Ten years of blogging gives you perspective in a way nothing else really can. Trends change. Platforms rise and fall. Algorithms rewrite the rules every few months. Through all of it, the one constant has been learning as I go.
Not from some perfect master plan, but from showing up, messing up, adjusting, and continuing anyway.
Here are ten lessons I’ve learned that only time and consistency could teach.
1. Consistency Matters More Than Talent
Talent helps, but consistency builds everything.
Some of my most successful posts were not the ones I thought were my best writing. They were simply the ones that showed up at the right time, answered a real question, and stayed visible long enough to matter.
Showing up regularly beat being brilliant occasionally.
2. You Learn by Doing, Not Waiting
I spent way too much time early on thinking I needed to be more prepared before I could be taken seriously.
The truth is, most of what I know now came from publishing imperfect content and learning from the results. Experience teaches faster than overthinking ever will.
3. SEO Is a Skill, Not a Shortcut
Search traffic does not magically happen.
Learning SEO took patience, mistakes, and a lot of trial and error. Over time, it became less mysterious and more strategic. It is not about gaming the system. It is about understanding how people search and meeting them where they are.
4. Comparison Will Drain Your Motivation
Watching other bloggers grow faster almost convinced me I was doing something wrong.
What I eventually learned is that everyone is on a different timeline, with different goals, resources, and audiences. Comparison does not improve your work. It only makes you doubt it.
5. Your Voice Will Change
My writing voice today is not the same as it was ten years ago.
It is more confident, more honest, and less concerned with sounding a certain way. Growth changes how you express yourself. That is not something to fight. It is something to lean into.
6. Not Every Post Needs to Perform
Some posts will take off. Others will quietly exist.
I used to let low-performing posts discourage me. Now I see them as part of the ecosystem. Not everything needs to be a hit to be worthwhile.
7. Burnout Is Real
There were seasons when blogging felt heavy instead of fulfilling.
Learning when to slow down, change direction, or take breaks mattered just as much as learning how to grow. Sustainability is more important than constant output.
8. Readers Care About Real, Not Perfect
The posts that connected most deeply were never the most polished ones.
They were the honest ones. The reflective ones. The ones that felt human instead of curated. People connect to authenticity far more than perfection.
9. Traffic Does Not Equal Impact
High numbers feel good, but they are not the whole story.
Some of the most meaningful feedback I have ever received came from posts that did not perform well statistically. Impact cannot always be measured in analytics.
10. Quitting Would Have Cost Me Everything I Built
The biggest lesson of all is that staying matters.
Ten years of blogging exists because I kept going through doubt, frustration, slow growth, and change. Quitting would have erased not just content, but confidence, connection, and the voice I spent years building.
Still Learning, Still Growing
Ten years did not make me an expert on everything. It made me more comfortable with not knowing and more confident in continuing anyway.
I am still learning. Still adjusting. Still evolving.
And that, more than anything, is what blogging has taught me.
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Lisa Crow contributed to this article. She is a true crime junkie and lifestyle blogger based in Waco, Texas. Lisa is the Head of Content at Gigi’s Ramblings and Southern Bred True Crime Junkie. She spends her free time traveling when she can and making memories with her large family which consists of six children and fifteen grandchildren.