tomorrow is Santiago’s first day back to work in two weeks. It’ll be an adjustment, but hopefully, we can get back into the swing of things quickly. The good news? Mondays are like a reset button, and this could be the perfect chance to ease back into a routine.

Tips to Make Mondays Better

If Mondays feel like a chore, there are ways to soften the blow:

  1. Plan Something to Look Forward To: Schedule a lunch date, watch a favorite show, or treat yourself to something small.
  2. Ease Into It: Don’t overload your Monday with back-to-back tasks. Give yourself room to breathe.
  3. Prepare on Sunday: Set out clothes, meal prep, and plan your day ahead of time to reduce stress.
  4. Shift Your Mindset: Instead of dreading Monday, view it as a day to jumpstart your week.
  5. Prioritize Self-Care: Get enough sleep, eat a good breakfast, and take breaks as needed.

Mondays Are What You Make Them

At the end of the day, Mondays are just another day. They can be a source of stress or an opportunity to start fresh. It’s all about perspective.

So, the next time you hear someone groan about Monday, remind them: it’s not all bad. And if it is, well, there’s always Tuesday.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

This website may contain affiliate links, including links to products on Amazon. As an Amazon Affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases. This does not affect your purchase price but helps support the site at no additional cost to you. Thank you for your support!

Clean All Year: My Routine for a Tidy Home

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There’s something so satisfying about a clean and organized home, right? For me, it’s almost therapeutic. With a large house and a love for keeping things in order, I’ve found that routines and checklists are key to maintaining cleanliness throughout the year.

Living in a house with two stories and multiple rooms can be overwhelming at times. Our downstairs has a living room, dining room, kitchen, two bedrooms, two bathrooms, an office/craft room, and a den (or man cave). The upstairs has a large bedroom with an office/loft area. That’s a lot of space to keep clean! Thankfully, I’ve got a routine that works for me, and I’ve learned to make tidying up a daily habit rather than a daunting task.

Why Routine is My Best Friend

To be honest, I’m not ok if my home isn’t tidy. I suffer greatly from OCD, it’s just who I am. With so much space to maintain and two people using it, I have to stay on top of things. Our house is big, but we love to use every inch of it—switching from bedroom to bedroom, enjoying different spaces every week or two. This might sound a little strange, but I actually enjoy being at home. I love having everything clean, organized, and in its place.

But let’s face it, no one wants to spend their entire weekend cleaning. So, I’ve broken it down into a simple system of tasks that I do daily, weekly, and monthly. Trust me, it’s the only way to keep it all under control.

Related: Start the Year Fresh: Why I Deep Clean Between Christmas and New Year’s Day

My Weekly Cleaning Checklist

Here’s the weekly cleaning routine that helps me stay on top of things:

Monday
Bathrooms:

  • Scrub toilets
  • Thoroughly sweep and mop floors
  • Clean tubs and showers
  • Clean mirrors, faucets, sinks, and vanities
  • Empty Trash

Laundry:

  • Do all laundry that needs washing

Tuesday
Kitchen and Formal Dining:

  • Wipe down countertops with bleach
  • Wipe down countertop appliances (microwave, toaster oven, can opener, crockpot, etc.)
  • Wipe down refrigerator shelves and clean out as needed
  • Wipe down kitchen table and chairs
  • Thoroughly sweep and mop both floors
  • Quickly wipe down dining room table and chairs as it is rarely used

Wednesday
Living Room/Downstairs Bedrooms/Office/Craft Room:

  • Do a thorough vacuum
  • Sweep, mop, and dust entryway
  • Wipe down coffee and end tables
  • Empty Trash
  • Organize craft room as needed

Laundry:

  • Do all laundry that needs washing

Thursday
Upstairs Bedroom/Office:

  • Thorough vacuum
  • Clean my desk and TV stand with glass cleaner
  • Empty trash

Friday:

  • Just straighten up as needed

Saturday
Outside Tasks:

  • Sweep porches/patios as needed
  • Mow, pick up leaves, etc.

Sunday
Laundry:

  • Do any regular laundry that needs to be done
  • Wash sheets and comforters for whichever bedroom we are sleeping in that week
  • Wash dogs’ blankets

Daily Maintenance Tasks

Every day, I stick to these simple tasks to keep everything looking great:

  • Vacuum the living room, front bedroom, and office
  • Clean the kitchen, wash dishes, and sweep
  • Clean up pet areas

This daily routine helps maintain a clean home without feeling overwhelmed. It only takes a few minutes each day, and it’s worth it to avoid big messes later on.

