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Cinco de Mayo: What Most Americans Get Wrong About It

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Every year on May 5th, Americans who look like me fire up the margarita machines, grab the faux sombreros, and toast to “Mexican Independence Day”… except, that’s not what Cinco de Mayo is at all.

As someone who’s spent a good bit of time in Mexico City, I’ve seen firsthand how misunderstood this holiday really is. My oldest son’s dad lived in the heart of CDMX for a stretch, and during that time, I learned a lot about Mexican culture and traditions — not just the tourist version, but the real, everyday rhythms of life.

And here’s the truth: Cinco de Mayo isn’t a major holiday in Mexico. In fact, outside of the city of Puebla — where the Battle of Puebla took place in 1862 — most of the country doesn’t do much to mark the occasion. It’s not a federal holiday, and in Mexico City, it usually passes without parades, fireworks, or fanfare.

September 16th, on the other hand, is the day that matters — Día de la Independencia. Now that is a celebration. Streets fill with music, families gather, flags wave proudly, and the entire country seems to come alive with patriotic pride. It’s their version of the Fourth of July — loud, passionate, and deeply meaningful.

So why is Cinco de Mayo such a big deal in the U.S.?

Over time, it’s evolved into a celebration of Mexican-American culture — which is worth celebrating — but somewhere along the way, the original meaning got blurred. What started as a commemoration of Mexico’s underdog victory over the French has turned into a marketing opportunity, often stripped of cultural context. And honestly? That deserves some reflection.

That said, in our house, we do love a reason to celebrate — but we do it with respect and authenticity. Tonight, Santiago and I will be grilling up carne asada tacos, making homemade salsa and guacamole, and enjoying an ice-cold Modelo on the patio. Not because we think it’s Mexican Independence Day — but because we appreciate the culture, the food, and the deeper stories behind it all.

So go ahead and enjoy the day — just maybe skip the sombrero and take a moment to learn what you’re really celebrating.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Let’s Travel to Des Moines, Iowa

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Des Moines, Iowa, is a thriving capital city that mixes small-town charm with big-city amenities. From stunning public art and historic landmarks to a buzzing food scene and nature trails, Des Moines offers a well-rounded travel experience. Whether you’re into politics, culture, or fresh air, this hidden gem of the Heartland is full of surprises. Pack your bags and get ready to explore Iowa’s capital like never before.

des moines capital building

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Interesting Facts:

  • State Fair Fame: The Iowa State Fair in Des Moines is one of the oldest and largest in the U.S., drawing over a million visitors annually.
  • Skywalk System: Downtown Des Moines has a 4-mile-long skywalk system—great for exploring during cold or rainy weather.
  • Political Hotspot: As the first stop in the presidential caucus cycle, Des Moines plays a key role in shaping national politics.
  • John and Mary Pappajohn Sculpture Park: This iconic park features over two dozen large-scale sculptures in the heart of downtown.
des moines bridge

Useful Information:

  • Best Time to Visit: Late spring to early fall (May–October) offers pleasant weather and the most events, including the famous state fair in August.
  • What to Wear: Casual and comfy is best. Layer up in spring or fall and be ready for warm summer days if visiting in peak season.
  • Getting Around: Des Moines is easy to drive in, but downtown is walkable. Rideshare services are available, and bike trails are abundant.
Des Moines botanical garden

What to Do:

  • Tour the Iowa State Capitol: Take in the stunning gold dome and elegant interior on a free guided tour—don’t miss the law library!
  • Stroll the Pappajohn Sculpture Park: This free outdoor park is a visual treat, perfect for a relaxing walk and great photo ops.
  • Visit the Greater Des Moines Botanical Garden: Explore lush indoor and outdoor gardens featuring exotic and regional plants.
  • Spend Time at the Des Moines Art Center: Offers modern and contemporary collections with free admission and rotating exhibits.
  • Catch a Show at the Des Moines Civic Center: Enjoy Broadway shows, concerts, and performances in a stunning downtown venue.
  • Walk or Bike the Principal Riverwalk: This scenic route along the Des Moines River connects major downtown attractions and public art installations.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren. This is the next installment in the Let’s Travel to…series, a collection of short informational articles covering some of the world’s top travel destinations.

