Let’s just say… she’s not the same girl who used to stress over everything. These days? I’m choosing peace, sleep, and not explaining myself. I didn’t plan on entering my IDGAF era—but now that I’m here? I’m staying a while.
Here are the not-so-subtle signs I’ve officially entered this fabulous new chapter.
I No Longer Feel the Need to Explain Myself
I used to over-explain everything. Why I said no. Why I left early. Why I changed my mind.
Not anymore.
If I don’t want to go somewhere, I don’t. And if I change course, I don’t send out a press release about it. It’s called growth.
I Don’t Answer Calls I Don’t Feel Like Answering
I see the phone ring. I stare at it. And I still don’t answer.
Sometimes, I just don’t have the energy for small talk—or nonsense. I’ll call back when (and if) I feel like it.
I Dress for Me, Not for the Internet
Used to be I wouldn’t leave the house unless I looked “put together.”
Now? I will absolutely show up in pajamas and a bun. Grocery store, school pick-up, wherever. I’m not trying to impress strangers anymore. It’s liberating.
I’ve Mastered the Art of Saying No
No is a full sentence. Repeat that.
I don’t feel guilty for turning down things that drain me. If it’s not a “heck yes,” it’s a “no thanks.” Protecting my peace is the new priority.
I Don’t Engage in Drama (Even When It’s Spicy)
Look, I used to live for the tea. But now? I’ll scroll past a mess like I didn’t even see it.
I’m not arguing, not defending, not diving into gossip circles. Let folks be wrong in peace.
I Let People Be Mad
Here’s a plot twist: someone being mad at me doesn’t make me wrong.
And these days? I’m not bending over backwards to fix every feeling. You mad? Take a number.
I Prioritize Rest Without Feeling Lazy
I’m not burning myself out just to prove I’m productive.
If I need a nap, I take one. If I need a quiet weekend, I don’t apologize for it. Rest is necessary—not negotiable.
I Don’t Chase People Anymore
Friendships, relationships, work connections—if it’s not mutual, I’m not forcing it.
The people meant for me show up. The rest? I don’t lose sleep over them anymore.
I Trust My Gut and Don’t Second-Guess
Before, I’d doubt my own instincts. Now? I trust that little voice inside.
I don’t need a dozen opinions before making a decision. I know what’s right for me—and that’s enough.
I Celebrate the Small Wins Like They’re Huge
Did I clean the kitchen and remember to drink water? That’s a win.
In this IDGAF era, I clap for myself every chance I get. No one else has to understand it.
I’m Comfortable Being “Too Much” or “Not Enough”
People will label you either way. So I decided to just be myself.
Too loud? Too quiet? Too real? Not their problem—and not mine either.
Final Thoughts
My IDGAF era isn’t about being cold or careless—it’s about finally putting myself first.
I still care… just not about everything. And that, my friend, feels glorious.
Welcome to your soft, strong, peaceful, powerful IDGAF era. It’s about time.