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My Most Random Blog Post That Gets the Most Views

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(And Why It Still Shocks Me)

Out of all the blog posts I’ve written, one continues to show up in my stats week after week, month after month: “How to Spot the Signs of a Narcissist.” And let me tell you—I did not expect that one to take off the way it did.

It wasn’t planned. It wasn’t part of a content calendar. It just came pouring out of me one afternoon, and I hit publish without much thought. Looking back now, I realize that maybe that’s exactly why it resonated. It was real, raw, and straight from the heart.

Why I Don’t Talk About That Relationship Much

Here’s the truth: I don’t often speak on the relationship that inspired that post, because it left me with real, deep, lifelong trauma. I have PTSD. I spent 13 years in hell.

There was physical abuse almost daily—the kind that changes you, that leaves you looking over your shoulder for years even after you escape. I’ve had:

  • The tip of my ring finger almost completely severed and sewn back on.
  • My bicep slashed with a knife.
  • My skull cracked open.
  • Multiple fractured ribs and damage to my spine.

I fought back. Believe me, I fought back hard. But the emotional abuse? That’s the kind of pain that stays long after the bruises fade. I will never trust anyone and need constant reassurance. I am also cold in so many ways.

The Emotional and Psychological Toll

No one talks enough about mental abuse. The kind that messes with your head and makes you feel like you’re losing your mind. I was manipulated, gaslit, belittled, isolated, and constantly walking on eggshells.

There was also sexual abuse. And a level of betrayal I can’t even fully put into words—infidelity that included one of my underage family members. Yeah. Let that sink in.

That relationship not only destroyed parts of me and changed me in unimaginable ways, but it also damaged my children in ways we’re still trying to understand. He is a sick man. And I will speak on the dangers of narcissism any time I get the chance.

I Wasn’t Alone… and Neither Are You

What really blew me away was how many people reached out after reading that post. Women. Men. People in romantic relationships. People dealing with narcissistic parents or toxic friends. The flood of messages made one thing clear: this problem is way more common than we think.

And unfortunately, social media is only making it worse. We live in an era where everything is filtered and curated, and narcissists thrive in that world. They crave admiration, attention, and validation—and social media hands it to them on a silver platter.

Why I’ll Never Stay Silent

I’ll never stop talking about narcissism. Because someone out there is living what I lived. Someone is in survival mode right now, scared and confused, thinking they’re alone. You’re not.

If you’re reading this and wondering if what you’re experiencing is abuse—trust your gut. If you feel like you’re walking on eggshells, constantly apologizing, and questioning your worth—trust your gut. If they love-bomb you, then devalue you, then act like you are the problem—trust your gut.

You can get out. It might take planning. It might take time. It will take courage. But you can be free.

We Heal by Speaking Up

That “random” blog post taught me something powerful: our stories matter. Even the painful ones. Maybe especially the painful ones. Because when we speak up, we give others the strength to do the same.

So if you’ve got a story buried inside you, one that’s aching to come out—write it. Share it. Talk about it. You never know who needs to hear it.

And if you’re still in the thick of it—I see you. I believe you. You are not alone.

📌 Need Help?

If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please know there are people who care and want to help:

National Domestic Violence Hotline
📞 1-800-799-7233
📱 Or text “START” to 88788
🌐 thehotline.org

You deserve to feel safe. You deserve to be loved without fear. And you deserve to heal.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why Being Content Isn’t the Same as Settling

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Some people think being content means you’ve stopped trying or that you’ve somehow given up. That couldn’t be further from the truth. There’s a big difference between being content and settling, and it’s important to know the difference. Contentment is about peace, not resignation. It’s about being thankful for what you have while still being open to more—not staying stuck in something that doesn’t fulfill you.

What It Really Means to Be Content

When you’re content, you’re satisfied and present. You’ve stopped constantly chasing happiness, waiting for the next big thing to finally make you feel good. Instead, you’ve learned to enjoy where you are right now. You appreciate your home, your people, your work, your little routines—even if everything isn’t perfect. Contentment comes from gratitude and emotional maturity. It doesn’t mean you don’t have goals or dreams. It just means your happiness doesn’t depend on checking off a list of “shoulds.”