Toss It, Wrap It, Eat It: Foil Pack Magic

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When it comes to cooking without a mess, impressing the family, or throwing together something hearty on the fly — you just can’t beat a good ol’ foil pack dinner. Some folks call ‘em hobo dinners, others call ‘em foil packets, but no matter what name you go with, one thing’s for sure: these things are foolproof, full of flavor, and perfect for just about any situation — especially camping, tailgating, or even a lazy Sunday like today.

Now, I’ve made all kinds over the years — from classic meat and potato combos to sausage and cabbage — but today, I’m fixin’ up one of my absolute favorites: Fajita Foil Packs.

My Fajita Foil Pack Special

These little flavor bombs are so simple, but man oh man, do they pack a punch. Here’s how I do it:

  • Protein: Beef steak (you can use skirt, sirloin, or whatever cut you like)
  • Veggies: Sliced bell peppers, onions, (2) whole jalapenos and a good handful of chopped cilantro
  • Seasoning: Salt, pepper, lemon pepper, and cumin — that’s the magic combo
  • Liquid: Just a splash of water to help everything steam and stay juicy

I wrap all that goodness up in heavy-duty foil, seal it tight, and toss it on the grill (or in the oven at 400°F) for about 60–90 minutes. I like to use an aluminum pie pan for extra protection from spillage. What comes out is tender, juicy steak and veggies that taste like you worked way harder than you actually did.

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Why Foil Pack Dinners Are a Game-Changer

I could write a love letter to foil packs — they’re that good. Here’s why folks keep coming back to ’em:

  • No cleanup. You cook and serve in the same little pouch. Just toss the foil when you’re done.
  • Customizable. Everyone can make their own. Perfect for picky eaters or folks with allergies.
  • Portable. Headed to the lake or campground? These travel like a dream.
  • Hard to mess up. As long as you don’t forget ’em on the fire, they’ll come out tasty every time.
  • Oven or grill-friendly. Rain or shine, you can make these indoors or out.

Other Foil Pack Favorites to Try

Need some new ideas? Here are a few other tried-and-true foil pack dinners you might wanna throw into your rotation:

1. Sausage, Potatoes, and Green Beans

Smoked sausage, baby red potatoes, and green beans seasoned with garlic, onion powder, and a pat of butter. Rustic and satisfying.

2. Lemon Garlic Shrimp and Asparagus

Perfect for a lighter dinner. Toss shrimp and asparagus with lemon juice, garlic, and a touch of olive oil.

3. BBQ Chicken and Corn

Boneless chicken thighs or breasts with BBQ sauce, corn on the cob chunks, and diced red potatoes. Sweet, smoky, and filling.

4. Cheesy Taco Foil Packs

Ground beef or turkey with taco seasoning, black beans, corn, and a sprinkle of shredded cheese. Great served with a dollop of sour cream after cooking.

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So whether you’re out at the campsite, cooking for a crowd, or just want an easy dinner with no dishes to wash, foil pack meals are a surefire winner. Today it’s fajitas, tomorrow maybe BBQ chicken — but whatever you choose, you can’t go wrong with dinner in a pouch.

Now if you’ll excuse me, my fajita packs are just about ready and this porch ain’t gonna sit itself. Y’all go try one of these this week — and thank me later!

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

This Blog Post Is Brought to You by Procrastination

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Because cleaning out the fridge just didn’t stand a chance today.

Let me tell you something about procrastination—it has a way of turning the smallest tasks into Olympic-level avoidance strategies. If you’re reading this, chances are you’re either dodging your own to-do list or just curious how this mess of a post came to life. Either way, welcome. You’re among friends here.

The To-Do List I Ignored to Write This

Let’s be real for a second. I didn’t sit down with a cup of herbal tea and a perfectly timed content calendar to write this masterpiece. No ma’am. This blog post exists because I was supposed to:

  • Clean out the junk drawer (you know the one—with sauce packets, random screws, and 17 rubber bands).
  • Respond to three emails from last week.
  • Figure out why my printer makes that noise like it’s coughing up a raccoon.
  • Actually fold the laundry I’ve been cycling through the dryer like it’s in witness protection.