The First Week of the Month: My Big Clean

Once a month, I go a little deeper. Here’s the rundown of what I tackle during the first week of the month:

  • Laundry: Wash curtains (all of mine are machine washable), shower curtains, and the kitchen tablecloth. Wash all throw rugs.
  • Dusting: I remove everything and dust the fireplace mantel, shelves, tables, dressers, TV stands, etc. (This is a big one for me since I have a ton of shelves and collectibles!)
  • General Tasks: Clean windows, mirrors, and TVs/computers with glass cleaner. Sweep and mop the staircase and wipe down the banister. Pull out shelves and tables that don’t normally move to sweep and vacuum. Wipe down ceiling fans and light fixtures. Make sure base boards are clean. I also change my air filters and plug-in refills as well.
  • Living Room: Vacuum the chair and couch, and vacuum behind the couch to remove debris. Clean the window seat in the entryway. Shampoo the carpet.
  • Bedrooms: Vacuum under the beds and clean window sills.
  • Office/Craft Room: Dust all desks and workstations.
  • Man Cave: Vacuum the couch and chair.
  • Kitchen: Thoroughly clean the fridge inside and out. Wipe down cabinet doors with boiling water. Clean the oven, stovetop, and toaster oven. (I use foil in the bottom of the oven and toaster oven to catch spills, which I change monthly.

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Why It Works for Me

With all of this cleaning, you might be wondering how I keep it all in order. My answer? Routine, routine, routine. By sticking to these checklists and making tidying a daily habit, I never feel like I’m falling behind. Plus, doing things little by little prevents me from getting overwhelmed.

The key to staying organized is figuring out what works best for you. I may have a large house and a lot of tasks on my plate, but having a structured cleaning routine allows me to enjoy all the space we’ve got. I’m not just cleaning for the sake of it—I’m creating an environment that’s inviting and peaceful, which makes me even more excited to spend time at home.

In the end, it’s not about perfection; it’s about consistency. If you make tidying a part of your day, week, and month, you’ll find it much easier to stay organized all year long!

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

This website may contain affiliate links, including links to products on Amazon. As an Amazon Affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases. This does not affect your purchase price but helps support the site at no additional cost to you. Thank you for your support!

Finding Your Groove: Easing Back Into a Routine After the Holidays

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The holidays are magical, aren’t they? But once the twinkling lights come down and the last slice of pie disappears, reality sets in. Getting back into a routine can feel like a mountain to climb. If you’re like me, it’s been a bit tricky. Santiago’s been off work for two weeks, and let’s just say our usual rhythm is still hibernating.

But here’s the thing: finding your groove again doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With a little patience and some simple steps, you can ease back into your routine and make it feel less like a chore.

1. Give Yourself Grace

First things first: cut yourself some slack. After weeks of late nights, rich food, and unstructured days, it’s normal to feel a little out of sorts. It’s okay if your mornings are slower or if you’re hitting snooze more than usual. Adjusting takes time, so don’t beat yourself up for not snapping back instantly.

2. Start Small

When your routine feels like a distant memory, start with small, manageable steps. For me, that means getting back to basics: getting up at 5 am, checking emails, and actually writing out a to-do list. Even the simplest tasks can build momentum and set the tone for a productive day.

3. Reassess Your Priorities

The holidays often give us a chance to reflect, whether it’s over a comforting cup of hot chocolate or a long walk. Use this post-holiday period to reevaluate what really matters. What do you want to focus on in the months ahead? Maybe it’s spending more time with family, tackling a big project, or simply taking better care of yourself.

Write down a few priorities and let them guide your daily routine. Having a clear focus can make the transition feel purposeful rather than daunting.

4. Set a Realistic Schedule

It’s tempting to jump straight back into a packed calendar, but that’s a surefire way to burn out. Instead, ease in gradually. We have been enjoying slower mornings while we adjust. I’ve found that spacing out commitments and giving myself buffer time between tasks has been a game changer.

Remember, routines are about creating structure, not stress.

5. Incorporate Something You Love

If diving straight into work feels too jarring, weave in something you’re excited about. For me, it’s sitting outside while it’s early or curling up with a good book for a few minutes before tackling my day. Adding small joys to your routine can make it feel less like a grind and more like a lifestyle you actually enjoy.