Settling Is a Whole Different Story

Settling feels like defeat. It’s when you accept less than what you truly want, deserve, or need—not out of joy, but out of fear, doubt, or exhaustion. It can show up in relationships, jobs, or just the way you live day to day. Maybe you’ve told yourself, “This is just how life is now,” or “It’s too late to change.” That’s settling. It’s when you quiet your own voice just to keep the peace or avoid the unknown. And it’s usually accompanied by a low-level dissatisfaction you can’t quite shake.

The Energy Behind the Two Is Everything

The energy behind being content feels calm and grounded. You wake up feeling good about your choices. You feel proud of where you are, and you’re okay if things stay like this for a while. But the energy behind settling? It feels heavy. It’s like you’re carrying around a quiet regret. You’re doing your best to convince yourself it’s “fine,” but it doesn’t feel aligned. You’re not excited—you’re just surviving.

You Can Be Content and Still Want More

There’s a huge misconception that contentment means you’ve stopped striving for growth. That’s simply not true. You can be happy with what you have and still work toward something greater. You can love your relationship and still want to improve your communication. You can enjoy your job and still be open to new opportunities. Contentment doesn’t kill ambition—it just shifts your motivation from “I’ll be happy when…” to “I’m happy now, and I’m excited about what’s next.”

So, How Can You Tell the Difference?

Ask yourself a few honest questions. Do you feel at peace, or do you feel stuck? Are you proud of your life, or just tolerating it? Do you wake up looking forward to the day, or are you constantly waiting for the weekend? If your answers lean toward frustration or numbness, you might be settling. If they lean toward gratitude, curiosity, and confidence—even if things aren’t perfect—you’re likely in a space of contentment.

Bottom Line

Being content doesn’t mean you’ve lowered your standards. It means you’ve stopped letting your happiness hinge on what’s missing. Settling, on the other hand, means you’ve stopped believing you can do better. There’s a big difference. You deserve a life that brings you peace and possibility. So, don’t confuse being content with giving up. Contentment is powerful. Settling is optional.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

How to Pivot Without Feeling Like You Failed

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Let’s get one thing straight: changing direction doesn’t mean you messed up. Not even close. Pivoting is growth. It’s awareness. It’s bold.

But still, it can feel like failure—especially if you’re someone who likes to follow through, finish strong, or stick with the plan. So, how do you shift gears without dragging around guilt or doubt?

Let’s talk about it.

First, Redefine What “Failure” Actually Means

Most of us were taught that quitting or changing our minds means we failed. But that’s just not true.

In reality, sticking with something that no longer serves you? That’s failure. You grow. Your needs shift. Your goals evolve. So your direction should, too.

If you’re making a pivot, it means you’ve learned something valuable. And that’s always a win.

Next, Remember Why You Started

Before you start beating yourself up, pause and reflect.

Ask yourself: Why did I begin this path in the first place? Maybe it made sense at the time. Maybe it helped you learn a new skill or gain confidence. That experience mattered—even if you’re done with it now.

Often, what felt like the right move back then helped get you to where you are today. That’s not failure. That’s part of the journey.

Then, Focus on What’s Ahead—Not What You’re Leaving

It’s easy to dwell on the time, money, or energy you’ve already invested. Totally normal.

But instead of thinking “I wasted so much,” try shifting that to “Now I know better.”

Where you’re headed next is the whole point of the pivot. If you keep looking in the rearview mirror, you’ll miss what’s ahead. Focus forward.

Be Honest With Yourself (And Others)

Sometimes we hang on just because we don’t want to explain ourselves. But let’s be real—that’s exhausting.

It’s okay to say, “This isn’t right for me anymore.” It’s okay to admit, “I thought I’d love it, but I don’t.”

Honesty doesn’t make you weak. It makes you wise. And when you own your pivot, other people respect it—even if they don’t understand it.

Remind Yourself That Pivoting Takes Courage

Letting go of the familiar is hard. Starting something new? Also hard. So the fact that you’re even considering a pivot is a big deal.

Courage isn’t about never doubting yourself. It’s about moving forward despite the doubts.

Give yourself credit. Not everyone’s brave enough to admit when something isn’t working. But you are.

Give Yourself Time to Adjust

Even when it’s the right move, pivoting can feel uncomfortable at first. That’s totally normal.

New directions take time. Don’t expect instant clarity or perfect results overnight. Give yourself space to figure it out.

Eventually, things start to click—and you’ll be glad you made the change.

Final Thoughts

You don’t need anyone’s permission to pivot. You don’t need to justify it. You don’t have to keep proving anything.

Pivoting doesn’t mean you failed. It means you’re listening to yourself. It means you’re choosing what feels right over what just looks right.