Instead, here I am. Writing. And weirdly? Thriving.

The Procrastination Spiral Is Real

Procrastination isn’t laziness. Let’s clear that up right now. It’s more like… productivity’s sneaky little cousin. The one who means well, but ends up reorganizing your spice cabinet instead of finishing the task you’ve been dreading.

And once you’re in the spiral, it’s hard to escape:

  • First, you delay one little thing.
  • Then you justify it with “I work better under pressure.”
  • Before you know it, you’re baking banana bread at 8 p.m. on a Tuesday because “it just felt right.”

We’ve all been there. Some of us have unpacked entire emotional journeys while avoiding a single phone call.

But Here’s the Thing: Procrastination Has Its Perks

Now don’t get me wrong—I’m not here to glorify avoidance. But sometimes? Procrastination is a creative spark. It pushes you into weird little corners of your brain you wouldn’t normally explore. Like writing a blog post that wasn’t on your radar… and suddenly, it’s one of your favorites.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

  • Procrastination forces honesty. When you’re avoiding everything else, you tend to say exactly what’s on your mind.
  • It invites creativity. Some of my best ideas show up when I’m avoiding folding towels.
  • It reminds us we’re human. Perfection is boring. A little chaos? That’s where the magic is.

So If You’re Procrastinating Right Now…

Bless it. Lean into it. But maybe, just maybe, let your procrastination push you toward something fun, creative, or unexpected—like this blog post did for me.

And hey—if all else fails, just tell yourself you’re “channeling your inner artist.” Sounds fancier than “ignoring real responsibilities.”

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

5 Ways I Reset My Life When Everything Feels Off

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Sometimes life just feels… off. Like your energy’s weird, your house is a mess, and your brain is yelling “nope.” When that happens, I don’t panic. I just hit my personal reset button. Here’s how I do it—quick, simple, and no fluff.

1. I Tidy One Room—Just One
Trying to clean the whole house? Overwhelming. But cleaning one room? Totally doable. I usually start with the bedroom. It sets the tone for everything else. And let me tell you—nothing hits like walking into a clean, calm space.

2. I Write It All Out
Grab a notebook or the back of a receipt, I don’t care. I just brain dump everything. What’s bothering me, what I need to do, what I’m avoiding. Somehow writing it all down makes it feel 100% more manageable.

3. I Drink Water and Go Outside
Simple? Yep. Effective? You bet. Half the time, I’m not in a funk—I’m just dehydrated and haven’t seen daylight in 3 days. A big glass of water and a short walk changes everything.

4. I Do a Phone Detox
Not forever. Just for a few hours. I put it on silent and do something offline. Read. Cook. Blast music and dance in the kitchen like nobody’s watching (they aren’t, thankfully). Anything to break that endless scroll spiral.

5. I Go to Bed Early, No Shame
When all else fails, I restart with sleep. I shut it all down—lights, TV, brain, everything. A full night’s rest fixes way more than we give it credit for.

I don’t always get it perfect, but this little list pulls me out of the weird zone every time. When life feels off, you don’t need a total overhaul. Just a few small steps to feel human again.

Which one are you trying first?

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Let’s Travel To Indianapolis, Indiana

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Indianapolis skyline

Indianapolis, Indiana, is a dynamic Midwestern city that blends rich history, iconic sports culture, and family-friendly attractions. Whether you’re a racing fan, a lover of the arts, or just looking for an urban getaway with Hoosier hospitality, Indy delivers. So, pack your bags and get ready to explore this heartland gem that has a little something for everyone.