6. Focus on Your Health

After weeks of indulgence, your body might be begging for some TLC. Start with simple things like drinking more water, stretching in the morning, or adding more veggies to your meals. We have been trying to take evening walks, and it’s not only a way to move but also a chance to connect after the busyness of the holidays.

Getting enough sleep is also key. If your holiday schedule threw off your sleep patterns, try winding down earlier and setting a consistent bedtime. A rested mind and body can make all the difference.

7. Plan Something to Look Forward To

Post-holiday blues are real, especially when the decorations are packed away, and life feels a bit gray. Break up the monotony by planning something fun. It could be a weekend outing, a cozy movie night, or even a new hobby to try. Having something to look forward to can make settling back into a routine feel less dull.

Related: Why You Should Create a Vision Board for 2025

8. Embrace the Messy Middle

Here’s the truth: routines aren’t perfect. There will be days when you nail it and days when you feel like you’re floundering. That’s okay. We are still finding our footing, but we’re taking it day by day. The key is to keep showing up, even when it’s not pretty.

Final Thoughts

Easing back into a routine after the holidays isn’t about flipping a switch; it’s about finding balance. Start small, stay flexible, and sprinkle in things that make you happy. Give yourself the grace to ease into it, and remember that routines are there to support you, not box you in.

Before you know it, you’ll find your groove again. And who knows? Maybe this new routine will feel even better than the old one.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

January Work-from-Home Hacks for a Fresh Start

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The start of a new year is the perfect time to refresh your work-from-home routine. Whether you’re a seasoned remote worker or new to the game, these January hacks can help you stay productive and make your days more enjoyable.

1. Set the Tone with a Morning Routine

Working from home doesn’t mean skipping a morning routine. Start each day with intention by setting aside time to wake up fully. Try stretching, sipping a cup of coffee, or jotting down goals for the day. A morning ritual can help you transition from “home mode” to “work mode.”

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2. Refresh Your Workspace

January is a great time to give your workspace a mini makeover. Declutter your desk, add some greenery, and update your supplies. A clean, organized space can inspire creativity and keep you focused.

3. Master Your Schedule

Plan your day the night before to reduce morning stress. Use digital tools like Google Calendar or Trello to block off time for tasks. Don’t forget to schedule breaks! Taking short breaks helps recharge your mind and avoid burnout.

4. Dress for Success (Even at Home)

While pajamas are tempting, dressing up can boost your confidence and mindset. Choose something comfy yet professional—you’ll feel ready to tackle the day. Bonus: You’ll be camera-ready for those surprise video calls.

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5. Embrace Healthy Snacks

January often comes with resolutions, so stock up on healthy snacks like nuts, fruit, or yogurt. Keeping nutritious options nearby can help you stay energized and avoid the midday slump.

6. Move More

Sitting for long hours isn’t great for your body. Incorporate movement into your day by stretching, walking, or doing a quick workout. Even five minutes can make a big difference in your mood and energy levels.

7. Leverage Technology Wisely

From productivity apps to noise-canceling headphones, the right tools can enhance your workflow. Explore apps like Focus@Will for concentration or Zoom backgrounds that add fun to virtual meetings. Just don’t let technology distract you.

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8. Create Boundaries with Family and Friends

Working from home can blur the lines between work and personal life. Set boundaries by letting others know your work hours. Consider using a “do not disturb” sign or designated work area to minimize interruptions.

9. Celebrate Small Wins

Starting fresh in January means setting goals, but don’t forget to celebrate your achievements—big or small. Finished a challenging project? Treat yourself! Recognizing progress keeps you motivated.

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10. Stay Social

Remote work can feel isolating, so make an effort to connect with others. Schedule virtual coffee chats with colleagues or join online communities related to your industry. A little social interaction goes a long way.

11. Reflect and Adjust

Take time at the end of each week to reflect on what worked and what didn’t. Adjust your routine accordingly to stay on track. January is all about experimenting and finding what suits you best.

By incorporating these simple hacks, you can start the new year with a fresh, productive mindset. Remember, it’s all about balance and finding joy in your daily routine. Cheers to a successful January and an amazing year ahead!