So pivot with pride. You’re not starting over. You’re just starting from experience.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Signs I’m Overdue for a Reset

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Ever wake up and just know something feels off? Like you’re running on fumes and everything’s a blur? Yeah, same. Life gets hectic, and sometimes we don’t even realize we’re long overdue for a reset. But the signs are there—we just have to recognize them.

Let’s talk about the biggest indicators it’s time to hit pause and refresh.

Everything Feels Like a Chore

When brushing your teeth or folding a t-shirt feels exhausting, that’s a sign. Of course, no one loves chores, but if basic tasks feel like climbing a mountain, your body and brain are waving red flags.

Even things you normally enjoy start feeling like obligations. That’s your cue. You’re not lazy. You’re worn out.

You’re Snapping Over Nothing

If a slow driver or a loud chewer makes your blood boil, take notice. Irritability is often the first sign of burnout creeping in.

Sure, we all get annoyed. But when your patience is on a 0-second timer every day, it’s time to recharge.

You Can’t Focus for More Than a Minute

You open your laptop to write an email, and suddenly you’re deep-diving into dog videos. Been there.

When your brain can’t stay on task, it’s not just distraction—it’s fatigue. Mental clutter makes focusing hard. A reset helps clear that fog.

Your Sleep is a Hot Mess

You’re tired all day but wide awake at night. Sound familiar?

Sleep struggles are a major red flag. Whether you’re tossing, turning, or dreaming about missed deadlines, your mind is in overdrive. You’re not just tired—you’re overstimulated and out of balance.

Your Phone Screen Time is Embarrassing

Let’s be real. Doomscrolling isn’t relaxing. If your screen time is creeping into double digits, you’re probably avoiding something.

And that “something” is often your own feelings, burnout, or lack of motivation. Constant scrolling is a quick escape, but it’s not a cure.

You’re Saying “I Don’t Care” Way Too Much

Losing interest in things you usually love is a huge warning sign. If you’re constantly saying, “Whatever,” or “I don’t care,” pay attention.

Detachment isn’t always peace. Sometimes it’s emotional exhaustion in disguise. Your spark is still there—it just needs space to come back.

You Don’t Feel Like Yourself

This one’s big. Maybe you’re still doing all the right things, but it just doesn’t feel like you.

You’re going through the motions, but everything’s kind of dull. No motivation. No excitement. Just autopilot.

When your own reflection feels like a stranger, it’s time to check in with yourself.

So, What’s the Fix?

A reset doesn’t mean you have to disappear for a week or take a fancy trip. It can be small but intentional.

Take a day off social media. Clean your space. Move your body. Journal what’s on your mind. Take a nap without guilt. Drink more water. Say no more often. Get outside.

The key is to give yourself permission to slow down and reconnect. A reset is about you—what you need, what you’re missing, and how you want to feel again.

Final Thoughts

Recognizing the signs of burnout is a superpower. It means you’re self-aware. It means you’re ready to take back control of your energy and mindset.

So next time you feel off, don’t ignore it. Listen. Reset. Repeat.

You’ve got this.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Why I Don’t Work a “Normal” 9–5 Schedule

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I have always done exactly what I want. I just can’t fathom asking someone if I can go to the restroom or have a day off at this point in my life. I also have a hard time imagining spending 40 hours at a job slaving to make the owners rich. I’m way too hard-headed.

I’ve Never Been a “Typical Job” Kind of Person

I’ve had very few “normal” jobs in my life. The idea of clocking in at 9 and out at 5 never felt like a fit. For most of my adult life, I’ve worked for myself—whether that meant running my own business or taking on 1099 contract work.

Family Was My Why

The reason I chose this path came down to one non-negotiable: my kids. With six of them, there was always something happening. Events, appointments, after-school activities—you name it. I refused to miss out. I didn’t want them to have to say no to things just because I couldn’t make it work with a job. That wasn’t going to happen on my watch.

Why I Chose Cosmetology

That commitment to being present is what pushed me toward cosmetology. Becoming a hairstylist and manicurist meant I could set my own schedule. I could make money and still be available when my kids needed me. If I wanted to take off for a sporting event or cancel appointments for a sick day, I could. That kind of freedom? Game-changer.

Remote Work Before It Was Cool

In 2012, I made another big leap—into remote work. Back then, hardly anyone in my area was working from home. I was definitely one of the first. Most people didn’t even understand what I was doing. I’d get confused looks when I said I worked online. But I saw the future, and I wasn’t waiting around for others to catch up.