Indianapolis motor speedway

Interesting Facts:

  • Racing Capital of the World: Indy is home to the legendary Indianapolis Motor Speedway, the world’s largest sporting venue.
  • Mass Ave Arts District: The city’s Massachusetts Avenue is a cultural hot spot full of art galleries, theaters, and indie shops.
  • Canal Walk Surprise: Indy has its own canal district, originally built for shipping in the 1800s, now a scenic place for kayaking and strolling.
  • Largest Children’s Museum: It houses the largest children’s museum in the world, filled with interactive exhibits and dinosaur fossils.
WW1 monument

Useful Information:

  • Best Time to Visit: Late spring through early fall (May–October) is ideal for outdoor festivals, events, and great walking weather.
  • What to Wear: Dress comfortably—layers work best. Casual wear is fine for most attractions, with comfy shoes for exploring the city.
  • Getting Around: Indy is very drivable, but downtown is walkable and bike-friendly. Rideshares, scooters, and the Red Line bus are convenient options.
Indianpolis canal walk

What to Do:

  • Visit the Indianapolis Motor Speedway Museum: Even if you’re not a racing fanatic, this museum showcases iconic cars and Indy 500 history.
  • Explore the Children’s Museum of Indianapolis: A must-visit for families with five floors of exhibits ranging from science to pop culture.
  • Wander White River State Park: Enjoy green spaces, paddleboats, and access to major attractions like the zoo and museums.
  • Check Out the Indianapolis Zoo: Located in White River State Park, it features animal encounters, gardens, and a dolphin presentation.
  • Tour the Indianapolis Museum of Art at Newfields: Offers impressive art collections and outdoor spaces, including the beautiful Virginia B. Fairbanks Art & Nature Park.
  • Stroll the Indianapolis Canal Walk: A relaxing downtown path lined with gardens, art, and paddleboat rentals along the water.

Related: Let’s Travel to Rockford, Illinois

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren. This is the next installment in the Let’s Travel to…series, a collection of short informational articles covering some of the world’s top travel destinations.

Stay Hydrated: Easy Tips for Drinking More Water

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We all know water is crucial for our health, but even the most obvious things bear a friendly reminder every now and then. Drinking enough water helps our bodies in countless ways, from keeping our skin glowing to helping our brain think clearly. It’s easy to forget to drink when life gets busy. But remember, staying hydrated can lift your mood and boost your energy. It helps you feel your best overall.

Surprising Benefits of Water

Water does more than just quench thirst. For example, drinking plenty of water can help digestion. It breaks down food and keeps things moving smoothly in your gut, preventing those uncomfortable tummy troubles. Another cool perk is joint health. Our joints have a cushioning called cartilage that needs water to stay healthy and flexible. When you’re well-hydrated, your joints won’t feel as stiff or achy.

Plus, did you know water can even give you more energy? Sometimes that afternoon slump is just mild dehydration. A glass of water can clear foggy thinking and give you a pep in your step. Staying hydrated can also improve your mood and concentration. You’ll feel ready to tackle anything.

infused water

How Your Body Uses Water

Think of water as a superhero in your body. It’s in your blood, your cells, and all your vital organs. Every second, it works hard for you. Water helps your blood carry nutrients and oxygen to cells. It also flushes out waste so your body can operate smoothly. Plus, it even helps regulate your body temperature when you sweat on a hot day or during exercise. With enough water, your body’s “machinery” runs more smoothly. It’s like giving your system the fuel it needs.

Tips for Drinking More Water Every Day

Sipping more water doesn’t have to be hard or boring. Try carrying a fun water bottle with you as a reminder to drink throughout the day. You can even set mini goals, like finishing a bottle by lunch or refilling it a few times. Make it a habit by drinking a glass first thing in the morning and another before dinner. Setting little reminders on your phone can also help keep you on track. Also, sneak water into daily routines. Have a glass after brushing your teeth or take a sip between tasks or during TV commercials.

Another neat trick is to switch up your drinks. For example, drink water instead of soda or sugary juices sometimes. You could also replace one cup of coffee or tea with a glass of water each day. Over time, these small swaps can add up. It’s a big hydration win!

Make It Fun with Infused Water

If plain water feels dull, try adding flavors you love. I personally like to make a gallon of infused water a few times a week. My favorite combo is strawberry, cucumber, and mint – it tastes like a spa day in a glass! Another go-to is lemon and lime together for a tangy kick. Sometimes I toss in blueberries and a squeeze of lemon for a sweet-tart twist.

You can experiment with any fruits, herbs, or veggies. Just slice them up and add them to a pitcher of water. Let it chill in the fridge for a few hours or overnight to let the flavors mix in. Then, pour yourself a glass and enjoy the refreshing taste.