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

This website may contain affiliate links, including links to products on Amazon. As an Amazon Affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases. This does not affect your purchase price but helps support the site at no additional cost to you. Thank you for your support!

How I Spent My New Year’s Day and Why It Was Perfectly Imperfect

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New Year’s Day isn’t always about grand celebrations or jam-packed schedules. Sometimes, the best way to start the year is with a slower pace—exactly how we spent ours. It wasn’t glamorous or particularly eventful, but it was just what we needed.

A Late Start

We slept in a little later than usual, and honestly, it felt great. After our little road trip and staying up late to ring in the New Year, catching some extra Z’s was a small luxury. There was no rush, no alarms, and no obligations waiting to pounce the moment we got up.

A Southern Tradition

Once I finally got moving, it was time to cook. For many, New Year’s Day is about tradition, and in our home, that means a classic Southern meal. I made ham, black-eyed peas, fried cabbage, and cornbread. The smell filled this entire house and brought a cozy, comforting vibe to the day. It turned out delicious—a small win to start the year off right.

Related: Start the Year Fresh: Why I Deep Clean Between Christmas and New Year’s Day

A Lazy Afternoon

The rest of the day? Pure laziness—and I wouldn’t change a thing. We watched some college football, which is practically a New Year’s Day requirement. He napped while I dove into a few Hallmark Christmas movies before they’re gone again. Those feel-good, predictable storylines were just the right amount of entertainment without demanding too much brainpower.

A Touch of Productivity

Amid the relaxation, I found a little time to get organized. I started planning my social media and blogging calendar for the year ahead. It felt good to put some thoughts on paper and outline what I want to accomplish in 2025. Even though it was just a start, it gave me a sense of direction and motivation.

Why It Was Perfectly Imperfect

Our New Year’s Day wasn’t Instagram-worthy, and that’s okay. It was simple, slow, and a mix of rest and reflection. We didn’t go out, dress up, or do anything remarkable. But we spent the day together, indulged in comfort food, and gave ourselves permission to just be.

Sometimes, it’s these perfectly imperfect days that set the tone for a great year ahead. No pressure, no perfection—just small, meaningful moments.

Here’s to more days like this in 2025.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Setting My Intentions for 2025

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As we step into a brand-new year, I’m excited to set my intentions and map out my goals for 2025. This year, I’m focusing on growth, creativity, and balance—all while staying true to what matters most to me. Here’s what I’m working towards:

Expanding My Income Streams

In 2025, I aim to have 5+ streams of income. Right now, I’m juggling four and have another in the works. Diversifying my income not only provides financial stability but also keeps life interesting. I have big hopes for the upcoming year and can’t wait to see how these opportunities unfold.

Taking Mama Crow’s Wax Melts to New Heights

Mama Crow’s is my passion project, and I’m determined to elevate it this year. From creating unique, memorable scents to expanding my online presence, I’m pouring everything I’ve got into making it a known name in the wax melt community. Here’s to growth, creativity, and bringing more joy to customers through every melt.

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Better Productivity and Time Management

Chico’s return to work has thrown my schedule into disarray. To reclaim my routine, I need to focus on productivity between 6 a.m. and 1:30 p.m. This means sticking to my schedule, minimizing distractions, and turning “more work, less scroll” into my mantra. Blogmas showed me that daily blogging is achievable, and I’d love to keep that momentum going. Creating an eBook every month is also on my radar!

Related: New Year, New You: Realistic Resolutions

Mastering Digital Products and Tools

I’m diving headfirst into mastering digital products. This includes becoming a pro at Canva and ChatGPT. These tools are essential for streamlining my work and adding value to my creative projects. With consistent practice, I know I can become an expert.

Embracing Creativity

This year, I want to explore my creative side even more. I plan to:

  • Finally learn how to use the sewing machine my kids gave me.
  • Spend more time painting and working on crafting projects.
  • Put my Silhouette Cameo 4 and t-shirt press to good use.

It’s all about making time for the hobbies that spark joy and keep my creative spirit alive.

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Reading Even More

Reading has always been a big part of my life, and I’m ready to take it up a notch. I alternate from reading on my Kindle Fire to traditional books. Mornings are spent delving into inspirational or self-improvement books during the drive with Santiago to his job. While bedtime is spent reading true crime, historical romance, or fictional ghost stories. Those are great, but I want to incorporate even more time to devour new stories and learn.