Building a Life on My Terms

Remote work opened up an entirely new world for me. I could work early in the morning, late at night, or whenever I had a gap in my day. It let me continue to be there for my family without sacrificing income. And more than that, it gave me ownership over my time.

I Still Don’t Work the Way Most People Do

Even now, when remote work is way more accepted, I still don’t follow a typical schedule. I’ve been doing this for over a decade, and I’ve figured out a rhythm that actually works for my life. I start early, get my priorities in order, and fit work into the pockets of time that make sense. I don’t need a time clock to tell me when I’m productive.

My Life, My Rules

Choosing not to work a 9–5 doesn’t mean I’m lazy or don’t take my work seriously. It means I’ve been intentional about creating a life that fits me. One where I don’t have to compromise the things that matter most.

If you’re wondering if it’s possible to break out of the “normal” work mold—it is. I’ve done it. And I’d do it all over again in a heartbeat.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

How I Create Content on Empty-Brain Days

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Let’s be real—some days, the creative spark just isn’t there. You sit at your desk. You stare at the screen. And your brain? Crickets.

I’ve been there. Way more times than I’d like to admit. But over the years, I’ve found a few tricks that help me push through—even when my brain feels like a wrung-out sponge.

So, if you’re sitting there thinking, “I’ve got nothing,” keep reading. I promise it gets better.

I Start With a Brain Dump

When I feel stuck, I stop trying to be clever. I grab a notebook or open a blank document and just let my thoughts spill out. No pressure, no fancy sentences, no goal—just writing.

Sometimes I list random to-dos. Other times, I vent about how I’m stuck. The magic here isn’t in what I write—it’s that I’m writing something. Anything. It gets the wheels turning without the stress of creating something “good.”

I Revisit Old Ideas

After the brain dump, I’ll scroll through my old idea lists—the ones I jotted down and forgot about. Most of the time, I find a title or half-formed thought that sparks something.

Maybe I wasn’t ready to write that post before, but now it clicks. And if it doesn’t? I might still borrow a piece of it to start something fresh. It’s way easier than starting from scratch.

Templates Are My Besties

If I’m really dragging, I grab a template. Not a cookie-cutter one—but a structure that helps me get moving. For example, a simple “5 Tips” list or a “How-To” format gives my brain a path to follow.

Having a format takes away the overwhelming feeling of endless possibility. It narrows my focus just enough to make progress. And once I’m rolling, the creative energy tends to follow.

I Talk It Out

When typing isn’t working, I open the voice recorder on my phone and start talking. I pretend I’m explaining the topic to a friend or answering a question someone asked me.

This method lets my thoughts flow more naturally. Later, I go back, transcribe what I said, and clean it up. Surprisingly, some of my favorite lines come from these unfiltered rambles.

I Change My Scenery

Nothing dries up my creativity faster than staying in the same place all day. If I’ve been sitting at my desk too long, I move. I might go sit outside, switch to the kitchen table, or even write from the floor with a blanket.

The change doesn’t have to be dramatic. Just shifting my physical space often helps shift my mental space too. A fresh view can lead to fresh ideas.

I Let Go of Perfect

This one’s the hardest, but it makes the biggest difference. When I feel blocked, it’s usually because I’m chasing perfection on the first try. That’s a losing game.

Now, I give myself permission to write something messy, even bad. Because messy drafts lead to something real. And real can be edited. A blank page? That’s impossible to work with.

Final Thoughts

Creating content when your brain feels empty is hard—but it’s not impossible. You don’t have to wait for inspiration. You just need momentum.

Start with anything. Use old notes. Try a template. Talk it out. Change your space. But most of all, let go of the need to be perfect. The ideas are still in there. You just need a way to shake them loose.

And once you do, you’ll be surprised at what you create—even on the emptiest of days.

Related: Apps That Make My Life Way Easier (and a Few That Waste My Time)

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Let’s Travel to Rockford, Illinois

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Rockford, Illinois, is a vibrant city filled with history, culture, and outdoor beauty. Known as the “Forest City,” Rockford offers stunning gardens, fascinating museums, and a thriving arts scene. Whether you’re exploring nature or diving into local history, this Midwest gem has something for everyone. Pack your bags and get ready to discover Rockford!