I find I drink so much more this way because it actually tastes delicious. Plus, you still get all the perks of plain water, just even tastier.

Keeping up your water intake is easier than you think. Small changes like these can add up quickly. Soon enough, you’ll notice more energy, better digestion, and even happier joints. Keep that water flowing – your body will thank you. Cheers to feeling refreshed and enjoying every sip!

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

The Truth About “Having It All Together”

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We’ve all seen those people who seem like they’ve got it all figured out. Their homes are spotless, their schedules are color-coded, and somehow, they still have time to work out, meal prep, and look like they stepped out of a magazine. It’s easy to look at them and feel like you’re falling behind in life. But let’s be honest—“having it all together” is usually just smoke and mirrors.

The truth? Most people are faking it. They’re showing you their best moments and hiding the chaos just off-screen. And chances are, they feel just as overwhelmed as you do.

What Does It Even Mean?

Here’s the problem—there’s no clear definition of what “having it all together” actually means. For some, it might be financial stability and a steady job. For others, it’s a peaceful home and quality time with family. Some people feel accomplished just getting out of bed and brushing their teeth, and guess what? That counts.

So when we compare ourselves to someone else’s version of “together,” we’re playing a game we can’t win. Everyone’s life looks different. Everyone’s goals are different. Trying to keep up with someone else’s pace is just asking for burnout.

Social Media Messes with Us

Let’s talk about the biggest offender—social media. Instagram and TikTok are full of people who appear to be living their best lives. Their homes are picture-perfect, their mornings start at 5 a.m., and they’re always productive and positive.

But here’s what you don’t see: the arguments before the family photos. The mental breakdowns between videos. The piles of laundry cropped out of every shot. Social media is a highlight reel, not real life. Comparing yourself to that is like comparing your raw footage to someone else’s edited film.

Nobody Feels 100% Together

Even the most organized, put-together people have messy days. They forget things. They cry in the shower. They stare at the ceiling wondering what they’re doing with their lives. No one is immune to stress, doubt, or feeling like a total failure sometimes.

So if you’re feeling overwhelmed or lost, know this—you are not the only one. It’s normal. It’s human. And despite what it may feel like, it’s not a sign that you’re doing life wrong.

You Don’t Need to Do It All

A big part of the pressure comes from the idea that you should be able to do it all—and do it well. Work full time, raise kids, keep the house clean, eat healthy, stay fit, maintain friendships, and smile through it all. Sounds exhausting, right? That’s because it is.

Life isn’t meant to be a perfectly balanced to-do list. It’s messy and unpredictable. Some days you’ll feel on top of things. Other days, you’ll forget what day it even is. That doesn’t make you lazy or broken. It makes you normal.

Focus on What Matters to You

Instead of chasing some made-up idea of “together,” focus on what feels good to you. What makes you feel like your life is working? Is it having a clean kitchen? Or is it spending time with your kids even if the dishes pile up?

Your version of success doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You get to decide what’s important and what can wait. And yes, sometimes that means cereal for dinner and laundry that doesn’t get folded. That’s okay.

Celebrate the Small Wins

You don’t need a picture-perfect life to be proud of yourself. Got out of bed on time? Win. Took a shower? Win. Answered an email you’ve been avoiding? Major win.

We spend so much time beating ourselves up for what we didn’t do that we forget to acknowledge everything we did manage. Give yourself credit. You’re doing more than you think.

Final Thoughts

Having it all together is a myth. No one has every area of their life perfectly balanced at all times. Some people just hide the chaos better. Others are honest about it—and those are the people worth keeping close.

So stop chasing perfection. Show up as you are, flaws and all. Give yourself grace when things feel out of control. And remember, the goal isn’t to have it all together. The goal is to live a life that feels real, joyful, and true to you.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why We’re Obsessed With Serial Killers

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True crime has exploded in popularity. From podcasts to documentaries, our fascination with serial killers continues to grow. But why are we so obsessed? It all comes down to human curiosity.

The Psychology Behind Curiosity

Humans are naturally curious creatures. We are wired to seek answers, especially when something feels dangerous or unknown. Serial killers represent the darkest corners of human behavior. Thus, many of us feel an intense need to understand them.