Healthier Choices and Movement

Healthwise, I’m focusing on better choices and more movement. My stationary bike desk has been underutilized, and it’s time to change that. Adding regular exercise to my routine, even while working, will make a world of difference.

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Becoming Debt-Free

This year, I’m determined to pay off all my loans and credit card balances. I’ve always avoided debt, but circumstances changed last year. By the end of 2025, I aim to be debt-free, except for my home and car, paving the way for financial peace.

Improving My Home

While I dream of moving to the country, I’ll focus on improving my current home if that’s not possible. New flooring, updated windows, and decluttering stored items are top priorities. My cleaning routine is solid, but a little revamping never hurts.

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Deepening Relationships

As Santiago and I celebrate 16 years together, I’m committed to continuing to grow our bond. Marriage is always a work in progress, and I want to be the best wife, mother, daughter, friend, and Gigi I can be. I’m also hopeful that Santiago’s return to work is temporary and that we’ll soon have more time together.

Growing Spiritually

My spiritual journey is a lifelong endeavor. I strive to grow closer to God and practice better Christian values daily. This goal anchors everything else I do and keeps me grounded.

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Here’s to 2025!

I’m ready to embrace this year with open arms and a determined spirit. These goals reflect what’s most important to me, and I’m excited to see what the year holds. What are your goals for 2025?

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

This website may contain affiliate links, including links to products on Amazon. As an Amazon Affiliate, I earn from qualifying purchases. This does not affect your purchase price but helps support the site at no additional cost to you. Thank you for your support!

A Final Adventure to End 2024

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As 2024 drew to a close, we found ourselves itching for one last adventure before the new year arrived. It wasn’t planned or prepped—just a spontaneous decision to hop in the car and see where the backroads would take us. That’s how we ended up spending a delightful day exploring Meridian, Hico, and Hamilton, Texas.

First Stop, Meridian

Our first stop was at Allsup’s in Meridian. Because let’s be honest, you can’t stop at Allsup’s and not get a burrito. It’s practically a Texas tradition, and it hit the spot as we fueled up for the rest of the day.

Exploring Hico’s Charm

From there, we made our way to Hico. We’ve been here several times and always like to take a stroll around the town square when we pass through. One highlight is reading up on the local legend, “Brushy” Bill Roberts, who some claim was the infamous Billy the Kid. Whether or not that’s true is up for debate, but it’s a fascinating piece of history that adds intrigue to the area. We usually visit the Billy the Kid Museum, but it was closed for the holiday.

A Reflective Stop in Hamilton

Our final stop was Hamilton, where we paid a visit to Roberts’ grave. It was a reflective moment—a reminder of how much history can be found in these small Texas towns. The grave seems to receive quite a few visitors. In fact, there was another couple pulling up as we were leaving. We also made a trip by the historic courthouse. It was a nice break to get away to where things move at a much slower pace.

The Scenic Backroads of Texas

The hilly landscapes along the way always mesmerize me, with rolling vistas and plateaus that seem to go on forever. Wildlife was everywhere, and we spotted several deer moving gracefully through the hills. Moments like these remind you of the simple beauty of nature and the gift of being present.

Embracing the Joy of Exploration

This impromptu trip was a reminder of the simplistic joy of exploration. You don’t need a grand plan or a big budget to create lasting memories. Sometimes, all it takes is a tank of gas, a sense of adventure, and a willingness to embrace the unexpected.

A Sunset to Remember

As we made our way home, the sun started to set below the horizon, painting the sky in hues of purple, orange and pink. It was the perfect ending to the day—and to the year. Here’s to more spontaneous adventures and beautiful backroads in 2025!

Looking Forward: My Final Reflections on 2024

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As the year draws to a close, I find myself in a reflective mood, looking back at 2024 with a mix of gratitude and hope. It’s been a year of challenges and lessons, but also one that reminds me of the importance of resilience and optimism.

Gratitude for Life and Health

At my age, every year feels like a blessing. I’m incredibly grateful to be healthy and alive. Sadly, not all of my friends were as fortunate this year, which has been a sobering reminder to cherish every moment. Their absence weighs on my heart, but it also encourages me to live more fully, to love more deeply, and to appreciate the simple joys of life.

Navigating Financial Challenges

2024 wasn’t an easy year financially, for us or for many Americans. Like countless families, we faced tough decisions. My husband had to re-enter the traditional workforce after years of us working side by side in our self-employment journey. It’s been an adjustment—harder than I ever imagined. The shift in our daily routine, the change in how we spend our time together, and the pressures that come with it have been significant.