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Interesting Facts:

  • The Forest City: Rockford earned its nickname due to its abundance of parks and green spaces, with over 7,000 acres of public parkland.
  • Home to the Sock Monkey: The classic red-heeled sock monkey originated in Rockford, thanks to the local Nelson Knitting Company.
  • Aviation Innovation: Rockford is a major hub for aerospace manufacturing, with companies producing aircraft parts for Boeing and Airbus.
  • Anderson Japanese Gardens: Rockford’s Anderson Japanese Gardens is considered one of the top Japanese gardens in North America.
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Useful Information:

  • Best Time to Visit: Spring (April to June) and fall (September to October) offer mild weather, perfect for exploring the city’s parks and outdoor attractions.
  • What to Wear: Dress in layers, as Midwest weather can change quickly. Comfortable walking shoes are recommended for sightseeing.
  • Getting Around: A car is the best way to explore, but Rockford has public transportation and walkable areas downtown.

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What to Do:

  • Visit Anderson Japanese Gardens: Relax in this beautifully designed Japanese garden, featuring waterfalls, koi ponds, and serene landscapes.
  • Explore the Burpee Museum of Natural History: See Jane, one of the most complete juvenile T. rex skeletons ever discovered, and other fascinating exhibits.
  • Wander Through the Nicholas Conservatory & Gardens: Enjoy lush tropical plants and seasonal floral displays in this beautiful riverside conservatory.
  • Tour Midway Village Museum: Step back in time at this living history museum showcasing Rockford’s rich past with interactive exhibits and historic buildings.
  • Walk Along the Rock River Recreation Path: This scenic trail offers stunning river views and is perfect for walking, biking, or jogging.
  • Catch a Game at Rivets Stadium: Watch the Rockford Rivets, the city’s summer collegiate baseball team, for an exciting night of sports entertainment.

Related: Let’s Travel to Boise

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren. This is the next installment in the Let’s Travel to…series, a collection of short informational articles covering some of the world’s top travel destinations.

My Toxic Trait? Rewatching the Same Shows on Repeat

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I’ll admit it—I have a comfort TV habit, and I’m not even a little ashamed. My toxic trait? Well, one of my toxic traits… I rewatch the same shows over and over instead of trying new ones. I know there’s a world full of fresh, exciting series just waiting to be discovered. But why start something new when I already know what I love? A huge part of my OCD is I hate change, always have.

Let me paint the picture: I still watch the shows I grew up on. Little House on the Prairie, The Golden Girls, Murder, She Wrote, and Unsolved Mysteries are basically part of my DNA at this point. If you turn on my TV right now, chances are one of those is playing—or at least queued up. I watch every single one several times per week.

True Crime Is My Background Music

During the day while I work, I’ve usually got some true crime drama playing in the background. 48 Hours, Dateline, and Snapped are my go-to companions. Some people work to playlists or nature sounds—I work best with murder mysteries unfolding in front of me. There’s something weirdly soothing about it, even if I’ve seen the episode three times already.

Comfort Shows for Every Mood

When I’m not solving fictional crimes, I turn to my feel-good favorites. Hart of Dixie is basically my personal therapy. I’ve rewatched it so many times, I could probably jump in as an extra. The Good Witch is another cozy favorite that just makes everything feel a little more magical.

And yes… Jersey Shore has a spot in the rotation too. I know it’s wild and messy, but honestly? It’s hilarious. Plus, watching other people make chaotic decisions makes me feel better about mine.

Bedtime Is for Cartoons… Don’t Judge Me

Now here’s where things get funny. I sleep with Dora the Explorer or Sofia the First playing. Don’t ask me why—but it works. I used to struggle with nighttime panic attacks, and somehow, these soft, cheerful little shows ease my anxiety. The repetition, the gentle voices, the predictability—it’s like a bedtime security blanket for my brain.

Movies? Only the Ones I Already Know

I’m not big on movies unless they’re on Hallmark or Lifetime. Especially the Christmas ones—those are my jam. I have watched The Highwaymen more times than I care to admit. No regrets though. It’s familiar, and familiar is comfortable.

Why Try Something New When You Have Favorites?

You’d think with all the new shows constantly popping up, I’d try something fresh every now and then. But honestly? There’s something comforting about sticking with what you already love. No surprises, no emotional rollercoasters—just the same cozy characters and predictable plots.

Comfort Viewing Is a Form of Self-Care

Sure, maybe it’s a little quirky. But who cares? Life is stressful enough without feeling guilty for rewatching the same shows. If something brings you peace, laughter, or helps you fall asleep without panic attacks, I say go for it.