Furthermore, fear plays a large role. Learning about violent individuals helps us feel more in control. By studying their actions, we believe we can spot danger and protect ourselves.

Serial Killers Are Rare

Despite their heavy media presence, serial killers are extremely rare. This rarity makes them even more fascinating. People tend to obsess over things they don’t encounter every day.

Moreover, the shocking contrast between the killer’s outward appearance and their crimes draws us in. Many serial killers blend in, living normal lives. This contradiction fuels both fear and curiosity.

The Thrill Factor

Let’s be honest—true crime stories often feel thrilling. They trigger adrenaline without actual risk. Our brains crave stimulation, and crime stories deliver.

Additionally, these stories often have a puzzle-like quality. Listeners or viewers become amateur detectives, piecing together clues. Solving these mental puzzles provides satisfaction and excitement.

Media Plays a Huge Role

Transitioning to media influence, it’s clear it has shaped our obsession. Movies, books, and TV shows glamorize and dramatize serial killers. They turn real horror into entertainment.

Fictionalized versions, like Hannibal Lecter, create charismatic villains we can’t look away from. Even real-life killers, through interviews and documentaries, become dark celebrities.

A Safe Way to Explore Fear

Consuming true crime is a way to explore fear safely. We can experience terror without being in actual danger. Much like riding a roller coaster, it’s a controlled scare.

By understanding the worst-case scenarios, people often feel more prepared. Watching or listening can feel empowering rather than purely frightening.

Morbid Curiosity Is Natural

Humans have always had a morbid curiosity. History is filled with public executions and crime pamphlets. We are drawn to life’s extremes, both good and bad.

Serial killers represent an extreme form of evil. Studying them helps us confront our own questions about morality, humanity, and survival.

Victims Matter Too

Another important point is empathy. Many true crime consumers are deeply empathetic toward victims. They listen to honor the victims’ stories, not just for the thrill.

Raising awareness about these crimes can also lead to justice. It can push cold cases back into public view and help catch killers.

Conclusion: Our Curiosity Isn’t Going Away

In conclusion, our obsession with serial killers comes from many places—fear, curiosity, thrill-seeking, and empathy. It’s complex, just like human nature itself.

As long as true crime offers safe ways to explore danger and seek understanding, it will continue to captivate us. And perhaps, learning about the darkest parts of humanity reminds us why kindness and empathy matter even more.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Hosting a Kentucky Derby Party

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The Kentucky Derby has always been one of my favorite sporting events. I remember watching it as a little girl with my Granddaddy. It wasn’t just about the race; everything fascinated me, the hats, the dresses, and of course, the horses!

Since then, I’ve kept up the tradition of watching every first Saturday in May. This year it just so happens to fall on my Daddy’s 74th birthday. For the past few years, I’ve hosted a laid-back Derby party at home. It’s simple — just how I like it. There’s no pressure, no complicated planning, just the things I love about the Derby: the race, the food, and the drinks.

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What I Serve at My Kentucky Derby Party

Let’s talk about the essentials: mint juleps, delicate finger sandwiches, and lemon bars. You just can’t have a Derby party without these. I’m all about keeping it easy, delicious and Southern! The mint juleps are a must — they bring that authentic Derby feel to the day. And I’ll admit, I’m a sucker for a good lemon bar. There’s something about the tartness mixed with the sweetness that hits just right.

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The Excitement of the Race

Sure, I’m not at Churchill Downs, but the thrill of the race is still there. Every year, I get excited watching the horses thunder down the track, even from my living room. No matter how many times I’ve seen it, there’s something magical about those final moments — the tension, the speed, the drama.

It is definitely on my bucket list. Me and the hubby have been talking about going for years. I know we’ll get there soon!

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Why I Love the Kentucky Derby

The Kentucky Derby isn’t just a race, it’s a whole vibe. It’s a chance to relax, enjoy some good food and drinks, and feel like you’re part of something special. I love the energy that comes with the day — the anticipation building as the race gets closer, the excitement when they’re off, and the moment it’s all over, with everyone celebrating or groaning, depending on their pick.

Who’s my pick? I may or may not have my money on a handsome roan colt named Sandman.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.