Still, I’m proud of how we’ve handled it together. We’ve faced these challenges as a team, and that gives me hope for brighter days in 2025. This year taught us to prioritize what truly matters and reminded us that, even in tough times, we can adapt and persevere.

Learning to Let Go

2024 was also a year of learning to let go—of expectations, of plans that didn’t work out, and of things I can’t control. I’ve had to remind myself often that it’s okay to let go and trust that better things are ahead. Sometimes, letting go isn’t about giving up; it’s about creating space for new opportunities.

The Little Joys That Keep Us Going

Despite the challenges, there were moments of joy. Laughing with family, quiet nights by the fire, and unexpected acts of kindness from friends and strangers reminded me that even in hard times, there is good in the world. These small joys kept me grounded and gave me reasons to keep pushing forward.

Looking Ahead to 2025

While I reflect on the past, my heart is already set on the future. I’m hopeful that 2025 will bring new opportunities, stability, and peace. I want to see us return to a place where we feel more in control of our time and our lives.

This year has taught me that nothing is promised, but I’m choosing to walk into the new year with hope. I’m dreaming of a year where we regain some of what we lost—where my husband and I can work together again, where the financial struggles ease, and where the world feels a little lighter.

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Final Thoughts

2024 wasn’t the easiest year, but it was one of growth, reflection, and hard-earned lessons. It reminded me of my strength, my gratitude for what I have, and my hope for what’s to come. As we step into 2025, I’m holding onto that hope tightly.

Here’s to a fresh start, new opportunities, and the courage to keep moving forward.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

How to Make New Year’s Eve Special at Home

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For years, Santiago and I have celebrated New Year’s Eve at home. We get dressed up, sip celebratory drinks, light a fire, and enjoy the night together. It’s cozy, stress-free, and one of my favorite traditions. Whether you’re planning a quiet evening or hosting a big bash, there are plenty of ways to make New Year’s Eve feel special.

Set the Scene with Festive Decor

Who says your living room can’t look party-ready? Dim the lights, add candles or string lights, and sprinkle in a touch of sparkle. I keep it simple but festive—cozy blankets, gold accents, and fun noisemakers. If you’re hosting a larger group, take it up a notch with decorative party sets, a DIY photo booth corner, and a playlist to match the vibe.

Dress Up (Even If You’re Staying In)

Getting dressed up makes the night feel festive and sets the tone. We always get dressed, even if we’re just heading to the living room. Prefer comfy pajamas or a themed outfit? Go for it. The key is to wear something that makes you feel good.

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Indulge in Delicious Food and Drinks

Food is one of the highlights of our night. We love keeping it simple with finger foods like sliders, veggie trays, and chips and dip. For drinks, a signature cocktail or mocktail adds a festive flair. If you’re hosting, consider a DIY drink station—it’s fun, interactive, and ensures everyone’s glasses stay full.

Plan Activities to Keep the Fun Going

We enjoy watching New Year’s Eve specials on TV while by the fire. We also light the fire pit on the patio and spend some time outside as well. If my in-laws join us, we break out the cards for a game of poker or 31. For larger gatherings, activities like karaoke or a dance party with a custom playlist keep the energy high.

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Reflect on the Year Together

One of my favorite traditions is taking time to reflect on the past year. The hubby and I sit together to share our favorite memories, laugh about funny moments, and talk about our hopes for the new year. It’s a simple yet meaningful way to prepare for what’s ahead.

Celebrate the Countdown

When the clock strikes midnight, make the moment count! Whether you’re watching the ball drop on TV, cheering with loved ones, or sharing a quiet kiss, it’s a magical time. We like to toast and go outside to watch all the fireworks, and soak in the joy of a fresh start.

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Go Big with a Larger Celebration

If a small gathering isn’t your style, hosting a larger bash can be just as memorable. Decorate with a fun theme, prepare games, and curate a countdown playlist. You can bring the excitement of a big event right into your home.

Cherish the Moment

New Year’s Eve is about celebrating the present and looking forward to the future. Whether it’s just you and your partner, a small group, or a big gathering, make it a night to remember. We love our quiet, cozy celebrations—it’s the perfect way to start the new year with love and laughter.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

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