So if you’re like me and your “Watch Again” list looks more like a permanent playlist, you’re not alone. This is a safe space for all of us comfort show junkies.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Apps That Make My Life Way Easier (and a Few That Waste My Time)

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Let’s be honest. We all download apps hoping they’ll make life easier. Sometimes they do—and sometimes, well, they just eat up storage and sanity. I’ve tested a lot of them, especially as someone who works online, creates content, and has about 47 tabs open in my brain at all times.

Here’s a list of the apps I swear by (and a few that might look helpful but are really just time-wasters in disguise).

The MVPs: Apps That Save My Sanity

Canva

Canva is basically my design fairy godmother. Whether I’m creating graphics for blog posts, Instagram stories, or Pinterest pins, Canva is my go-to. It’s so easy to use that it almost feels unfair. There’s no learning curve, just drag, drop, and boom—graphics that look like I spent hours on them. I didn’t.

ChatGPT

Seriously, this app is like a supercharged assistant. Need blog ideas? Quick grammar check? A better way to phrase something? It’s right there. It helps me work faster and stay focused—two things that don’t always happen on their own.

CapCut

CapCut has made video editing actually fun. Whether I’m chopping up a reel, adding captions, or trying out a trending sound, it’s all super intuitive. Bonus: you don’t need a fancy editing background to make it work. If you’re doing any kind of short-form video, this one’s a must.

Later

Later helps me plan out my social media like a grown-up. I can drag and drop posts, schedule them ahead of time, and actually see what my feed will look like. No more last-minute panic posting or forgetting hashtags. It keeps me on track—especially when my brain is anything but organized.

Pinterest

This one’s tricky. Pinterest is both a productivity tool and a black hole. When I’m using it to plan blog content, schedule pins, or brainstorm visuals? Super helpful. When I accidentally fall into a rabbit hole of DIY pantry labels or “what to pack for Paris in the spring”? There goes my day.

The Time-Wasters (Sorry, Not Sorry)

Now, let’s talk about the apps that promise the world and deliver… meh.

Those Fake Productivity Apps

You know the ones. They have pretty dashboards, calming colors, and quotes about crushing goals. But instead of helping, they turn into a full-time job to manage. I spent more time customizing the planner than actually getting things done. If your “productivity” app takes longer to set up than your actual task, it’s not the vibe.

Overly Complicated Editing Apps

Some video and photo editing apps are just doing too much. I’m all for options, but if I need a YouTube tutorial to figure out how to crop a clip, I’m out. Give me simple and effective every time.

Every “Habit Tracker” I’ve Ever Tried

Don’t come for me—but most habit trackers just end up making me feel bad. I miss one day, and suddenly I’m spiraling. I get the appeal, but personally? A sticky note and a highlighter work better.

Final Thoughts

Apps should make your life easier, not harder. The good ones save time, spark creativity, and keep you moving forward. The not-so-good ones? They look cute on your home screen but rarely pull their weight.

So here’s to finding tools that actually help—and deleting the ones that don’t.

What apps can’t you live without (or regret downloading)? Let me know—I’m always up for trying something new… unless it’s another habit tracker.

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.

Quick DFW Getaway: Wax Haul, Food & True Crime Stops

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Dallas skyline

Dallas skyline from the Westside

We made a little weekend run up to the Dallas/Fort Worth area—nothing too wild, just a one-night stay—but we managed to squeeze in some good food, a couple of wax supply stops, and even a true crime pitstop or two. If you know me, then you know this trip was very on-brand.

Why We Went (And Why We Always End Up Staying)

The main reason for this trip was simple: wax melt supplies. With the way shipping costs are these days, it’s honestly cheaper for me to drive up to the DFW area and pick up what I need. I figured, why not make a night of it?

We’ve been to the metroplex more times than I can count—for Cowboys, Mavs, and Rangers games, rodeos, concerts, weekend getaways—you name it. But this time we decided to switch things up a bit and do a few things we hadn’t done before.

First Stop? Babe’s Chicken Dinner House (Obviously)

If we’re anywhere near Arlington, Babe’s Chicken Dinner House is a must. It’s always our first stop. Now, I don’t even eat chicken (ironic, right?), but their chicken fried steak is chef’s kiss. Add in endless sides like the best green beans and corn you’ll ever eat, mashed potatoes, creamy gravy, a simple salad, and warm, soft biscuits that taste like heaven… yeah, it’s easy to see why we never skip it.

The vibe is just as good as the food—Babe’s is set up like a little 1940s small town, complete with a post office, water tower, hen house, church, barber shop, and more. It’s adorable, quirky, and definitely part of what keeps us coming back.

Wax Supply Haul: Candle Nerd Heaven

After stuffing ourselves at Babe’s, we headed to Lone Star Candle Supply in Keller. I’ve been ordering from them for years, but this was my first time visiting in person. If you’re in the wax world—whether it’s melts, candles, soaps, or freshies—you have to check out their showroom. It’s impressive, organized, and honestly, I could’ve stayed in there forever sniffing oils and testing waxes.

Next, we stopped by Waxy Flower Candle Supply in Dallas. I’d seen them pop up on Facebook and figured why not check them out while we were in the area? They’re a smaller business but have a solid selection of fragrance oils—and they were having a sale! I grabbed a few to test and poured a run last night. I can’t wait to see how they cure!

Hotel Life: The Renaissance Dallas (with Some Bumps)

We stayed at the Renaissance Dallas, which we’ve stayed at a few times before and usually love. The hotel is beautiful, and the views are just so good. That said… this stay wasn’t totally smooth.

I really wanted the full hotel experience—room service, cozy night in, all of it. So we ordered cheeseburgers. They were listed as $38 for two, but by the time all the random fees were added, it jumped to $57… and gratuity wasn’t included. After tip, we paid nearly $70 for two very average cheeseburgers. And I mean frozen patty energy. I should’ve just waited for breakfast.

Then we went down to the bar—just a couple of drinks to wind down—and that little visit cost us another $70 (two drinks, two beers). Again, expected, but still a bit of a sting. To top it off, our AC went out in the middle of the night. Not unbearable, but definitely uncomfortable.

Even with those hiccups, I still love the Renaissance. The property is gorgeous, and we’ll definitely be back.

Clyde barrow's grave

Bucket List Stop: The Graves of Bonnie and Clyde

Sunday morning, we checked out and decided to knock something off our true crime bucket list—the graves of Bonnie and Clyde.

We started with Clyde’s grave, which is in West Dallas in the Oak Cliff area. Not the best neighborhood, and the cemetery itself is kind of wild—overgrown, old, and pretty rundown. Still, we found his grave and that of his brother Buck with no problem.

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Bonnie’s grave was in a much nicer part of town near the Dallas/Love Field Airport. It’s well-maintained, easy to find, and much more peaceful. Both graves had little “offerings” left behind—bullet casings, empty liquor bottles, flowers. It’s kind of amazing how fascinated people still are by these two. There were visitors coming and going the entire time we were there.

Lockharts BBQ

The BBQ Mission Continues: Lockhart’s in Oak Cliff

Before heading home, we were on a mission: find great Texas BBQ. We’ve been trying to hit up as many small-town, mom-and-pop BBQ joints as possible. This time, we chose Lockhart Smokehouse in the historic Oak Cliff district—and I’m so glad we did.

The area itself was a cool surprise—tons of foot traffic, taco stands, walk-up bars, funky shops, and an authentic neighborhood vibe. Lockhart’s has that classic BBQ shack feel, right down to your food being served on wax paper instead of plates (which, let’s be honest, is how you know it’s gonna be good).

I had brisket with blue cheese coleslaw (yes, I know that’s not for everyone, but it was so good). Santiago had brisket, sausage, and mac & cheese and was equally impressed. This place is officially added to our return list.

waco sign

I Love Dallas… But Only for a Day or Two

I enjoy visiting DFW—but after about 24 hours, I’m ready to hightail it home. Between the honking horns, bumper-to-bumper traffic, packed sidewalks, and sensory overload, I start craving my quiet house and my dogs.

One Last Stop: Buc-ee’s in Hillsboro

Before we made it home, we stopped at the Buc-ee’s in Hillsboro, which we hadn’t been to before—and y’all, it’s Buc-ee’s on steroids. Absolute pandemonium inside. We grabbed our usual beef jerky (because it’s a crime to leave without it) and hit the road.

Was it expensive? Absolutely.
Would I do it again? Yep.

Sometimes, you just need a quick reset—a little change of scenery, good food, and a few spontaneous stops. This trip might’ve put a dent in the wallet, but it did wonders for the soul. 💛

Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.